eeyore
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response 54 of 56:
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Feb 12 13:30 UTC 2002 |
I don't know....I'd be ready to go before him usually, but I *adore* long
bouts of foreplay. However, I don't know that they get me any readier for
sex.
One of the things that kind of messed up my last relationship was the fact
that I was a hell of a lot hornier than him. When we first started dating,
we saw each other almost every day, and managed to have sex probably 2/3 of
that. (depending on where we were). By the time we hit a little over two
years, I had to work at getting him into bed....he just wasn't that
interested. Kind of irritating when you are all ready to go, and he gives
the "not tonight" speech. On the other hand, since I fully believe in
anybody's right to say no at any time, I wasn't going to push it.
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morwen
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Feb 12 23:36 UTC 2002 |
<blush> okay, I guess I'm the victim of my own standard. I've read
that people tend to believe that everyone reacts the same as they
would. Guess that makes me a classic case. I was abused sexually when
I was ten. Type I. I'm in therapy for it, working on it. I guess
Psychology than I thought it did. But I still think that the way
people are made (ie the males having the penis in a visible spot) has
at least _something_ to do with it.
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