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25 new of 357 responses total.
mary
response 52 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 00:30 UTC 2010

The board is a group of people who have generously volunteered to help 
(note the word "help") keep the system viable.  They are working with not 
a lot of money, almost no staff, and a group of users who are unwilling to 
consider any change unless it meets their personal preference regardless 
of the bigger picture.  It's sad, really.

Go to your room, Richard, until you can come out and apologize to those 
willing to be your pinata.  Or get on the board yourself and show us how 
it should be done.  
lar
response 53 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 00:34 UTC 2010

*historic event*

I agree with mary
jep
response 54 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 01:48 UTC 2010

I don't know how much money Grex has now, but I quit being a member
because it had a big bankroll and nothing on which to spend money.  The
only purpose for contributing money to Grex under those circumstances is
because you don't want to have it yourself.  I think Grex still has
plenty of money for any conceivable need over quite a few years.

If it has a need for more money, I will send a check.  Grex is valuable
to me, and I will support it as needed.

I haven't voted because I am not a member and so not eligible.  I did
vote a half year ago when longtime users such as myself were invited to
do so.

As for a vision for the future, I like Grex now.  I won't use it if it
becomes anything like Facebook, because I don't enjoy Facebook.  And if
I did, I would spend time there. 

I agree that Grex needs a stronger user base and isn't going to get one
by remaining as it is.  I haven't thought of any changes to the user
interface or functionality which would bring more users in, while
retaining what I like about it now.

I think a lot of what has driven many people away has been the
willingness and ability of conversation snipers such as zulu and lar to
disrupt discussions.  I think they will eventually drive me away, too,
which is why I think it's a reason why others have left.  Grex has held
to it's choice to be "free speech", which really means to retain such as
those at the expense of others who would be more community minded. 
People who won't tolerate that kind of stuff leave, and so the snipers
become more and more prominent.  If that problem had been solved years
ago, I think Grex would be a lot more stable now, and a lot more
interesting.  I don't know if it's too late and I don't think those
remaining want to change the Grex philosophy of doing business, anyway.
keesan
response 55 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 02:15 UTC 2010

I have one of these idiots on my ignore list, and generally choose to ignore
most comments by the other.  Try doing the same.
kentn
response 56 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 02:43 UTC 2010

If we were to invest everything we have in a new system (which is what
it would take given some of the staff's suggestions), we'd be without
funds to operate.  

It is also prudent to keep some money as back up in the event of a
shortfall in funds or an increase in expenses, thus not all of the money
we have is available for a new system.  So we'll come up short if we
try to do that.  It has been suggested to run a fund-raiser for a new
system, which I think is fine.  But we need to to have a clear idea of
what we want to do with that new system (which is what this item is
intended for).
slynne
response 57 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 17:02 UTC 2010

It sounds like it might be a good idea for the board to consider
lowering the cost of membership. 
kentn
response 58 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 17:17 UTC 2010

Re 57: yeah, that's on my list of ideas, too.  Other similar systems
have lower rates, so to be competitive, we might want to lower the
cost.  Then it wouldn't prove as much a barrier to those who feel
Grex has a huge pile of cash (which I would argue it doesn't unless
you feel like limping along like we are now, with few members, old
equipment, etc. in which case we have about a year or so to go).
slynne
response 59 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 18:09 UTC 2010

I can't speak for others but one reason I havent sent in membership
money is that, due to bad financial habits on my part, I have been
paying off some debt. That process has left me with little extra money.
I have never really considered grex a charity so I don't include it in
my charitable giving budget. 

I'll have all that debt paid off in a couple of months but I will still
be short of money because I have been putting off some house projects
that I will need to save up for. I am talking several thousand dollars
of house projects so my spending is going to be in reduced mode for a
few more years. 

