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flem
response 125 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 15 15:04 UTC 2000

re resp:118 - " adults are allowed to sleep in the tent only of their own
child."   Really?  When I was in scouts, no one knew about or would have cared
about that rule.  In fact, there were times it would have been downright
impossible to enforce.  
albaugh
response 126 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 15 17:36 UTC 2000

Re: #118:  I *believe* it is a BSA policy, though it may only be our troop's
polciy (I doubt it), that scouts and parents *NEVER* sleep in the same tent.
Adults must sleep in adults-only tents.  Only scouts sleep in scout tents.
They usually buddy up, for the practical reason that one can help/alert the
other(s) in the event of an emergency (e.g. tent is on fire).

Ensuring that adults and scouts don't sleep in the same tent is to avoid even
the appearance of impropriety.  Further, adults other than the parent of a
scout are not allowed to transport a single scout (i.e. alone) who is not the
child of the parent - two or more scouts are required.
gelinas
response 127 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 15 18:53 UTC 2000

Things have changed since I was a Boy Scout.  I'm going by what I was taught
when I went through Cub Leader training a couple of years ago.  And Cub Scouts
on an overnight campout have different rules than Boy Scouts.  We decided not
to continue, so I don't have any information about Boy Scout leadership
training.

PTO is not sponsored by the school.  Sometimes, it's only barely tolerated
by the school.
albaugh
response 128 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 15 20:45 UTC 2000

Yes, Cubs are different than the older Boy Scouts, so sometimes they're
treated as "little fellas".  Camping in *tents* for Cubs is not that common
of an experience, at least in my observation.
albaugh
response 129 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 15 21:55 UTC 2000

Personal report:  At last night's meeting of the board of the Plymouth-Canton
school district, as was known beforehand, under the "citizens comments"
portion of the agenda, the PC Ed. Assn. (PCEA), the local "wing" of the NEA,
put forth a proposal that the board exclude from use of school facilities any
groups that are deemed to discriminate, including the BSA.  Because this was
known ahead of time, 46 individuals requested to address the board during
citizens comments, and each individual so requesting was allowed to do so,
granted approx. 3 minutes in which to do so (in the interest of time).

By personal recollection, I'd say that approx. 2/3's to 3/4's of the speakers
spoke in favor/support of continuing to allow cub/boy scout groups to use
school facilities to meet.  After all speakers were finished, the board
announced that it had reviewed its policies re: use of school facilities by
groups, and the BSA met all the requirements, so the board declined to adopt
the PCEA proposal.  Fox 2 news had a truck there, but I didn't bother to find
out if anything got on the air (the camera man could not get into the board
chambers [room], as the place was packed, and many people had to stand outside
in the hallway).

There were out-of-town "rabble rousers" from both sides present.  Even though
people that do not reside in the school district are allowed to speak, one
gets the feeling that someone with political ambitions or some personal agenda
was trying to use the PC school district as a stepping off point.
bdh3
response 130 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 19 06:49 UTC 2000

Jesus F*cking Christ.  When I was in Boy Scouts in the mid to late 1960s
our scoutmaster at the time was a Lt. later Captain in the USMC
'lurps'.  We learned how to infiltrate and kill commies and you guys are
worried about fags.  I dunno if it was appropriate or not, but I sure
learned a lot.  We also learned lots of other outdoor skills such as
'booby traps' and the proper method for conducting and responding to an
ambush given any particular terrain (hint: charge an ambush).  We had
various 'role models' - one of whom was a 'cracker' who didn't like
blacks - 'nigras'.  We put a c-rat can of peanut butter in his fire.  It
exploded as expected and burned the heck out of his tent although he
escaped with only a scalp wound (bled like the dickens) (I'm not sure we
actually ment to try to kill him...).  There was one 'patrol' of 'other
ranks' who had a 'bitch' that they used to torment.  My patrol -'rat
patrol' aka 'tunnel rats' (Influenced by TV of the time) - rescued him
and he was so grateful he offered a blowjob to all.  I told him to shut
the f*ck up and hit the hay and that I would personally beat anyone who
took him up on his offer.

This is what I recall as a boy scout (then there was the time where
later 'in country' the entire troop was disbanded on account the
scoutmaster son of the local council chief was arrested for drug dealing
and we were all assumed to be 'poisoned fruit' even though as far as I
knew he never sold drugs to his troop or even did drugs in his official
capacity, but thats another story altogether.) (I never got to be an
'eagle scout' even though I had fulfilled all the requirements dammit!) 

