response 39 of 55:

Apr 1 03:26 UTC 2002

        I don't think it's an easier task to master with a man than a woman,
though perhaps there's a Kinsey three or two in the confrence who could 
comment from experience rather than speculation.  I'd speculate that for
competence, you'd need more of a psychological angle with women than men, but
that for truly outstanding sex you'd need a lot more than just physical skill
with either gender.

        Women don't like giving head to men?  I must've been lucky as hell,
then.  I've noticed in my admittedly skewed sample that some women have had
issues with giving head to orgasm, and that wasn't generally a problem, but
it seemed more that they considered it less intimate, and therefore only
foreplay, than anything else.  I've also noticed, in a few rarer cases,
people who've had issues due to past relationships or inexperience who are
very awkward about head, but did initiate it (as a side comment, I really
have to say not a one of them was bad;  perhaps lacking in skill, but making
up for it in honesty and connection).