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mcnally
response 53 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 01:03 UTC 2006

 The ones you've mentioned are highly addictive and very tricky to use
 safely, except over relatively short periods.  This girl may have to
 deal with this condition the rest of her life, from the sound of things.
jadecat
response 54 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 13:56 UTC 2006

Jonh- I hope everything goes very well for your soon-to-be-step-daughter. :)
edina
response 55 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 16:07 UTC 2006

John, good luck with everything!

Dave has a lot of pain due to an ankle injury, so a pain specialist is part
of our lives.  He has found that lyrica (a nerve medication) really seems to
help.  
jep
response 56 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 18:42 UTC 2006

She's a beautiful girl, a 4.0 student, and nice besides.  She's had 
such a great attitude... but it's been 9 months now.  Either the pain 
has gotten worse or she's finding it harder to deal with the problem.  
Goodness knows she has reason enough to be upset; it's forced her to 
cut out all of her high school activities; marching band, track, and 
cheer.  And the pain is constant.

No, she cannot be put on morphine for a condition which may last the 
rest of her life.  
edina
response 57 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 18:46 UTC 2006

I hope you're seeing a good pain specialist.
jep
response 58 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 18:49 UTC 2006

She's going to the Mott Children's Hospital Pain Center as I understand 
it.  I'll be going along on Friday, but haven't been involved up until 
now.  I've been hearing it all 2nd hand from my fiance and so I am sure 
I am confused about some of the details.
edina
response 59 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 18:58 UTC 2006

I hope all goes well.
slynne
response 60 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 22:00 UTC 2006

Chronic pain is a really terrible thing. I recently had a long talk 
about it with a friend whose wife suffers from chronic back pain. He 
worries that she is learning to be helpless and that he is enabling 
that by doing everything for her. But, on the other hand, he doesnt 
want to make her do things that cause her pain. 
edina
response 61 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 22:12 UTC 2006

Being married to someone with chronic pain, I consider myself blessed because
he *hates* being tied down with it, so he works hard to do what he can.  He's
far from helpless.

My sister-in-law, on the other hand, has bad knees and enjoys her
helplessness.  Which makes me want to beat her with a bat.
scholar
response 62 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 22:13 UTC 2006

I'm not sure people enjoy helplessness.
edina
response 63 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 22:19 UTC 2006

That's because you haven't met my sister-in-law.
twenex
response 64 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 22:33 UTC 2006

Sounds like she's trying it on, which happens. My problems are worse than bad
knees, and I'm hardly "helpless".
tod
response 65 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 22:52 UTC 2006

DITTO
aruba
response 66 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 11 03:27 UTC 2006

Re #61: A foam-rubber bat, I hope?
rcurl
response 67 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 11 05:33 UTC 2006

I've known people that seem to use chronic pain to get attention. Others
seem to "grin and bear it". 
tod
response 68 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 11 08:46 UTC 2006

I use it to get attention by giving it.
scholar
response 69 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 11 11:42 UTC 2006

eww.

i just puked for the first time in years.

all over the floor.

i mopped it up, though, and used bleach.  :(
fudge
response 70 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 11 14:03 UTC 2006

here's someone who could do with some. and some more. ^ ^ ^ 
glenda
response 71 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 11 14:18 UTC 2006

I have bad knees, severe arthritis in both.  I am in constant pain, each step
can be agony.  I am not helpless.  I sometimes get upset when STeve or the
kids baby me by doing the fetching and carrying for me.  Other times I quietly
let them or even ask for it.  Every time they do for me is one less time I
have to move and hurt which means more I can do later when I need or want to
do something and no one is around to do it for me.  I don't take it as them
making me helpless or dependant on them, I take it is them lovingly trying
to take care of me so that I don't hurt.  I would do the same for them in the
same situation and try to keep that in mind when I do get upset about it.
naftee
response 72 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 12 05:29 UTC 2006

re 69

what ! 
did you have a doughnut, about half a litre of chocolate milk, and then smoke
some really harsh marijuana ?!
dusted
response 73 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 12 11:51 UTC 2006

Well, in general im just feeling down, theres so little in my life that works
every step forward is a half back, when i finally succeed in something,
ill fail something else, getting me down, again, i dont get it...
i have everything in the world a guy could wish for, a loving family
a beautiful, really great girl, any way, it just suck being me..
take care ppl, mail me :P
slynne
response 74 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 12 17:44 UTC 2006

well, I am bummed because I am fighting off some kind of weird sickness 
or at least that is what I think is going on. Mostly I dont have any 
bad symptoms other than that I am *really* tired. I slept 16 hours last 
night and still had trouble getting up this morning. It is a weird 
feeling. Oh well, it could be worse. I could be miserable and NOT able 
to sleep. 

I have had some really cool dreams though. 
mcnally
response 75 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 12 17:51 UTC 2006

 Mystery illness brings on vivid dreams?  Sounds like a launching-off
 point for a horror/suspense novel.
slynne
response 76 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 12 18:02 UTC 2006

Oooh yeah. Too bad I dont have a talent for writing. Now that I think 
about it, I am bummed about *that* too. 
keesan
response 77 of 318: Mark Unseen   Jan 12 20:54 UTC 2006

My neighbor just mentioned having some virus that has made her very tired for
a couple of weeks already.  Did yours start with swollen lymph nodes in yours
throat, chills, and a headache?  (I have those today).
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