response 60 of 84:

Apr 4 04:04 UTC 2002

Okay, Paul, it's time to leave the prego woman alone.

I don't know about her, but in some aspects, I see my attractions as a 
source of strength-- it is easier for me to be sensitive, gentle, open 
and honest, in some aspects.  I am empathetic to others who are in my 
shoes.  My feelings are good in some ways.

However, it has not been my experience that homosexual relations have 
been good or healthy for me.  It is damaging to my marriage, and it is 
incompatible with my faith.  Some say I should change faiths, and I 
should expect Julie to learn to accept things or maybe she should 
leave.

But Julie is a good woman.  I love my faith.  Putting my sex with men 
to the side-- forever-- is a sacrifice I am willing to make.