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25 new of 823 responses total.
bru
response 625 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 1 02:42 UTC 2002

the shortcut on the computer to my dialup failed.  Period.  Usually that
suggests the communications package has failed somewhere. I uninstalled the
win 98 com package, then got the win 98 CD an tried a re-install.  ^Thats when
all the funkyness began.
grimaldi
response 626 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 1 04:00 UTC 2002

Well.. here I am cleaning out my after college email inbox after about oh..
13 days of not checking it, and I find an email from the ex girlfriend who's
appendix exploded from the 20th wondering why I was so harsh on the phone when
I didn't even honestly know who I was talking to on the other end.. 
I think I'm just gonna become a cop with no social life.. women are
confusing...Now I'm the one saying I'll just be friends...We've been apart
for over a month. I've not honestly thought about her in several days and I've
been on a handful of dates with other engaging women. I'm wondering if I
should just clam up.. get a job, keep my money where my mouth is and wait for
some lucky lady that suits me perfectly to drop into my lap.
Viva la bachelor! Or something.. grr.. I need another drinks
michaela
response 627 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 1 05:17 UTC 2002

The trick is to find a woman who not only communicates, but is also at your
level of maturity.  Have patience.  I know it's difficult.
mynxcat
response 628 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 1 15:19 UTC 2002

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cmcgee
response 629 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 1 19:15 UTC 2002

My cousin gave me this advice when I was 20:

Never sleep with anyone crazier than you are.

It's pretty good standard, and keeps you with folks who are  just
about your maturity level ;-)

jaklumen
response 630 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 1 23:34 UTC 2002

IBB food poisoning, I think.  I hate taking off work, but thankfully, 
I have paid sick hours now.
orinoco
response 631 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 2 18:05 UTC 2002

I finally grew enough balls (I believe two is the requisite number) to tell
the Undatable One that I don't want to stay together.  It's good news, really
-- I've wanted out of this relationship for a long time.  But I'm bummed about
it, even still.  She doesn't believe that I mean it.  She thinks I'm just
stressed by the distance, and overreacting, and the next time she calls me
up, everything will be fine.  I may need to play the bad guy for quite a while
now before it sinks in.  And, hell, I miss her.  It was a shitty relationship,
but she's a pretty cool person.
keesan
response 632 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 3 02:05 UTC 2002

I hope you told her something like this - you liked her as a person.

Today Jim's fixed pentium unfixed itself (it has boot problems and serial port
problems) AFTER we had reinstalled all the boards and drives.  We tried to
look at the hard drive that had been in it and the computer said it had no
files on it and no file structure so we reformatted.  It took several tries
so Jim tried to run scandisk to find bad spots (he had found plenty before
but did not want to throw it out as it is a huge 340M).  Scandisk would not
run so he went to get the MS-DOS version (instead of DR-DOS) and decided to
put it on  a NEW boot disk (he had lots of old ones) and the floppy disk he
found was OS/2 so he put it in my computer (only one still usable with files
on it at his house) and typed FORMAT and then yes for go ahead and reformat
and we don't care if the files are lost.  So it did and now I have no files
on my C: drive.  And earlier today he was rummaging in teh closet and the two
hard drives I had used to back up those files fell and hit him so he put them
somewhere out of the way.  Some day we may find them again.

Time to set up a new computer.  At least I have most of the programs on the
computer at my office.  Jim will bike the computer from his house to my house
after he bikes over here on his new bike with brake cables for the old bike
that we was tuning up, that has the big basket, and both brake cables broke
two days ago during the tuneup.  Then he will bike back with the old bike to
get the computer to set up to replace the one he erased.  Tomorrow?

Worse things have happened but it was a waste of a lovely day.
michaela
response 633 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 3 05:40 UTC 2002

Orinoco - since I was on the receiving end of the same situation last month,
you really need to assure her that you think she's cool...it's just not
working.  Being the "bad guy" when you still like her will confuse her and
hurt her even more.  Please trust me.

Although, I had no delusions about my relationship being over.  That comes
from Dave being an excellent communicator and my huge amount of empathy.  So,
unlike her, I didn't believe we'd get back together.
keesan
response 634 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 3 13:55 UTC 2002

Jim reports that, last two nights he slept at my apartment, the phone rang
three times in a row around 4 am and when he picked it up there was only a
dial tone.  This happened a couple of years ago and it took over a year to
convince the phone company that it was something on the line.  Changing us
to the upstairs neighbor's line when she moved fixed the problem.  They had
insisted the problem was at our end.  I doubt I can get them to change the
line again.  It appears that my fax-phone switch is oversensitive to noises
on the line due to testing lines in the middle of the night.  So we have to
unplug the phone at night, or get a different switch.  Maybe we can get the
cordless phone to work so one line will be usable at night.
oval
response 635 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 3 14:49 UTC 2002

my cat's been acting weird for a few days. like a paranoid space cadet.