Bottom line, I suspect that in the BSA the folks that benefit from the
program - the 'kids' - are fully able to more or less deal with a lot of
stuff at that age and have no problem with 'fags' - by that age they are
more or less set in their own individual ways.  But, I do think that the
BSA has a responsibility to ensure that its 'leaders' provide at least a
semblance of a 'positive role model' or at least something approaching
that which the 'kids' can respect.  Generally in my experience it does
so and thus is a positive force in society and thus ought to be
encouraged.  I think rabid commies, democrats, and the french have no
place in scouting as do not many others and I do think that one should
not throw the baby out with the dirty bathwater...shit, at least they
teach helping little old ladies across the street...
ric
response 131 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 19 15:36 UTC 2000

Are you saying that a gay man can't provide a positive role model, beady?
happyboy
response 132 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 19 15:36 UTC 2000


        hahahhahaha!
happyboy
response 133 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 19 15:36 UTC 2000

131 slipped
bru
response 134 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 19 16:51 UTC 2000

I think he is saying his troop used to go to "Camp Amiga-mike".  Watch out
for th marines statioed around the Girl Scout camp.
brighn
response 135 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 19 22:36 UTC 2000

My impression of #130 is: Were we to seek out what defines a "positive male
role model," we would need go no further than the aggregate of all the males
who have influenced Beady's life. A positive role model would be the male who
least resembles that aggregate.
jazz
response 136 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 20 16:28 UTC 2000

        What mystifies me is the (unfounded) rationale that because someone
is gay, that therefore they would encourage or somehow statistically alter
the chance of any children they come in contact with, to also be gay.  It's
not communicable, last I checked, and the rumor about the toaster bonus for
signing up a straight person is still just a rumor.
mary
response 137 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 20 18:26 UTC 2000

Well, there is probably some truth to linking an increase in
the number of "outted" homosexuals to how accepting society is
toward homosexuals, in general.

If a young man knows he is different but that being different
is wrong and could label him a freak then he's more likely to
fake a different but more accepted lifestyle.  Putting gay
men and lesbian women in positions of leadership and respect
tend to free young homosexuals to be accepting and honest in
regards to their sexual orientations.

This is interpreted as recruitment by homophobes and positive
role modeling by those more tolerant and accepting of
homosexuality.
albaugh
response 138 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 20 21:11 UTC 2000

bdh3 - your 60's experience with scouting sounds like some bad movie about
the red scare militia.  I'm happy to say that no paramilitary BS is tolerated
in the BSA I've been involved with.  YMMV.
brighn
response 139 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 20 23:17 UTC 2000

What mystifies me is the (unfounded) rationale that because someone
 is gay, that therefore they would encourage or somehow statistically alter
 the chance of any children they come in contact with, to also be gay.
---
John, what precisely are you smoking? That rationale is completely well
founded. Beyond MAry's comments, nearly everyone would prefer to be around
people who are similar to them, and if that manifests in encouraging some more
effete boys to explore their feminine side, so be it. 

This argument (the one you cite) relies heavily on the concept that sexual
orientation is entirely genetic. If it WERE genetic, then saying that someone
could influence another person's orientation would be like saying that someone
could influence another person's eye color. But environmental exposure is such
a large portion of development of sexual identity, positive gay role models
will indeed increase propensity towards homosexuality, just as negative
heterosexual role models will.

[Note from my first paragraph: I'm not saying that everybody wants EVERYONE
around them to be like them; quite the contrary. But people, almost
universally, prefer to be in a setting where at least SOME people are like
them than a setting where NOBODY is like them.]
aaron
response 140 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 21 01:41 UTC 2000

Now I understand lmaster. He was exploring his *feminine* side. <cough>
bru
response 141 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 21 13:17 UTC 2000

An interesting side note.  

Turns out one of the organizations that turned in a brief supporting the Boy
Scout position to the Supreme Court is A GAY ORGANIZATION!  They supported
the scouting position because they said if the scout were required to accept
gays as leaders, they would be required to accept straights in the same way.

