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Grex > Femme > #127: MOST IMPORTANT for women who were abused in their childhood |  |
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loperbd
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response 25 of 44:
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Apr 21 22:53 UTC 2002 |
Julie probably you know then also the possibly very grave results. Do
you take that large risk. Think a short moment how old are your
children when you are 45. So early it can start, you know that probably
as well.
I know a way to that new neurons grow and that's the best solution, you
know that for yourself. But if you can't except that, for it's your
life and only you are responsible for it. But see me as just caring for
you.
But you are also responsible for your own children, your own blood and
your risks are their risks as well. When they are older and even when
they live elsewhere, you can be a good backup home, you can be nice to
and I know that's much later, you can be nice for grandchildren.
You accept only the problem and that is maybe large, by emailing me you
can get a rough idea how large.
I for my self wouldn't take any risk, but I don't know your situation
and you are maybe prepared to accept all risks.
The risks depend just of the degree of reduction of neurons and the
life you live. But it stay always risk, you are never certain, till
it's too late.
If you take only the risks that's just too risky for all of us and
certainly for all other women, I think. Men take sometimes stupid much
risks. The stakes are too high, you probably know that very well. So
please Julie email me again, you know that it's better. And please
let's not discuss this anymore, just email me again.
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loperbd
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response 26 of 44:
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Apr 21 23:58 UTC 2002 |
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loperbd
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response 27 of 44:
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Apr 22 15:10 UTC 2002 |
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loperbd
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response 28 of 44:
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Apr 22 16:38 UTC 2002 |
The most two strange things I found was
1. the rapid change in your opinion to talk about your history in
private. You got the opputunity, mailed me you have no fears. Nearly no
one with your history starts to say I've fears. That comes only later
when you know yourself better. And were no more interested in anything.
2. And the second strange thing is for me you wrote that I had ideas
about the problem of less neurons in your brain at vital locations, but
that wasn't my point, I had a proven method that the loss could be
restored, and that's new. And still, having the only enjoyable way, you
have to do your best therefore.
But Julie there's always a chance that you've luck. And reading the
second mail, your chances are not bad.
So I stay to say I've lost to convince you.
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loperbd
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response 29 of 44:
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Apr 22 17:26 UTC 2002 |
Probably you are too young to bother you about that you can become
older. Please live now an enjoy now. Sorrows are only for me.
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loperbd
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response 30 of 44:
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Apr 23 13:42 UTC 2002 |
All woman who have had a bad chidhood, please email me
safeandworm@hotmail.com. You are completely free. In any case it starts
alway with a pure email relationship, the main thing is giving safety
and then taking about all things you like. I will always propose, never
press. And with a L'+F' relation only by email, we can come far.
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happyboy
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response 31 of 44:
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Apr 23 13:59 UTC 2002 |
heh *safeandWORM*
HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAA!!!!
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slynne
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response 32 of 44:
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Apr 23 15:47 UTC 2002 |
haha, I hadnt noticed that. Do you suppose he is describing his penis?
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loperbd
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response 33 of 44:
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Apr 23 16:45 UTC 2002 |
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loperbd
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response 34 of 44:
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Apr 23 16:57 UTC 2002 |
Oh boy, be a little serious, do you know how that life is please read
then more. Not all but most abused children abuse later their own
children, the have a bitter life of many marriages, clash after clash
and become often really unhappy, they have a chance to die too soon
senile. Please be serious and not so superficial. Lynne!
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glenda
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response 35 of 44:
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Apr 23 17:00 UTC 2002 |
Quit pushing. Women that have been abused are not going to be emailing a
complete stranger about it. They have had enough problems without being
bothered by someone they have never met and is too far away to meet.
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loperbd
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response 36 of 44:
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Apr 23 17:17 UTC 2002 |
Glenda please
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glenda
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response 37 of 44:
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Apr 23 17:25 UTC 2002 |
No, loperbd please. You make me feel very uncomfortable and I have not been
abused. I have a foster daughter that has been reading your posts and you
scare her to death.
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loperbd
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response 38 of 44:
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Apr 23 17:38 UTC 2002 |
I know that, if you really want reliable info read Scientific American
March 2002, page 54-61. Why is your daughter reading these postings.
Sau her just she has a good time. In reality you have to think of a
real solution when you are about 30, in any case my method works, I
hope from the age of maybe 35 or even 40 dependent how you life is.
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loperbd
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response 39 of 44:
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Apr 23 17:41 UTC 2002 |
Please Glenda give your daughter attention so she can feel safe and
accepted.
But if noone but one woman, Edine, is little serious, I have to post
these things.
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glenda
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response 40 of 44:
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Apr 23 17:57 UTC 2002 |
Leave Edina alone already, she has made it quite obvious that she is not
interested in what you have to offer. She was doing fine until you came
along.
My daughter is none of your concern or business. Why is she reading these
postings? Because she is a person in her own right and as such can read
whatever she wishes to read. And before you go and tell me not to let her
read them, I can't. She is an adult and must make her own decisions in life.
For a further point, my 14 year old daughter finds your posts stupid and a
bit amusing. But then she is well grounded, she knows who she is, where she
is going, and has more confidence in herself than most people twice her age.
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morwen
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response 41 of 44:
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Apr 23 18:06 UTC 2002 |
I'm 33. I know there are risks when women have children after 45.
They can't stop talking about that here. I'm not worried. When 45
rolls around, I will discuss the risks with my husband.
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loperbd
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response 42 of 44:
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Apr 23 18:09 UTC 2002 |
That's good Julie. But I dearly hope this discussion is now closed!!
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morwen
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response 43 of 44:
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Apr 23 19:43 UTC 2002 |
I guess it needs to be frozen, then.
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happyboy
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response 44 of 44:
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Apr 25 02:03 UTC 2002 |
*worm* uh huh huh huh uh huh huh
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