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Grex > Agora46 > #8: I'm Bummed, I'm Bummed, I'm really really Bummed | |
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arianna
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response 20 of 594:
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Jun 26 13:27 UTC 2003 |
IBB my sprained ankle is being very s l o w in healing. I hurt it on
Memorial day and it's still bruised and tends toward swelling. It's gotten
better, but not fast enough; I have stuff to do, not the least of which is
moving. I'm moving back in with some old roommates because my current one
is moving back down south (she's finished her master's and gotten a teaching
job in Tampa) -- that'll be this weekend, and I'm STILL working on packing
that I wish had been done a week ago.
On 7/1 my benefits begin; I work in a neurology office that's adjacent to one
of the hospitals, and working for doctors means great benefits, I've
discovered. I can go have it looked at on or after that date.
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maryeliz
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response 21 of 594:
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Jun 26 17:12 UTC 2003 |
IBB i found out that a guy i like is already taken =( oh well i'll move on.
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michaela
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response 22 of 594:
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Jun 26 17:26 UTC 2003 |
I'm giddily in love, but he lives three hours away. It's not
hopeless, but it's annoying enough to make me a bit bummed.
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arianna
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response 23 of 594:
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Jun 26 18:55 UTC 2003 |
been there. <brandishes the t-shirt> my condolances, Sarah.
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keesan
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response 24 of 594:
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Jun 26 22:22 UTC 2003 |
Does John III's school have a daycare program for kids to go to before and
after school that he could attend just 2-3 days a week (your days)?
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eskarina
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response 25 of 594:
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Jun 26 23:44 UTC 2003 |
I'm giddily in love, but he lives four hours away from where I am right now.
Bummage.
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dcat
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response 26 of 594:
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Jun 27 01:16 UTC 2003 |
resp:25 and not only that, in the fall he'll be about seven hours away.
:-(
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jaklumen
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response 27 of 594:
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Jun 27 02:06 UTC 2003 |
speaking of daycare, we will have to have our daughter go to one.
Julie likes the one she found, thankfully, and it would be a temporary
arrangement most likely if all goes the way we want it to, i.e., she
gets to participate in the Community Jobs program and gets an
afternoon assignment.
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beeswing
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response 28 of 594:
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Jun 27 03:31 UTC 2003 |
Speaking of daycares. Yesterday here a 2 1/2 year old little girl died
in a Day Care van. The driver forgot her and left her in the van. She
was there for 8 hours in 90+ degree heat. She roasted, literally.
This happens here about three times each summer. Last year two kids died
in the same way on the same day.
Just something to think about.
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jmsaul
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response 29 of 594:
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Jun 27 12:56 UTC 2003 |
Parents do that more often than daycares do.
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gull
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response 30 of 594:
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Jun 27 13:05 UTC 2003 |
Re #25: I know how tough that can be. I'm in love with someone 1,900
miles away.
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keesan
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response 31 of 594:
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Jun 27 16:51 UTC 2003 |
I wonder if there is any chance of renegotiating the mediation agreement such
that Andrea agrees to allow David to spend time with John II. I have no idea
what she is afraid John might do to David. In exchange, John II could agree
in writing not to say or do anything about John III spending time unsupervised
with the man he is already living with anyway. Again, I have no idea what
John II is afraid might happen to John III. Would he be fed vodka for lunch?
Are recovered alcoholics dangerous people, any more than recovered smokers?
Andrea is clearly violating the spirit of the agreement regarding David, if
he was supposed to visit 'whenever he wanted'.
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edina
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response 32 of 594:
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Jun 27 17:56 UTC 2003 |
All of the recovering alcoholics/addicts I know are generally fun, down to
earth people. But I suspect that John cares less about his addiction status
than just the idea of the man himself.
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tod
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response 33 of 594:
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Jun 27 20:58 UTC 2003 |
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jazz
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response 34 of 594:
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Jun 27 21:01 UTC 2003 |
Is he *currently* an alcoholic?
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keesan
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response 35 of 594:
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Jun 27 21:56 UTC 2003 |
I have neighbors with a genetic tendency to alcoholism. The adult son has
let it run his life and has been in and out of treatment programs. He is a
very very nice guy who would never hurt anyone (except of course himself).
His sister, a doctor, says she knows there is a family problem, and she
therefore avoids alcohol. Other relatives have had various other drug
problems. The fact that you are unable to control yourself once you start
drinking does not mean that you cannot keep yourself from starting.
I think it might be harder to quit smoking than alcohol, judging from a couple
of other neighbors and how often they have quit.
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tod
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response 36 of 594:
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Jun 27 22:45 UTC 2003 |
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dcat
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response 37 of 594:
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Jun 27 23:34 UTC 2003 |
It is both more and less likely for kids to start smoking if their parents
smoke. It's easier to get cigarettes & associated necessities, certainly,
but you also get to see first hand just how disgusting it is. (, he said from
personal experience.)
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i
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response 38 of 594:
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Jun 28 01:20 UTC 2003 |
I have no true love nor even slightly plausable prospect within *ANY*
finite distance.
(Now who's gonna one-up that, and how?)
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lowclass
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response 39 of 594:
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Jun 28 02:21 UTC 2003 |
I've got a Sport's illustrated Swimsuit screensaver installed. It shuts
down the computer anythime I walk into the room.
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slynne
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response 40 of 594:
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Jun 28 03:45 UTC 2003 |
resp:38 - ditto the no true love thing *and* I have my period :P
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keesan
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response 41 of 594:
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Jun 28 05:34 UTC 2003 |
Perhaps slynne and i could be true loves?
My father smoked until I was 11. He tried various means of quitting (pipe,
cigar). I don't know how my mother ever married a smoker. She and both my
brother and I detested the smoke, which made us ill. Perhaps I would not be
allergic if I had not be continuously poisoned during my childhood.
My father refused to believe his vice was making us all sick. He did quit
when the doctor told him it was necessary to cure his ulcer.
I find a true friend to be much more useful, longterm, than a true love.
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marinego
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response 42 of 594:
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Jun 28 05:46 UTC 2003 |
Hello!Everyone! I'm new here.
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orinoco
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response 43 of 594:
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Jun 28 16:13 UTC 2003 |
i -- Does that mean you're madly in love with someone an infinite number of
miles away?
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eskarina
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response 44 of 594:
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Jun 28 18:24 UTC 2003 |
re 41: If one's true love isn't also a true friend then it isn't much of a
true love.
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