Basically my perception is that grex needs the money less than I do. But
if it were a smaller amount (say $30/year), it would be much easier for
me to just include it as an entertainment expense. 
richard
response 60 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 19:00 UTC 2010

re #52 see this is one of the problems.  You suggest ideas here and 
people get defensive.  Grex has thousands of dollars in the bank and 
yet was down for more than a month this past December because it took 
that long to get the board to meet and authorize a hundred bucks to 
purchase new hardware.  It also didn't help that even though there 
multiple staff members, there was only one apparently who knew the old 
code well enough to be of any use fixing it.  Poor STeve got bashed for 
taking so long fixing things when other staff members didn't want to 
touch Grex with a ten foot pole.

At least one board member (Cross) said he wanted Grex to go away.  

So don't sit here and get defensive when you've got a Grex that is a 
shell of what it once was and expect people to call those serving on 
the staff saints.  Hey I've volunteered places and I've never looked at 
the fact that I was donating my own time as an excuse to be above all 
criticism.  
slynne
response 61 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 20:30 UTC 2010

FWIW, the biggest reason I don't want to be on the board is the attitude
towards board members that guys like richard have. I just don't feel
like being anyone's punching bag. 
mary
response 62 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 20:37 UTC 2010

Yep.
richard
response 63 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 20:41 UTC 2010

Then you shouldn't be on the board.  Being a board member of any 
organization means taking responsibility.
mary
response 64 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 20:44 UTC 2010

(whoosh)
richard
response 65 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 20:56 UTC 2010

In fact one of the reasons Grex is in the position it is now, is 
because one board member, who was the treasurer, Aruba, became 
inactive.  Didn't say anything, didn't do anything.  Dropped off the 
radar for a year.  No treasurer's reports, no notices about 
memberships.  How could grex maintain memberships when the treasurer 
wasn't around to remind anyone what their status was?  

So suddenly its the end of last year and Grex has no members.  Pretty 
lousy situation right?  But if you'd listen to Mary and Slynne you'd 
get the idea that those who use and value grex should shut up and not 
say anything because those who didn't do what they said they'd do, what 
the position asked to be done, should be above criticism because they 
volunteered.

This is not the way it should work.  We can't work together to make a 
better Grex unless there's a common goal and those who accept 
responsibilities and titles to represent the other users work towards 
those goals.  Sometimes I wonder if some serve on the board simply 
because it looks good on a resume to say you were a sitting board 
member of an organization.  
slynne
response 66 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 21:00 UTC 2010

When you are ready to serve on the board richard, people might take your
criticism more seriously. As it stands, it is doing more harm than good.
richard
response 67 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 21:04 UTC 2010

So you are saying that the only people who can criticize board members 
who are other board members.  I use this board, I value this board.  
Why that isn't enough to be able to offer my own two cents about whats 
wrong here I don't get?  Slynne you are soundly horribly elitist.
richard
response 68 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 21:09 UTC 2010

Think about it.  I've offered half a dozen suggestions here in this 
item asking for such, to slynne's zero suggestions and mary's zero.  
They aren't offering new ideas, they are criticizing those who dare to 
say anything.  This is another example of grex's board and staff being 
way too insulated and cliquish, which has been an ongoing problem here 
for years.  This is why its the same people serving over and over.  Why 
should any well meaning outsiders want to serve on the board when all 
you get is apathy and thin skin.
slynne
response 69 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 21:11 UTC 2010

There is a difference between offering constructive ideas and berating
others for not doing the work you also are unwilling to do. 
richard
response 70 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 21:14 UTC 2010

I was assuming there were others who could do the work.  I don't live 
in Ann Arbor and I am not a CS tech person.  One can criticize the 
performance of invidividuals while not putting oneself up as the best 
person to do the job.  Hell I criticize the President sometimes and I 
don't put myself up as the one who should step in and do the job.
richard
response 71 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 21:33 UTC 2010

This item was entered to ask 'how do we move forward'?  What can be 
done to make Grex better?  I answered the question.  I gave material 
suggestions such as adding use of graphics, but I also gave non-
material suggestions like addressing the apathy of the group which is 
evidenced by the likewise apathy of board and staff.

slynne and mary offer NO new suggestions and attempt to swerve the 
discussion away from what can be done to improve grex, by slamming me 
for daring suggest that this growing apathy among some present/past 
board/staff members may or may not have been part of what has led to 
the current problem.

