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25 new of 424 responses total.
happyboy
response 31 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 11:41 UTC 2004

if you're gonna leave then LEAVE.
jaklumen
response 32 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 12:46 UTC 2004

*sigh* (I am wondering why you're back... not sure it helps matters)
willcome
response 33 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 13:28 UTC 2004

Jay, does this initiative include the items deleted by mynxcat in the
international conference?
mynxcat
response 34 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 13:57 UTC 2004

As per Val's post, since there isn't any policy, I was fairly within my
rights.
jmsaul
response 35 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 14:11 UTC 2004

I wasn't aware that Valerie was a FairWitness of agora at the time she deleted
jep's items.  I must have missed that.
willcome
response 36 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 14:31 UTC 2004

34: As I understand it, mynxcat, even if you were "within your rights", this
would supercede.
jp2
response 37 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 16:01 UTC 2004

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mynxcat
response 38 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 16:02 UTC 2004

Not really, as per val's post, it seems that fw's had every right to delete
items they thought appropriate and if that had to change now, it should not
be applied retroactively to all conferences and items. Theres fore when I
deleted the items I was perfectly withing my rights.

Also she says that when she created those items the general idea was that the
author was the owner and it wasn't a grex collective owned iece of work.
Agian, if that were to change now, it shouldn't be applied retroactively. And
she says her diaries were named "Val's baby diary" etc. If we were to go with
these arguments, then my fat item should be deleted, ang with my piano item
and any other item I've ebtered over the last couple of years.
naftee
response 39 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 17:13 UTC 2004

If my name is somehow attached to it, it's mine!!!!! All mine!!!!!! BAHAHAHA
willcome
response 40 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 17:18 UTC 2004

Re. 37: FWs are at least quasi-staff members.
jmsaul
response 41 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 17:53 UTC 2004

Re #38:  I wouldn't cite Valerie as an authority on what people with staff
         or FW powers are allowed to do here.  People of equal tenure don't
         agree.
mynxcat
response 42 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 18:14 UTC 2004

I agree with you. Let's just say that my post is valid if it is ever agreed
that val's post is valid.
janc
response 43 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 20:37 UTC 2004

I would strongly oppose restoring the items intact and leaving them
on-line until jep/valerie got around to deleting their own responses. 
Grex has recognized the authors right to delete their own posts.  To
temporarily restore them allowing others to grab copies would be in
violation of previously established principles.
mary
response 44 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 20:52 UTC 2004

And they wouldn't be put back with Valerie's and John's comments
still available.  
richard
response 45 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 21:51 UTC 2004

#43...but Jan does it not also violate grex's own previously established
principles, if authors delete other people's posts in the act of deleting
their own? I think its a question of whether you can infringe upon other
people's rights to have their own words posted while in the act of enforcing
your own. I posted in some of JEP's items, does he strictly speaking have the
right to request removal of my posts just because he has the right to request
removal of his own?  
naftee
response 46 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 22:14 UTC 2004

re 43 But they would never get around to doing that!  They'd stall on purpose!
tod
response 47 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 10 23:51 UTC 2004

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cyklone
response 48 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 11 02:05 UTC 2004

I think jep's divorce item has too many valuable insights to disappear. 
Even if his posts are deleted (which I certainly understand and do not
oppose), I believe the benefits others provided in terms of their own
opinions and experiences far outweigh the "benefit" of deleting the
entire item. 

jp2
response 49 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 11 02:08 UTC 2004

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cross
response 50 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 11 04:04 UTC 2004

Naming of an item is irrelevant.  In a forum like this, creating an
item is an invitation for public discussion, by definition.  There is
no ownership of a discussion amongst public participants; that's an
impossible concept.  It's like asking, ``Who owns `speech'?''

If, therefore, there is no owner, then it is inappropriate for one person
to decide they have any authority to delete the words of another person.
Think of it this way: if someone else had created an item parallel
to Valerie's baby diary items entitled something like, `discussion of
valerie's baby diary', would Valerie `own' that too?  Of course not,
it doesn't make any sense.

That said, I feel empathy for jep and valerie's emotions in wanting to
make their posts go away.  I still think my previous suggestion is an
acceptible way to go that has the potential to accomodate all parties.
jep
response 51 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 11 04:05 UTC 2004

I agree there was value in my divorce items.  However, it was all 
intended for me, and for my situation.  There was virtually no drift 
in those items.
cyklone
response 52 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 11 04:26 UTC 2004

That's not the point. People said what they said, and just because those words
were placed in an item you began, and about you, does not mean you own those
words. Especially when those words may have independant value for someone
other than you.
jep
response 53 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 11 04:58 UTC 2004

I regret that that value was lost, cyklone.  I wish I didn't think 
there was a need to remove those items.  It is possible someone would 
have someday come across my items when in a similar situation and with 
a similar mindset, and could thereby have gotten through the 
experience a little easier.

You see, I do understand that aspect of the issue.  What I would have 
given for an account of that type of experience, while I was going 
through it...

But those items mean something else, too.  I wouldn't have entered 
them, or at least wouldn't have said as much in them, if I'd had 
appropriate concern for what might come of them some day.  I just 
*didn't care*.  It seems to me to be pretty harsh to force someone to 
have something remain when it was created under those types of 
circumstances.

Also, that they're deleted now is an important fact about them.  They 
can not again be an obscure, past account of my feelings about my 
divorce.  Now they'd be a part of a political storm, a target for 
people who have no concern about me at all, and also a target for 
people who don't like that I had them deleted.  They're deleted now.  
That's real, and it has real impact.  Undeleting them doesn't put 
things back to where they were.  Undeleting them is a completely new 
action, which has never been done before on Grex.

That is of course true for Valerie's items, and for items all over the 
conferences which once contained Valerie's responses.  Restoring them 
does not set back the clock.  It'd be a whole new type of action, 
compounding the consequences -- not erasing them -- of what has 
already happened this week.

If I hadn't gotten my items deleted, they might well have gained new 
usage from a different group of people; those who are archiving 
controversial items just to show people they can't delete even their 
own text.

It is *not* as simple as "the items were created once, now they should 
be here permanently".  Both because my items were deleted, and because 
of other events, much has changed here this week.
janc
response 54 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 11 07:59 UTC 2004

Richard - nobody is arguing that their deletion was procedurally correct.
The person who deleted them has already resigned.  We are all willing to
agree that that should not have been done in that manner.  There is no need
to keep debating that point.

If I'd had my way, the items would have been deleted with the formal
approval of the board temporarily, so that we could have this discussion.
If that had happened, then there would be at least a little reason to
debate whether or not it was the right thing to do - it would have been
an official Grex action, not an accident that happened to Grex.

In any case, if they hadn't been deleted, one way or the other, then we
couldn't even be having this public discussion of the merits of deleting them.

The question here is to weigh the potentials for harm in each course.
One way, JEP is exposed to some risks that he has outlined.  The other
way, Grex might have taken a small step closer to the slippery slope
of censorship.  The first risks a person (two really), the second risks
an institution.  None of us can do anything to mitigate the risks to
JEP if we restore his item.  All of us can do things to prevent Grex from
sliding down the slope into routine censorship if we do don't.

I think there's no comparison here.  It's a no brainer.
jp2
response 55 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 11 14:15 UTC 2004

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