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slynne
response 61 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 20:30 UTC 2010

FWIW, the biggest reason I don't want to be on the board is the attitude
towards board members that guys like richard have. I just don't feel
like being anyone's punching bag. 
mary
response 62 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 20:37 UTC 2010

Yep.
richard
response 63 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 20:41 UTC 2010

Then you shouldn't be on the board.  Being a board member of any 
organization means taking responsibility.
mary
response 64 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 20:44 UTC 2010

(whoosh)
richard
response 65 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 20:56 UTC 2010

In fact one of the reasons Grex is in the position it is now, is 
because one board member, who was the treasurer, Aruba, became 
inactive.  Didn't say anything, didn't do anything.  Dropped off the 
radar for a year.  No treasurer's reports, no notices about 
memberships.  How could grex maintain memberships when the treasurer 
wasn't around to remind anyone what their status was?  

So suddenly its the end of last year and Grex has no members.  Pretty 
lousy situation right?  But if you'd listen to Mary and Slynne you'd 
get the idea that those who use and value grex should shut up and not 
say anything because those who didn't do what they said they'd do, what 
the position asked to be done, should be above criticism because they 
volunteered.

This is not the way it should work.  We can't work together to make a 
better Grex unless there's a common goal and those who accept 
responsibilities and titles to represent the other users work towards 
those goals.  Sometimes I wonder if some serve on the board simply 
because it looks good on a resume to say you were a sitting board 
member of an organization.  
slynne
response 66 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 21:00 UTC 2010

When you are ready to serve on the board richard, people might take your
criticism more seriously. As it stands, it is doing more harm than good.
richard
response 67 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 21:04 UTC 2010

So you are saying that the only people who can criticize board members 
who are other board members.  I use this board, I value this board.  
Why that isn't enough to be able to offer my own two cents about whats 
wrong here I don't get?  Slynne you are soundly horribly elitist.
richard
response 68 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 21:09 UTC 2010

Think about it.  I've offered half a dozen suggestions here in this 
item asking for such, to slynne's zero suggestions and mary's zero.  
They aren't offering new ideas, they are criticizing those who dare to 
say anything.  This is another example of grex's board and staff being 
way too insulated and cliquish, which has been an ongoing problem here 
for years.  This is why its the same people serving over and over.  Why 
should any well meaning outsiders want to serve on the board when all 
you get is apathy and thin skin.
slynne
response 69 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 21:11 UTC 2010

There is a difference between offering constructive ideas and berating
others for not doing the work you also are unwilling to do. 
richard
response 70 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 21:14 UTC 2010

I was assuming there were others who could do the work.  I don't live 
in Ann Arbor and I am not a CS tech person.  One can criticize the 
performance of invidividuals while not putting oneself up as the best 
person to do the job.  Hell I criticize the President sometimes and I 
don't put myself up as the one who should step in and do the job.
richard
response 71 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 21:33 UTC 2010

This item was entered to ask 'how do we move forward'?  What can be 
done to make Grex better?  I answered the question.  I gave material 
suggestions such as adding use of graphics, but I also gave non-
material suggestions like addressing the apathy of the group which is 
evidenced by the likewise apathy of board and staff.

slynne and mary offer NO new suggestions and attempt to swerve the 
discussion away from what can be done to improve grex, by slamming me 
for daring suggest that this growing apathy among some present/past 
board/staff members may or may not have been part of what has led to 
the current problem.

I'm trying to contribute.  I'm offering honest answers to the question 
the poster of this item asked.  I don't know why mary and slynne even 
posted in this item other than to slam me.  If they don't have a clue 
as to how to help grex at this point, or if they think participation on 
board or staff should put them above criticism, they should admit it 
and not serve on board or staff anymore.  Posting here also simply to 
slam one of the fewer users actively participating for daring to 
suggest anything or criticize anything about grex is not constructive.
slynne
response 72 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 21:54 UTC 2010

It would be different if there were a lot of people who wanted to be on
the board. People can be critical of the POTUS because even with all of
the criticism, there still are a lot of people willing to do the job.
That isn't the case here. Instead you are beating up the only people
willing to do *any* work because they arent willing to do enough work to
satisfy you. That makes people less likely to contribute. 

I appreciate constructive posts. But being overly critical of the few
people willing to do any work is not constructive. It is especially
annoying when it comes from someone not willing to actually contribute
in any meaningful way. Not to say that your suggestions aren't
meaningful but trust me, grex has never been short of people willing to
tell everyone what should be done. grex is short of people willing to do
anything. You do not need to be in Ann Arbor to serve on the board. You
need time and a phone. 

richard
response 73 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 22:11 UTC 2010

I contribute in the ways that I can.  I don't think I'd get elected to 
the board even if I did run, nor do I possess the expertise in cs to 
properly participate in many of the conversations.  I also have 
explicitly declined in the past to become a paying member because I 
object to a financial transaction being a required criteria for 
membership and to validation being required.  One should be able to 
earn a membership through conference participation.  Activity is a 
measurable value. I don't have anything against giving money, but there 
was a time grex had many users from around the world here and some 
could not pay money to exchange rate issues or could not or would not 
validate themselves.  Grex offered free anonymous access but you can't 
be a member free and anonymously.  I think the board's intransigence on 
these matters has been issue.  However now that membership rules have 
been waived left and right I guess its not such an issue.

kentn
response 74 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 23:11 UTC 2010

I wonder if all this animosity of discussion would happen if we all were
speaking face to face?  Perhaps, but I kind of doubt it would go on for
long.

