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nharmon
response 181 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 20:11 UTC 2006

> It seems to me that most pro-lifers against Plan B have no CLUE what 
> the science behind it is.

I think that is a better explaination of that side of the argument 
than "oh, they're just jealous cuz they dont have SEX...slut haters!"

I consider myself pro-life, but am not against early pregnancy 
termination, birth control, Plan B, sex education in schools, condom 
dispensers, etc. I simply don't see an unborn human life as being less 
like an infant, and more like a pimple.
jadecat
response 182 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 20:38 UTC 2006

resp:181 Most people have their 'hot points' or topics that cause the
fury first- then the thinking. This happens to be one for me. ;) I do
think that many of the more vocal pro-lifers do have issues with women,
hatred/fear/jealousy, combinations therein perhaps. 

There also seems to be a trend to dscount scientific information. So
they don't bother to learn anything about it. I also think that the
numbers regarding late-term abortions are inflated by the pro-life side
of things. I know one person who had a late-second trimester abortion.
In that case she was so a- irregular that she didn't know she was
pregnant right away, and b- sure that the fetus was harmed by the
activities that took place before she even knew she was pregnant.

There are also very few women who have no negative feelings regarding an
abortion they've had. If it is as easy as popping a pimple- perhaps they
wouldn't be the best parents in the world anyway...
marcvh
response 183 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 20:39 UTC 2006

So you're a pro-choice person who, for some reason, is uncomfortable
with that label and you prefer to call yourself pro-life even though you
think that most abortions should remain legal.  I find that weird and
confusing.
cyklone
response 184 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 20:42 UTC 2006

Jep, your limited comprehension skills are slipping further. My example 
about alcohol was a waitron, not a bartender. And the scientology 
reference was based on that religion's frequent and recent public 
statements against the drugs I described, so I fail to see how it is silly 
(BTW, implying Mormons don't believe in prescription drug use is far 
sillier). My point, for those like you who seem unable to grasp what 
others readily see, is that even if you put aside the issue of whether the 
goverment should compel companies to dispense certain drugs, the "get out 
of work free" exemption based on relgious beliefs creates a ridiculous 
burden on employers. It basically says employees can use their religion to 
dictate the terms of their employment. Are you saying you support that? 

Those who claim companies shouldn't be burdened with mandatory dispensing 
laws should also, if they are intellectually honest, recognize that the 
so-called "religious freedom" laws impose burdens at least as great on 
those employers whose rights they claim to support.
nharmon
response 185 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 20:49 UTC 2006

> So you're a pro-choice person <snip>

Feel free to label me all you want Marc.
tod
response 186 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 21:20 UTC 2006

re #180
 All you have to do is get the Religious pro-lifers to agree that life begins
 when the bible says it does, when the feotus starts producing blood! 
You know that's bullshit, Bruce.
Life begins with the first breath.
Genesis 2:7 "..formed man from the dust of the ground, and breathed into his
nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul."

You get a birth certificate when you are born and breath.  
nharmon
response 187 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 21:27 UTC 2006

Fetuses breath amniotic fluid to flex their lungs. So there you go.
edina
response 188 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 21:27 UTC 2006

There we go what?  
kingjon
response 189 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 21:43 UTC 2006

#186: Not that I hold the position myself, but that is wide open to the obvious
criticism that *Adam's* life began with his first breath, but he wasn't born.

Birth certificates have nothing to do with when life begins; you have a birth
certificate when you are born alive. Breathing is one of the evidences of life
but does not define it any more than "talk-and-build-a-fire" defines sentience.
marcvh
response 190 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 21:50 UTC 2006

I'd like to see Nathan go to a pro-life rally and talk to some real 
pro-lifers, where he can tell them that he thinks that early term
abortions (which is something like 98% of them) should be considered
legally and morally OK.  Do you think they would label him pro-life?
happyboy
response 191 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 21:55 UTC 2006

bru: book, chapter, verse, AND version of the bobble, please.
slynne
response 192 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 21:55 UTC 2006

hell, I would like to see him go to a pro-life rally and say that he 
thinks that *birth-control* is ok 
happyboy
response 193 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 22:02 UTC 2006

nharmon makes the baby jesus fetus cry.


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--  <--- stern republican look.
jep
response 194 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 22:03 UTC 2006

I really wonder, am I perceived as a "slut hater"?  I keep addressing 
that accusation (and variations on it), because people keep posting 
about how all anti-abortion advocates are of that mindset.
happyboy
response 195 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 22:04 UTC 2006

i think you hate poor people,  passively anyway.
tod
response 196 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 22:20 UTC 2006

re #189
 Birth certificates have nothing to do with when life begins; you have a birth
 certificate when you are born alive.
Clear as mud, right? Born ALIVE.  That means Living aka LIFE.
Before a birth, the woman gets to decide.  Its that simple.
Live with it.
scholar
response 197 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 22:55 UTC 2006

i hate poor people.  :(
happyboy
response 198 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 22:57 UTC 2006

yeah...:(
marcvh
response 199 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 23:09 UTC 2006

Re #194: who said that "all" anti-abortion advocates are slut-haters?
Certainly not me.  I said "most" and I explained how I reached that 
conclusion.
happyboy
response 200 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 27 23:41 UTC 2006

on the other hand i really like sluts, even poor sluts.

