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jazz
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response 33 of 48:
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Jun 27 21:42 UTC 2003 |
I find a cynical attitude to be a definite turn-on, but that probably
has to do more with having intelligence as one of my main criteria than
anything else. Smart people tend to be cynical. At the same time, I also
expect people to be able to really enjoy life, despite any cynicism they may
have, and most people can do that. The ones that can't don't last long around
me.
There's definitely a niche for 'em though.
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jaklumen
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response 34 of 48:
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Jun 27 21:57 UTC 2003 |
I don't know about cynicism, but critical thinking, well... that's
different. But I take a slightly different angle. I can't stand
extremists. I'd much rather chum with folks that are moderate, maybe
because they are a little more inclined to practice a little
diplomacy. I married a tomboy because I wanted someone who would
enjoy doing similar things, i.e. be easy going and not too terribly
concerned with appearances, especially gender-related ones (I mean, I
just don't dig girlie girls).
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vidar
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response 35 of 48:
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Jun 28 00:06 UTC 2003 |
Re #30: I suppose "kink" might have been better than fetish as I am not
sexually aroused by diapers. Even I'm not entirely sure why I got into
that, but I accept where I am.
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senna
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response 36 of 48:
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Jun 28 07:47 UTC 2003 |
I used to be a dark, brooding (some might say inane) type, and nobody gave
me second notice. I was kind of a depressing guy, actually. My "good luck,"
if it can be called that, has more to do with being social and friendly when
the situation calls for it.
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jazz
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response 37 of 48:
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Jun 28 16:15 UTC 2003 |
I always thought it was the loud hockey shirts.
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orinoco
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response 38 of 48:
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Jun 28 16:41 UTC 2003 |
I imagine it's hard to brood while wearing a loud hockey shirt.
Some people seem to have very good luck with acting needy. I think it's
because feeling needed is flattering. But even still, there's a big
difference between acting needy and sulking nonstop.
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sabre
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response 39 of 48:
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Jul 12 14:29 UTC 2003 |
I don't wear any underwear. This gives shows off the outline of my huge cock.
I then go to the bar and the bitches come to me.
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jules
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response 40 of 48:
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Jul 14 20:31 UTC 2003 |
oh my dear sean, you make me laugh.
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novomit
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response 41 of 48:
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Jul 25 11:52 UTC 2003 |
It's cool to learn that I am not the only one who has a diaper fetish. :)
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vidar
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response 42 of 48:
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Jul 26 13:09 UTC 2003 |
We're out there. Funny thing is when I first got into it I KNEW there
had to be others into it. Just a subconcious thingy. The hard part is
finding people near you who want to do the same kind of playing you do.
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oval
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response 43 of 48:
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Jul 26 14:59 UTC 2003 |
do the baby ones fit or do you use the ones for old people?
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vidar
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response 44 of 48:
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Jul 26 18:38 UTC 2003 |
The ones for "old people". I'm way too big to fit in even the largest
baby diaper.
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oval
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response 45 of 48:
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Jul 29 00:09 UTC 2003 |
do you "use" them?
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vidar
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response 46 of 48:
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Jul 29 01:29 UTC 2003 |
Yes.
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oval
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response 47 of 48:
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Jul 29 19:59 UTC 2003 |
although i do find this incredibly odd, i am actually curious, so i ask
another question. do you "change" each other? where does it become sexual,
is it a baby/parent thing or something?
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vidar
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response 48 of 48:
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Jul 30 03:05 UTC 2003 |
Depends on the people playing. Sometimes there is no sexual connection
between the people at all. Changing each other is indeed sometimes a
part of it. I've only actually met one other infantilist face to
face. Unforunately, that night, and therefore the relationship just
didn't flow. There may actually be a better item for this discussion
in this conference, but right now I'm reading by new response, so if
there is I haven't found it yet.
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