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mynxcat
response 149 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 20:40 UTC 2004

Re 142> You make it sound like kissing my favorite body part is a bad 
thing :(
valerie
response 150 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 20:43 UTC 2004

This response has been erased.

albaugh
response 151 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 20:51 UTC 2004

Sorry valerie, you still should have asked the fw's to help you first, before
alighting your light sabre.  But I personally don't care that much.

Re: #148 - The *discussion* might have been about a fw abusing her power, but
it would have been a false accusation - fw's have the power to exercise
discretion about what items to nuke.  It's been that way "forever",
apparently.  If that is not desirable, then a policy change / establishment
is needed.  I know, have a discussion about it!  :-)
naftee
response 152 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 20:55 UTC 2004

re 120 It's all about the logs.

re 135 What staff?

re 143 
>If valerie had gone to the fairwitnesses 
The scary thing is, she didn't go to anyone.  Except maybe to her 
husband to ask for the cfadm password.  Don't forget that 
fairwitnesses are not immune to being abusive.

re 144
>There also should be some policy about conference cleanup
Good point.  But at least on M-net, there's a time period where 
*everyone* is allowed to object or ask if some items are kept, etc.  
I'm going to wager a guess that the GreX policy is comparable.  But it 
is impossible to keep everything, and people accept that.  However, 
what happened in the femme cf was an act of selfishness, really, and 
was pretty much hidden from public view (e-mailing board and staff 
doesn't count.  Most of the posters don't receive their mail).

 
naftee
response 153 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 20:59 UTC 2004

re 150 I suggest you and Misti learn about the 'retire' command.
aruba
response 154 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 21:02 UTC 2004

There was a case, a few years ago, when the fairwitness of the sex
conference went through and deleted all the items in the conference, to
avoid them becoming available on the web.  As I recall, everyone agreed that
that was an abuse of power, and the items were restored from backup.  Am I
misremembering the outcome?
slynne
response 155 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 21:25 UTC 2004

resp:147 - I realize that. I am not asking that any comments be 
removed. I am pointing out a reason why we may want to consider 
changing the policy. 
mynxcat
response 156 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 21:27 UTC 2004

Re 151>Re: #148 - The *discussion* might have been about a fw abusing 
her power, but it would have been a false accusation - fw's have the 
power to exercise discretion about what items to nuke.  It's been that 
way "forever", apparently.  If that is not desirable, then a policy 
change / establishment is needed.  I know, have a discussion about 
it!  :-)

Actually it would be abuse of power. Just because a fw has the ability 
to delete an item, doesn't mean that they can when they need to. From 
what I understand, you can only delete items if they're a security 
threat or contain some illegal matter. I've had my wrist slapped on 
mnet for deleting items which were irrelevant and no-one read. Being 
fw ain't all that it's cracked up to be ;)


mynxcat
response 157 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 21:28 UTC 2004

Re 155> I don't quite get what you're trying to point out. It sounds 
like we need to change policy so that people can post stuff that they 
want to censor. Or maybe I'm mis-reading
slynne
response 158 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 21:40 UTC 2004

I am saying that we may want to consider changing the policy so that in 
certain specific cases, item authors retain control of the entire item 
including other people's posts in that item. 
mary
response 159 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 21:41 UTC 2004

I'm curious.  Folks who want to discuss personal issues here have a
choice.  They can run it like a diary, entering responses and then
freezing the item until they have more to say.  Or they can encourage
discussion by leaving the item open for postings.  If it's displayed as a
diary (frozen) then the author remains in control and the item can be
killed at any time. 

If it's left open for discussion the person who started the discussion
doesn't own anyone else's comments.  I find it mind boggling to think
otherwise. 

If Valerie had run her baby diary as a frozen item, and someone else had
entered a companion item for comments, would Valerie consider it her
privilege to kill the comments item?  What's the difference, really. 

I think the baby item should be restored from backup and Valerie allowed
to completely expunge her comments.  The resulting item will be one long
mess making no sense whatsoever.  But this change in policy allowing users
to censor other users will be far worse, I believe. 

slynne
response 160 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 21:54 UTC 2004

I think that keeping an item frozen is a pain. It is very common on 
many blog sites to allow the author control of everything, including 
comments. I have noticed some big advantages of this. Discussions stay 
on focus. 
cross
response 161 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 21:55 UTC 2004

Regarding #149; He was referring to me.  This does not induce me to want
to get him an anchovy pizza, though.
jep
response 162 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 22:06 UTC 2004

I had entered responses in Valerie's items, too.  Valerie's items were 
linked to parenting, Misti; you could only unlink them from your 
conference.  You couldn't actually delete them from Grex.

Some of my responses were about topics that weren't exactly about Arlo 
and Kendra.  There were no other active items in parenting while 
Valerie's items were there.  Valerie brought up Asperger's Disorder 
last summer, and since I am interested in the topic as well, I created 
an Asperger's item in parenting.  It never got off the ground; the 
discussion all stayed in Valerie's item.