I certainly don't appreciate being called apathetic or inflexible.
It sure doesn't make me want to work harder or listen/read more
attentively.  Our goal is generally to build a consensus before acting,
which is difficult to do at this time especially with objections to any
idea.  The Board can pass policies without asking the users but we try
not to do that, so that's one reason for this item.

Things like major policy changes and strategy development often have no
obvious answer and require much discussion before the best course can
be chosen.  So, the sooner we get to respectfully and constructively
discussing what we can do, the better.  

I don't find some of the comments very constructive or very explanatory.
For example, what does a "make or break overhaul" mean here (resp 51)?
What is entailed?  How much does it cost?  Etc.  Just saying we need an
overhaul isn't constructive.  But what an overhaul means to you, with
examples, might be helpful and influence our decisions.

As to blaming people for what they didn't do last year, and 5 week
outages last year, move on.  What's done is done and we've done what we
can do to not have it happen again at least in terms of outages.  Yes
it's important to understand how we got where we are, but blame is not
constructive.  You'll catch more flies with honey than you will with
vinegar.  Let's move forward.

I do appreciate the ideas.  It would be helpful if they did not often
appear as criticisms.  Putting people on the defensive is not the best
way to get a fair evaluation of your ideas.  And just tossing an idea
out there isn't the end of it because you need to potentially add to
what you said before people understand what you mean. You may even be
asked to compromise or modify your idea!  But that's the risk you take
when you start talking.
tod
response 75 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 23:19 UTC 2010

I'm sincere about the retro system approach.  I'm all about text based 
multi user systems.  
I try to ignore the static in this item at the personal attacks level.
richard
response 76 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 23:47 UTC 2010

re #74 thank you kent, I hear where you are coming from.
kentn
response 77 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 22 03:47 UTC 2010

Ok, thanks, Richard.
rcurl
response 78 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 22 04:56 UTC 2010

Re #69: "There is a difference between offering constructive ideas and 
berating others for not doing the work you also are unwilling to do."

You mean, we shouldn't criticize our president and congresspeople unless we
are willing to do the jobs ourselves? Tell that to the Tea Party.....

I take the opposite position. It is the duty of members to criticize the 
leaders of the organization for not doing their jobs to the best of 
their abilities. It may not cause improvement, but not doing so will 
definitely not cause improvements.
tonster
response 79 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 22 05:20 UTC 2010

I'm really behind in this item, and catching up.  This may get long.

resp:10: graphics are disabled? editing of responses is disabled?  was
there a technical or some other reason for doing this?  I'm not positive
about graphics, but certainly editing of responses requires no
recompilation of backtalk, it's a variable setting.  That would take
almost nothing to make work; I consider it broken for it to be disabled.

resp:15: You can link to other sites easily. Just paste a URL, it'll get
clickified.  HTML is also enabled, so you can create your own link if
necessary.

resp:18: Modified responses are clearly identified.  see: m-net's
backtalk implementation.

resp:26: that's not technically possible with backtalk, and quite
frankly is lame.
richard
response 80 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 22 05:22 UTC 2010

tonster I think graphics were left disabled when backtalk was installed
due to bandwidth concerns.  

It would be nice to for instance be able to embed a link to some cool
youtube clip in an item rather than just pasting a url.
tonster
response 81 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 22 05:28 UTC 2010

bandwidth concerns? was grex on dialup at the time or something? almost
all images I would imagine would be hosted offsite (like embedded links
to youtube videos), so that seems odd to me. I would certainly hope we
weren't concerned about that at provide.
mary
response 82 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 22 10:56 UTC 2010

Our volunteer staff are not paid politicians.  So, feel free to dump on 
'em all you want but don't be surprised when they don't come back for 
more.  It's happened with staff and we're well on our way to having it 
happen with the remainder of our volunteers.

To be frank - we've got our share of selfish people here with a sense of 
entitlement.  They are not interested in being team players, in give and 
take, in being constructive and volunteering to help. Mostly, they're 
just sitting back and waiting for someone (else) to turn off the lights.  
Sad.


mary
response 83 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 22 11:03 UTC 2010

Would there be any interest in discussing a second Grex?  I'm suggesting a 
system in the cloud, on different software, with a whole different look 
and rules that look nothing like what we have now.  Cyberspace Inc. would 
administrate this system and pay the hosting fee.  The board would call 
the shots on how it looks and acts getting input from the users.  This 
would be a place for discussions - no hardware or software futzing, no 
attached email, no linked party, etc.  

Radical for us?  You bet.  Too little too late?  Maybe.  Worth the try?
kentn
response 84 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 22 12:36 UTC 2010

Re 83: It seems to me we have two "camps" on Grex: those who want the
system to retain its "retro" feel (text conferencing, command line,
etc.) and those who want to see Grex modernize the interfaces to the
conferences and add more features, perhaps add blogging and other
applications that a lot of people expect of a more modern system.  

Both groups have valid preferences.  And this may be why we do not have
a consensus about what Grex should do. 

Having a second system would mean trying something to see how it works
in practice rather than arguing ideas to death and doing nothing new.  I
kind of like that idea, if we can't try new ideas on this system without
objections.

But it would also mean splitting our attention in terms of finances and
staff resources. Though who knows?  Maybe a newer system would interest
some staff more than this one?  Certainly staff interest in maintaining
the system is important.  

What do others think?
lar
response 85 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 22 13:17 UTC 2010

I think you don't have enough users for one system,,,much less two
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