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facelift
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response 25 of 245:
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Sep 18 04:17 UTC 1994 |
I as being sarcastic.
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gerund
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response 26 of 245:
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Sep 18 09:53 UTC 1994 |
So was I.
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gerund
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response 27 of 245:
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Oct 3 01:30 UTC 1994 |
Someone want to tell me who froze my item? it WAS NOT me....
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dang
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response 28 of 245:
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Oct 3 15:08 UTC 1994 |
It was frozen? (Well if it wasn't you, then that leaves two people...)
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anne
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response 29 of 245:
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Oct 4 16:45 UTC 1994 |
It WAS NOT ME!! HONEST! I even asked Gerund why *HE* froze it... musta been
sunny, I'll ask her when she comes to visit me today...
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eeyore
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response 30 of 245:
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Oct 4 18:22 UTC 1994 |
i had nothing to do with it...i promise....
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anne
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response 31 of 245:
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Oct 5 01:00 UTC 1994 |
Well, no0w I know who did it, and why, but that's okay....
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dang
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response 32 of 245:
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Oct 5 17:01 UTC 1994 |
Who and why?
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anne
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response 33 of 245:
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Oct 5 17:33 UTC 1994 |
never mind... just know that it's all sorted out now.
Sorta....
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kami
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response 34 of 245:
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Oct 5 20:24 UTC 1994 |
Um, Anne- is Sunny still visiting? I really need to talk to her. On the
phone or in person would be best. Thanks.
Where were you last night?
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eeyore
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response 35 of 245:
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Oct 6 22:43 UTC 1994 |
i was working, why?
;)
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anne
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response 36 of 245:
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Oct 7 02:20 UTC 1994 |
Tuesday night? Well, I was on the phone with Jason, then lestat, then
sunny and I went out- that's the day she was here. Where was I supposed
to be? And no, unfortunately sunny has gone back to Grand Rapids, I
can get you her number if you want...
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flem
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response 37 of 245:
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Oct 9 20:46 UTC 1994 |
On the previous topic...
In my experience, I have almost never been able to actually offer practical
advice to my friends. Usually, you can't think of anything anyhow, and
advice is a very dangerous game. What I have had great success with is in just
being there with a sympathetic/empathetic ear and a hug. It may not seem like
much, but it can be hugely important. I think that talking about your problems
is one of the most important reasons to have friends. Talking problems out,
even if it is frowned upon by the macho image of society, is the best way I
have ever come across of dealing with problems, or at least starting to do so.
And if you have friends who you can feel comfortable talking to and can rely
on for a bit of wordless comfort every once in a while, you have a big
advantage in dealing with your problems.
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anne
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response 38 of 245:
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Oct 10 23:04 UTC 1994 |
I would still like to know where I was supposed to be!
<grin>
A hug can make all the difference sometimes. I agree flem, often I have
trouble coming up with advice that I think will be helpful. I also think
that the main thing is listening, offering a should to cry on, and a hug.
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eeyore
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response 39 of 245:
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Oct 11 16:20 UTC 1994 |
i'm also always trying to give advice, but it usually nbackfires. :(
and hugs make a world of differances...no one can resist the true joy of
a hug!
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kami
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response 40 of 245:
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Oct 13 20:30 UTC 1994 |
re: #38- In CLASS! We scheduled for YOUR CONVENIENCE, dammit! Sigh, I thought
I'd told you we were starting again. Well, no class next week. Review
session at my house? Talk to Slyme and Val? Um, I was trying to answer
your last message and it got lost. Mail me again w/your phone# and Sunny's?
Thanks.
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anne
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response 41 of 245:
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Oct 13 20:54 UTC 1994 |
You didn't tell me WHEN classes started! <anne whimpers>
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eeyore
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response 42 of 245:
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Oct 14 12:38 UTC 1994 |
oops!
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kami
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response 43 of 245:
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Oct 15 21:06 UTC 1994 |
sorry. catch up? do.
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anne
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response 44 of 245:
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Oct 16 17:00 UTC 1994 |
Kami- lets keep this in mail.... so mail me.
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gerund
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response 45 of 245:
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Oct 16 22:17 UTC 1994 |
Um... Gerund wants to know who froze his item.
Anne... mail me... and explain, please?
(A deap serious please.....)
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eeyore
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response 46 of 245:
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Oct 18 16:45 UTC 1994 |
i firmly believe that there should be no outside freezing of items..only the
person who put it in and the fw's should be able to do things like that.
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scg
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response 47 of 245:
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Oct 18 22:00 UTC 1994 |
Only the person who put it in, the fws, and the cfadms can do that, and I
don't think the cfadms freeze items without permission except in very rare
cases (last winter's breakin, after which an item in Agora containing a
listing of the passwords of lots and lots of Grexers was frozen by popcorn
acting as cfadm comes to mind).
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anne
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response 48 of 245:
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Oct 18 22:03 UTC 1994 |
Steve: why didn't popcorn kill the item? I mean if it was frozen it could
stil be read....
Anyway, yes- we've sort of got it worked out- Gerund didn't do it, and
I didn't. Sun did- she and I have talked about it. Don't worry.
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scg
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response 49 of 245:
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Oct 18 22:06 UTC 1994 |
That's right. I meant to say that she had killed the item, but my extreme
state of tiredness combined with lots of netlagcaused me to type something
other than what I meant.
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