I'm trying to contribute.  I'm offering honest answers to the question 
the poster of this item asked.  I don't know why mary and slynne even 
posted in this item other than to slam me.  If they don't have a clue 
as to how to help grex at this point, or if they think participation on 
board or staff should put them above criticism, they should admit it 
and not serve on board or staff anymore.  Posting here also simply to 
slam one of the fewer users actively participating for daring to 
suggest anything or criticize anything about grex is not constructive.
slynne
response 72 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 21:54 UTC 2010

It would be different if there were a lot of people who wanted to be on
the board. People can be critical of the POTUS because even with all of
the criticism, there still are a lot of people willing to do the job.
That isn't the case here. Instead you are beating up the only people
willing to do *any* work because they arent willing to do enough work to
satisfy you. That makes people less likely to contribute. 

I appreciate constructive posts. But being overly critical of the few
people willing to do any work is not constructive. It is especially
annoying when it comes from someone not willing to actually contribute
in any meaningful way. Not to say that your suggestions aren't
meaningful but trust me, grex has never been short of people willing to
tell everyone what should be done. grex is short of people willing to do
anything. You do not need to be in Ann Arbor to serve on the board. You
need time and a phone. 

richard
response 73 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 22:11 UTC 2010

I contribute in the ways that I can.  I don't think I'd get elected to 
the board even if I did run, nor do I possess the expertise in cs to 
properly participate in many of the conversations.  I also have 
explicitly declined in the past to become a paying member because I 
object to a financial transaction being a required criteria for 
membership and to validation being required.  One should be able to 
earn a membership through conference participation.  Activity is a 
measurable value. I don't have anything against giving money, but there 
was a time grex had many users from around the world here and some 
could not pay money to exchange rate issues or could not or would not 
validate themselves.  Grex offered free anonymous access but you can't 
be a member free and anonymously.  I think the board's intransigence on 
these matters has been issue.  However now that membership rules have 
been waived left and right I guess its not such an issue.

kentn
response 74 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 23:11 UTC 2010

I wonder if all this animosity of discussion would happen if we all were
speaking face to face?  Perhaps, but I kind of doubt it would go on for
long.

I certainly don't appreciate being called apathetic or inflexible.
It sure doesn't make me want to work harder or listen/read more
attentively.  Our goal is generally to build a consensus before acting,
which is difficult to do at this time especially with objections to any
idea.  The Board can pass policies without asking the users but we try
not to do that, so that's one reason for this item.

Things like major policy changes and strategy development often have no
obvious answer and require much discussion before the best course can
be chosen.  So, the sooner we get to respectfully and constructively
discussing what we can do, the better.  

I don't find some of the comments very constructive or very explanatory.
For example, what does a "make or break overhaul" mean here (resp 51)?
What is entailed?  How much does it cost?  Etc.  Just saying we need an
overhaul isn't constructive.  But what an overhaul means to you, with
examples, might be helpful and influence our decisions.

As to blaming people for what they didn't do last year, and 5 week
outages last year, move on.  What's done is done and we've done what we
can do to not have it happen again at least in terms of outages.  Yes
it's important to understand how we got where we are, but blame is not
constructive.  You'll catch more flies with honey than you will with
vinegar.  Let's move forward.

I do appreciate the ideas.  It would be helpful if they did not often
appear as criticisms.  Putting people on the defensive is not the best
way to get a fair evaluation of your ideas.  And just tossing an idea
out there isn't the end of it because you need to potentially add to
what you said before people understand what you mean. You may even be
asked to compromise or modify your idea!  But that's the risk you take
when you start talking.
tod
response 75 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 23:19 UTC 2010

I'm sincere about the retro system approach.  I'm all about text based 
multi user systems.  
I try to ignore the static in this item at the personal attacks level.
richard
response 76 of 357: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 23:47 UTC 2010

re #74 thank you kent, I hear where you are coming from.
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