I don't mind much that my responses got deleted with the rest of those 
items.  I doubt if I ever said much of any value.

However... now that the staff has granted Valerie the right to delete 
items she entered, I think there *has been* a policy change, and others 
who want their items deleted should be able to have them deleted as 
well.  The staff shouldn't be debating it internally, or asking the 
Board, or waiting on the outcome of discussion or a user referendum.  
Not now.  The policy *has* changed.

I think, by not accommodating user requests, the staff is in danger of 
making a second policy change.  Staff members are Special People; above 
the rules.
jep
response 163 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 22:14 UTC 2004

Valerie's action changed a lot of things by a large amount.  I am 
positive she didn't intend that.  I am positive there was no bad 
intent.  Things have gotten out of hand.

I do not mean to be on the side of those who are shrieking, "She broke 
the rules!  Corruption!"  Valerie is not corrupt.  I hope this won't 
end her contributions as a staff member.  She's a very valuable staffer.

I think Valerie made a big mistake.  It's just a mistake, but it has a 
lot of consequences.  We all need to learn from it and move on.  I know 
what I wrote in resp:162, but nevertheless, the most important thing is 
going to be for Grex to not panic or overreact, and for Grex to find a 
reasonable course and stick with it.
naftee
response 164 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 22:24 UTC 2004

I find it interesting that valerie is worried that some people in the baby
diary items had quoted her verbatim and as such, their posts should remain
purged.  However, she has neglected to mention that on the m-net agora
conference, some of her work remains, probably in verbatim form!  Of course,
she can't bring that argument over there, because it would clearly be seen
for what it is:  censorship.
cross
response 165 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 22:35 UTC 2004

Regarding #162; Just to clarify, staff didn't grant Valerie any extra
`right'.  She acted on her own, outside of the rhuebric of staff.
jep
response 166 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 22:45 UTC 2004

re resp:165: If that's the case, then there's no need for a debate.  
The items need to be restored.  It couldn't be more straightforward.
albaugh
response 167 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 22:45 UTC 2004

> Actually it would be abuse of power. Just because a fw has the ability
 to delete an item, doesn't mean that they can when they need to. <

First of all, does the fw have the *power* to kill an entire item at any time?
If the answer is "yes", then they *can* "when they need to".  If this is the
case, then it's a matter of *policy*, what *should* the fw do.  Is there
anything documented along these lines?  If so, where can we find / read it?
If not, it's probably high time to document something.  If there is something
already documented, that could be updated if grexians though it should be.
albaugh
response 168 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 22:51 UTC 2004

Re: #166 - Whoa fella!  So far I haven't seen anyone pointing to something
clearly documented that says when staff / fw's can / cannot kill entire items,
that is, policy-wise.  It sounds like at least certain staffers, and certain
fw's, could kill an item if its enterer requested it.  Others might disagree,
but it is not cut-and-dried that such a killed item must be restored.
In this case, the item-enterer was also staff, so she wasn't deleting someone
else's item without permission.  My main complaint there is that she didn't
try to work with the conf. fw's first.

Since there is no established policy, I don't agree that it's
"straightforward" that the items must be restored.  I think that the focus
should be on establishing / updating a policy to handle this situation in the
future.
willcome
response 169 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 22:54 UTC 2004

(entrant.)
cross
response 170 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 22:55 UTC 2004

Given the lack of policy, I still think we can say it was in violation of
the spirit and stated intentions of grex.  Whether it can or should be
undone is another matter.
other
response 171 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 23:06 UTC 2004

Frankly, Grex is not a closed circle, and Valerie has known that all 
along.  There is no such thing as a guarantee of privacy or even 
obscurity for anything we choose to post in any public conference, 
so I am at a loss to understand (without having read either the 
diaries or their parodies) the urgency which necessitated her 
actions.

As I understand it, FW's have the ability to remove items, but are 
encouraged to use it rarely, with proper observance of the law being 
a primary goal and protection of the free speech rights of Grex 
users as a secondary.

If I were an FW/cfadm/staff member asked to remove these items, 
based on my understanding of the responsibilities, I would respond 
by removing only Valerie's text from the items, and out of respect 
for her ownership of her posts, I would also remove any direct 
quotes of her text from the posts f other users in those items (with 
appropriate indications of excision left in their places).  That is 
as far as I could see properly exercising the powers of 
administration in honoring the request for retraction, and that is 
what I would have expected Valerie to do on her own.  I have no 
doubt that if those were the limits of her actions, she would have 
been satisfied and she would be receiving full support and backing 
from all other staff.
naftee
response 172 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 23:13 UTC 2004

re 171 Great, nice, thanks for your opinion on what you would have done in
those hypothetical situations.  But we need to move towards a decision.
I think jep's proposal is a great idea.  A lot of stuff from those items can
still be read on M-net.
mynxcat
response 173 of 393: Mark Unseen   Jan 7 23:36 UTC 2004

I agree with other. That's what should have been done. In this case, I think
that the items should be restored, and the specific responses deleted. 
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