Grex Oldcoop Conference

Item 279: Abusive users

Entered by ryan on Mon Aug 8 05:24:30 2005:

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72 responses total.

#1 of 72 by triludaa on Mon Aug 8 07:47:23 2005:

i think jason and i have the right to have a tel war late at night when  no
one is here and no one is fighting for resources.

i also think you are a gay little bitch but that is beside the point. 

neither jason nor i stopped any of the 10 users from doing anything they would
need to do.


#2 of 72 by scott on Mon Aug 8 17:04:30 2005:

Back when I was staff, I would have locked that account right away.  I
wouldn't make any assumption that it was a little private "for fun" battle,
either.  


#3 of 72 by albaugh on Mon Aug 8 18:27:25 2005:

Other than being childish (?) or annoying (?), what does that ps output imply
about affect on grex, really?


#4 of 72 by mcnally on Mon Aug 8 18:32:22 2005:

If the owner of the "jason" account complains to staff we'll certainly
take the matter under advisement.  Otherwise, what's the basis for the
complaint? 

More to the point, though, given that we have an open newuser policy
and newuser is currently enabled, what's the point of locking an account
supposed to be?  In the past it hasn't effectively deterred problem users
from coming back under other names, it's only made it harder for people
who want to ignore the problem user to do so by causing them to shift
login names periodically.



#5 of 72 by triludaa on Mon Aug 8 20:29:06 2005:

that's why you aren't currently on staff, scott. secondly you don't have the
temperment as a mcnally and you sir are altogether useless, scott.
so in short mcnally rules and scott suck dick and ryan is cry baby bitch.


#6 of 72 by scott on Mon Aug 8 21:00:11 2005:

Nope, I resigned from staff, for completely boring reasons such as "not
available to do any staff work".


#7 of 72 by mcnally on Mon Aug 8 21:03:19 2005:

 You're not really making much of a case in your own defense, are you?
 I believe you've got the potential to act like an intelligent, mature
 person.  It'd help things a lot if you decided to exercise that potential.

 Being curious about how the system works and wanting to learn are good
 things.  If it turns out that you ARE harassing users who don't welcome
 your tels, that's going to be a bad thing.  I'm currently inclined to
 defend your "right" (for lack of a better word) to explore the system
 but if I conclude that you're seriously harassing people I assure you
 that my sympathy would be with them, rather than you..

 In the meantime, nothing anybody has said yet has demonstrated to me that
 you're causing any serious harassment or disruption and you've been polite
 and responsive when we've talked about things like your runaway CPU job
 the other day.  I hope that things will continue on that basis and that you
 continue to enjoy grex by learning about the system.  Please don't put me
 in a position of having to protect other users from your experiments.


#8 of 72 by mcnally on Mon Aug 8 21:04:13 2005:

 re #6:  Scott slipped in, my #7 was (obviously, I hope) intended for
 triludaa's benefit.



#9 of 72 by ryan on Tue Aug 9 00:29:56 2005:

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#10 of 72 by mcnally on Tue Aug 9 00:31:30 2005:

 Well, that seems clear enough.


#11 of 72 by naftee on Tue Aug 9 02:40:48 2005:

Yeah ; it's clear that jason decides to wait seven hours before complaining
in the system problems item.


#12 of 72 by triludaa on Tue Aug 9 03:27:12 2005:

hum, jason, and you sent me no tels nor did you send me 430 emails marked from
me to me, get real man. seriously. you can give but you can't take? check the
mail logs and you will see. however, the real thing here is this, like life
there will be several things that happen to you that you don't like. you have
ways around them. cutting an account is one and perhaps the most foolish of
them all. crying like jason after doing the same things is stupid. you can
take view as i shall do: what jason and i did was foolish, yet fun; no one
got hurt, no one died and i consider the issue dead. if you check the mail
logs and you find i got the amount of mail i said i did, you track it jason,
you come to me and say do i wish to complain? i will say no, i am a big boy
and i can handle myself, thanks! good day to you, sir.


#13 of 72 by scholar on Tue Aug 9 06:08:31 2005:

Re. 10:  Does it?  How do we know jason didn't originally consent to the
tels, and only later, as a way to get triluda in trouble, claim he objected
to it?