This was in the oped section of the Ann Arbor News for Monday, nov. 21st. 
If I had the paper here I would tell you more.
aaron
response 142 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 21 14:27 UTC 2000

Actually, that's not quite what they argued. They argued that forcing the
Boy Scouts to accept gay scoutmasters "would diminish the organization's
ability to effectively communicate its chosen message," which is that being
gay violates the boy scouts' oath to be "morally straight" and "clean." 
Their concern was not about being forced to accept straight members, but
was about being forced to accept members which might force it to change its
chosen message. They also expressed concern that, if the ruling were
upheld, organizations such as the Boy Scouts would have to "explicitly
emphasize their anti-gay message in order to preserve their right to select
their own leaders and define their own membership."

The organization, which I've never before heard of, is "Gays and Lesbians
for Individual Liberty."

"In short, GLIL believes that the participation of openly gay Americans in
all aspects of this nation's public and civic life is important because it
sends a positive message of tolerance and acceptance to society. 
Similarly, the service of openly gay individuals, like James Dale, as
Scoutmasters would signal to young Scouts that homosexuality at the very
least should be tolerated and that openly gay individuals can be good role
models. 

"Consistent with the First Amendment, however, this message must be sent
through private choice and must not be communicated due to government
coercion."
flem
response 143 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 21 16:10 UTC 2000

I don't konw about y'all, but I had to go back and read #141 slowly, after
skimming it and running across the phrase "the Supreme Court is A GAY
ORGANIZATION!"  :)
mcnally
response 144 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 21 22:08 UTC 2000

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janc
response 145 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 22 06:31 UTC 2000

I agree with the supreme court's ruling on the BSA thing - they should be
allowed to pick their own leaders by whatever criteria they choose.  However,
the criteria that they do, in fact, choose to use greatly diminishes them in
my opinion.  I'm not surprised that there are at least some gays who feel the
same way.
bdh3
response 146 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 22 07:18 UTC 2000

I think a gay male who is a 'manly man' and didn't agendize or
politicize and agreed with and lived up to the BSA standards would make
a fine scoutmaster and I doubt anyone would notice or care.  I think
anyone gay, straight, commie, or democrat who attempts to propagandize
or politisize the BSA is inappropriate as a scoutmaster.
I think that a liberal democrat who thinks chicken is manufactured in a
factory under sanitary conditions is inappropriate as a scoutmaster.  I
think anyone who cannot 'buy into' the BSA thingy and agree to play its
game by its rules is inappropriate as a scoutmaster.  

I think anyone that doesn't look at the BSA organization with all its
rules and ritual as sort of a typical poofy british S&M bondage sort of
thingy is rather oblivious or humor impaired.  But, and irregardless,
and nontheless, the BSA is in fact a fine organization and one that
ought to be encouraged and supported as a socializing mechanism for the
'little savages'.

re#145: No offense, but some how you never struck me as the BSA, get out
into the wilderness, get stinky, eat off an open fire, and shit in a
hole dug in the ground type.
brighn
response 147 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 22 17:45 UTC 2000

The BSA is propogandizing. why should their scoutmasters be any different?

Look, it's simple. they're a private organization. They are base don "role
modelling" for boys. They should be allowed to set thier criteria for "role
modelling" however they please, and any other private organizations that
choose not to associate with them because of those criteria have that option
as well.

In this regard, they're really no different than an individual. Individuals
may express themselves however they please (with the exceptions of lying in
certain contexts). Other individuals may choose to associate with whomever
they please. None of this is the government's business.
rcurl
response 148 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 22 18:01 UTC 2000

I'm sure it was just an accidental oversight, but bdh3 left out
republicans and even conservative republicans from his list of evil
characters, in #146. 

Of course the BSA can make any rules they want. So can communist cells,
militias, the KKK, churches, country clubs, etc - just so long as they
do not get free public support. They should certainly be able to rent
public facilities, too. I very much regret the agendas of such insular
cliques, but we are still a backward society in many ways. Freedom of
thought and expression should be allowed everyone, but education and
culture should help most people see through the stupidity of others. 
brighn
response 149 of 174: Mark Unseen   Nov 22 18:08 UTC 2000

Exactly. I was disturbed that, when the KKK held rallies in AA and Lansing
a decade or so ago, liberal protesters threw rocks and other objects at them,
and shouted to silence them.

they have the constitutional and innate right to moronic opinions, and to
express them peacably.
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