mynxcat
response 636 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 3 15:02 UTC 2002

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oval
response 637 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 3 15:11 UTC 2002

i have gotten my freaking federal refund.

flem
response 638 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 3 16:29 UTC 2002

Mixed results at my CPAP sleep study.  It did seem to help a bit, but they
weren't able to turn the pressure up to where it needed to be without waking
me up.  I had a little trouble with the mask, which I believe would pass, and
some difficulty sleeping in general from the unfamiliarity of it all, but
there were also other problems...  I may have more trouble adjusting to
breathing through my nose than adjusting to wearing the mask.  I'm naturally
a mouth breather because of the way my jaw is attached, which is something
it's hard to correct with external facial hardware. 
  On the plus side, however, there is reason to believe that fixing my
deviated septum will improve matters.  On the minus side, it will take 
several weeks to heal from this to the point where CPAP can be explored 
further.  
  Oh, well.  At least I know what the next steps are and am in the process
of taking them. 
eskarina
response 639 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 3 16:33 UTC 2002

When you get one, remind me to share with you all the CPAP jokes that my
sister and I have come up with over the years.  (My dad got one when I was
10 or so.  He's good natured about it.  Even "Gonzo, <breath> I am your father
<breath>".)
oval
response 640 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 3 20:43 UTC 2002

#637 should read: i haven't even gotten my freaking refund.

orinoco
response 641 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 3 20:44 UTC 2002

michaela -- It's a bit of a tightrope walk.  On the one hand, I could be a
real jackass just to end things conclusively.  As you said, that's out. 
It's tempting, but nothing I'd really consider -- that's not what I meant
by "being the bad guy."  On the other hand, I could do what I've done
before -- go too far on the side of being sensitive to her feelings, and
get back into a relationship I'm not happy with in order to make her
happy.  

In the middle, there's this fine line of kindly but firmly saying "no,
this doesn't work, but it's not your fault."  That's what I meant by
"being the bad guy" -- maybe "bearer of bad news" would be a better name
for it.  I've learned that I'm none too graceful at staying on that line,
but whichever side I fall off it on, things will get messy. 
michaela
response 642 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 3 22:34 UTC 2002

Re #641 - Yup.  This is why breakups suck.  Dave and I are still tightrope
walking after a month.  I promise that it gets easier a teeny tiny bit each
day.
eskarina
response 643 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 4 00:40 UTC 2002

grr... I skipped class one day last week so I'm missing one stupid idea that
I really need to write this stupid program...
grimaldi
response 644 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 4 05:44 UTC 2002

Got a call from the ex.. wondering how I was tonight, so she could tell me,
her health is still shitty and the incision on her stomach is doing poorly
for some odd reason (Possibly considering she had a ruptured appendix for
close to 3 weeks, didn't croak and wound up with two abcesses due to the
rupture in her abdominal cavity.. Just when I started not thinking about her.
she's talking to me again.. Geezum Crow!
 Grumble
jaklumen
response 645 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 4 07:50 UTC 2002

Still somewhat sick =P
keesan
response 646 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 4 16:19 UTC 2002

Re 644, maybe she still likes you but did not want to be as close as you did?
lynne
response 647 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 4 20:54 UTC 2002

IBB I just realized I'm supposed to be at dinner with my boss and labmates
while the Wings are finishing sweeping the Canes.  ;(
grimaldi
response 648 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 4 23:21 UTC 2002

IBB well, I went in to have the long time pre auricular cyst in front of my
right ear removed at 8am today. I waited till 10 before I was even put under..
I came to at noon... And the scarring won't be bad, but to prevent much the
said I believe that they went in thru my ear or some weird shit cause since
it was basically right there near the front of my ear, it feels like the
hearing in my right ear is somewhat blocked :( Grumble grumble.. Along with
the fact that the family gateway that I'm using is locking up and taking
several hard restarts from the power strip, the box and various other things
I'm uncomfortable doing to a computer, just to get it to finish booting up.
keesan
response 649 of 823: Mark Unseen   Jun 5 03:13 UTC 2002

Can you describe the problem in a bit more detail?  Does it start to boot and
then reboot itself?  Have you tried opening up the case to see if it works
better?  Sometimes they overheat due to dust inside and you can clean it out
carefully by blowing (with your mouse) or using a soft brush.  Do not use
compressed air because it creates static.  Sometimes you can remove the CMOS
and replace it carefully and reconfigure.  But it may be dying like ours did
this week.  We were given a replacement board said to have a boot and locking
up problem, Jim removed a lot of dust, and for us it works perfectly.
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