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Grex > Glb > #20: Broken relationships and coming out | |
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orinoco
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response 5 of 23:
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Jan 10 03:18 UTC 1998 |
Personally, I think that sort of thing is stupid. I mean, the desire to
explore is one thing, but breaking off an engagement so you can fool around?
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brown
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response 6 of 23:
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Jan 10 17:54 UTC 1998 |
as far as commin guot i was very lucky myself too. kinna came out in
the middle of a streak ( must be something in the water.. i keep
saying that) anyway i haev many good friends gay/straight or
otherwize... guess I'm quietly bi. if people know.. big deal. most
woder i guess. i suprized a few people wheni intro'd them to my bf
;) but what the hey...
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faile
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response 7 of 23:
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Jan 11 00:17 UTC 1998 |
It's funny, because I've been a cover date-- both knowing that I was a
cover date (as in the situation, "Hey, Jess, I need a date to _____ and
I can't take my MOTSS partner, because I'm closeted, will you come with
me?") and when I haven't known... I didn't mind it when I knew, but when
I didn't, and later realized it, I was kind of hurt... just babbling
here....
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lumen
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response 8 of 23:
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Jan 11 02:10 UTC 1998 |
the thing that is so frustrating is that you may know who I'm talking about..I
fear for him because he's loudly broadcasting this and it's getting uglier
all the time. I'd ask for help, but I know he won't accept help if he doesn't
want it. I'm surprised he wasn't all over this conference.
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morgaine
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response 9 of 23:
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Nov 3 01:03 UTC 1999 |
I think I am approaching an important milestone in my life....
Is anyone willing to share their experiences...about...when they told their
parents, or how, that they preferred same sex relationships?
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jazz
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response 10 of 23:
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Nov 3 22:43 UTC 1999 |
Know thyself and know thy parents, and thou shalt be victorious.
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morgaine
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response 11 of 23:
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Nov 4 00:02 UTC 1999 |
Nuh...
I know thyself, and thyself absolutely must overthink everything.
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gypsi
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response 12 of 23:
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Nov 4 00:57 UTC 1999 |
My parents are Roman Catholic, and I love them too much to hurt them. 'Nuff
said. =)
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brown
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response 13 of 23:
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Nov 4 06:27 UTC 1999 |
somewhere there was a discusion about that...
hmm my mother was great, shrugged it off basically
father made a few mentions of 'fucking fag' or somehting but has settled in to
the idea
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jazz
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response 14 of 23:
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Nov 4 12:59 UTC 1999 |
To which you can say "I prefer to be called a two-fisted cock-master."
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orinoco
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response 15 of 23:
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Nov 4 18:22 UTC 1999 |
(...although I'm guessing in morgaine's situation that may be less than
helpful)
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mooncat
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response 16 of 23:
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Nov 4 19:35 UTC 1999 |
(<just laughs> True...)
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jazz
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response 17 of 23:
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Nov 4 23:24 UTC 1999 |
Details schmetails.
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morgaine
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response 18 of 23:
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Nov 6 16:13 UTC 1999 |
*winces*
Sarah my parents are Roman Catholic too...but when I think about not hurting
them...I think about how my other always asks me if I have found someone to
make me happy yet, and I have to say no, lest telling her....and for some
reason I have made myself cry here. I don't want to lie to them anymore.
Through it all, yeah, maybe they treated me poorly sometimes, but they are
still my parents, and if I were my daughter (lol), I would want my daughter
to be honest with me.
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mooncat
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response 19 of 23:
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Nov 6 17:47 UTC 1999 |
Melissa- well, given the conversation you said you had with Virginia last
Christmastime I don't think they are going to be horribly shocked... Maybe
by you telling them, but not by, ya know, what you are. Ya know?
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ponder
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response 20 of 23:
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Nov 9 18:33 UTC 1999 |
resp:8 People can be loudly broadcasting lots of stuff and have hardly
anybody know about it. Take Nikken for example. Just about everyone
you ask never heard of it.
resp:4 So far everybody I've run into (including you) has been like
this. They become upset if the person they are sharing their problem
with fails to understand (meaning tell them that what they are feeling
is not wrong or bad) You and I have had that problem and it has fueled
many of our arguements on both sides of our marriage. Anyway, I'm not
sure the operative word here is "coddle" so much as "cuddle". People
need someone to love them enough to be willing to listen without pre-
judging them or offering them needless advice. We need a person to love
us unconditionally and the way to show that love is to genuinely listen
and understand instead of just remaining silent or planning out
following dialogue or even interrupting the speaker. Now, if it wasn't
so hard to learn...
(speaker has full intention of practicing what she preaches, as she is
guilty of this offense on more than one count)
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void
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response 21 of 23:
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Feb 27 20:11 UTC 2000 |
have i posted the story of how i came out to my folks and the
ensuing registered letter yet?
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mta
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response 22 of 23:
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Feb 29 02:11 UTC 2000 |
I don't think so...
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void
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response 23 of 23:
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Feb 29 13:56 UTC 2000 |
it probably goes in the coming-out stories item. i'll post it there
when i'm not at work.
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