POOR SLUTS LIKE SCHOLAR :L:L:>
jadecat
response 201 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 28 00:35 UTC 2006

resp:194 John, no, I don't think you come off as a slut hater. I just
think that there ARE some in the pro-life camp that are. You don't
happen to be one of them.
mary
response 202 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 28 02:08 UTC 2006

We are such a conflicted society when it comes to sex.  We have church 
leaders trying to make abstinence the only birth control taught to kids 
and yet priests can't abstain from having sex with the kids.  Many see it 
as morally wrong for two people deeply in love to have sex outside of 
marriage and yet feel it's a wife's obligation to have intercourse whether 
she wants to or not.  A father can freak out and refuse to let his 17 year 
old daughter out of the house wearing her low cut jeans, then he wanders 
to his office to watch porno videos of 18 year old girls having it on with 
dildos.  Aren't those 18 year olds someone's daughter?  Impotence drugs 
are so popular that the advertising budgets alone, in the US, was almost 
half a billion dollars last year.  That's a lot of encouragement to get it 
up.  But if that sperm hits a target, and the woman wants to us EC to 
prevent a pregnancy?  Oh, my, that's a problem.  Interesting the line is 
drawn there, with the woman, 1 and not with "if God had wanted you to 
shoot sperm he would have given you a rod."

We love and need sex but it's all wrapped up with power and guilt and 
feeling dirty, and that spills over into our politics.  And not much 
good can come from anything with that much baggage.
slynne
response 203 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 28 02:47 UTC 2006

I have to admit that I think that most people who are "pro-life" believe
that an unborn fetus's life is more important than a woman's life. That
is slightly different than beliving that they wish to regulate the
sexuality of women but it isnt exactly something positive either. There
are exceptions of course and I certainly hope you are one of those
people, jep. 

And I think that while there are a lot of people on the pro-life side
who arent like that, "slut-hating" very often comes out in abortion
discussions. You see it when people say that women could just close
their legs of they dont  want to have kids. You also see this when they
try to draft laws that do not include any provisions for the health of
the pregnant woman. 

Here is something to consider. Hormonal birth control pills often have
medical uses other than birth control. I know a few non sexually active
women who have taken them to help regulate excessively heavy periods.
Periods that were so heavy, they were anemic or in danger of becoming
so. It turns out that birth control pills often have a health care
function other than contraception. But they tended not to be covered by
insurance partly because of pressure from Right to Life groups who were
(I guess) afraid that women would rise up and start having sex all over
the place. 


From _How The Pro-Life Movement Saved America_

"Take, for example, the campaigns started in the nineties (which
continue today)to get health insurance companies to cover contraception.
In 1990, the birth control pill had been around for more than thirty
years. Even though 82 percent of all American woman born since 1945 have
used the Pill, it, along with all other contraceptives, was still not
included in most insurance plans. Consequently, American women were
still paying for contraception out of pocket, amounting to 68 percent
more in health care expenses than men. In 1996, the Federal Drug
Administration (FDA) approved the erection drug Viagra. Viagra obviously
had no "health care" or "prevention" functions, yet it took just less
than two months for half of all prescriptions of Viagra to be covered by
health insurers"




What does that say about our culture? That men still have power than
women. That men's sexuality is to be glorified and encouraged while
women's should be discouraged? 
nharmon
response 204 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 28 03:32 UTC 2006

One thing I've learned about liberalism is its rabid attacks on people
with views opposing theirs, at least when it comes to 2nd amendment
rights and related issues. I'll tell you I have never been flamed as bad
as when I represented a pro-2ndAmendment viewpoint on
democraticunderground.com. It was totally unexpected, and unbelievably
vulgar.

I contrast that to how anti-2ndAmendment visitors to websites such as
MCRGO.org (when they had an open forum) were treated. That was with
respect, dignity and attention to the points that visitor was making. It
was politely refuted, with no flaming. It was really a something to see
because I remember where a school teacher from Ann Arbor, who was an
ardent supporter of gun control, changed her mind after having hearing
the opposing viewpoint. She went on to become an NRA instructor, and
teaches self-defense classes to women, as well as an advocate for
women's rights in abuse cases.

I really wonder how someone like me would be treated at a pro-life rally
versus one for pro-choice. Would the pro-lifers be the nasty bigots you
make them out to be...calling me a baby killer, or saying I'm against
god? Because of all of the pro-lifers I have ever met, not one had such
deep seated hatefull feelings. On the other hand, how would I be treated
at a pro-choice rally? I'm not sure, hopefully much better than some of
the pro-choicers on here have treated me. It would be interesting to
find out, and maybe when a time comes where I'm not so busy, I will.

Here is what I do know. One of my best friends from high school is a
practicing catholic. His mother, also catholic, is very pro-life. The
most magnificant thing was how he told me that her pro-life advocacy was
in the form of counseling and helping women with deep emotional guilt
and depression over abortion. She doesn't judge them, or shun them, or
act as thought they need to be punished. She just helps them. Helps them
find psychological help, and in some cases helps them find shelters. I
think that is the biggest reason why I think most pro-lifers are not
"slut-haters" like some of you people make them out to be. It is also
why I think opposing viewpoints would be more welcome at a pro-life rally.
slynne
response 205 of 526: Mark Unseen   Feb 28 04:08 UTC 2006

I think you can find rabid closed minded people on all sides of any
issue. 
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