#14 of 72 by triludaa on Tue Aug 9 07:56:50 2005:

i forgot i had putty logging turn on. so if you'd like to see tel for tel mail
for mail what went down i have a full record of it. i am sure you can easily
match this with the write logs and the logs for mail. what seems cloudy is
often muddy. what is clear though is ryan is stalking me: ryan:     !cat
triludaa.log


#15 of 72 by naftee on Tue Aug 9 12:34:09 2005:

No such file or directory


#16 of 72 by mcnally on Tue Aug 9 17:06:52 2005:

 re #13, #10:  I meant it seems clear enough that a complaint has been made.


#17 of 72 by ryan on Sat Aug 13 16:49:21 2005:

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#18 of 72 by nharmon on Sat Aug 13 17:27:53 2005:

It appears that triluda is accusing you of spamming his e-mail account.
My suggestion would be that you just filter his mail, and be done with it.


#19 of 72 by triludaa on Sat Aug 13 18:24:04 2005:

either that or you quit spamin' my email from another shell account, i already
have seen how childish you can be about your party bot, so i know you aren't
beyound reproach. perhaps you can have your mother come in here and defend
you on the fact you didn't send me spam from #shell.be


#20 of 72 by triludaa on Sat Aug 13 18:26:46 2005:

i would also like to ask how your party bot was acceptable. i saved all those
emails and many posted where the request were made from, i bet you have a
connection to #shell.be ssh 217.22.55.50 and that's what my email suggest.
then it states a fact or two, you are a shitbag so is the person who hatched
you.


#21 of 72 by mcnally on Sun Aug 14 00:06:44 2005:

re #17:
> Attached below is a harassing email sent to me by triludaa.  This type of
> behavior is completely unacceptable.  Again I ask, why is this person still
> allowed to come here? 

What do you propose we do?  Lock his account and shut down newuser?  Forever?

The bottom-line answer to your question "why is this person still allowed to
come here?" is this:  Grex runs an open system.  We let *everyone* come here.
We do hope that people observe a modicum of decorum but so far nothing anyone
has credibly accused him of amounts to more than petty harassment and poor
taste -- not enough to be worth compromising the system's goals of open access.


> All he does is cause trouble for everybody.

Curiously he seems to mostly cause trouble for you and jason and based on
his responses to your allegations I'd say he makes a reasonable case that the
trouble-causing is mutual.  If you kids insist on making a stink that bothers
the other users then somebody from staff (not me -- I don't believe banning
users is effective) may take it on themselves to act but with the mutual
accusations that have been made don't assume that you'll be happy with the
results if that occurs.  

Meanwhile if you want to e-mail me privately I would be happy to show you
how to use tools already available on Grex to:

  a)  block triludaa from sending tels or writes to you
  b)  block triludaa from sending e-mail to you via an e-mail blacklist
  c)  block everyone except pre-arranged senders from sending e-mail to
      you via an e-mail whitelist.
  d)  block response from triludaa in party and bbs.


The system's more than big enough for both of you if you'll just drop your
juvenile little feud and with a little bit of effort either one of you can
end it unilaterally.  Why not do that?



#22 of 72 by ryan on Sun Aug 14 01:25:52 2005:

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#23 of 72 by triludaa on Sun Aug 14 01:29:16 2005:

 Again I find Mcnally a bless for grex. Not because he appears to support me,
because he doesn't he supports a free system and has a level head. This staff
memeber (Mcnally) is a role model for all want to be staff for grex. I have
not complained on anyone, nor have i asked for staff to contact the other
shell that the emails came from, i am not seeking their help on this matter
because I realize ryan is being a child. I also realize I have the right and
the ability to take care of my party, bbs, mail and tels on grex and shouldn't
trouble staff for something I can do. I also don't have this lock and reap
account theory that seemed to be big at some time on grex. I for one will drop
the issue and not reply back to ryan who appears to only be childish to me.
I do say, however, if you wish to kill my account you should at least get my
saved log on both jason and ryan which includes all tels and mails.
good day to you ryan. 


#24 of 72 by keesan on Sun Aug 14 01:48:57 2005:

Please explain how to block the telegrams, which get in the way when I am
trying to read the web.  I know how to block emails but don't have any
objection to conducting a discussion via email.  I don't want to block all
telegrams because I meet some interesting people from other countries.  


#25 of 72 by nharmon on Sun Aug 14 02:27:07 2005:

I think you can add the people you don't want to receive telegrams from
to the file ~/.nowrite. Then your login script (.profile, .zshrc,
whatever) should execute the command  mesg -ye  (thats accept messages
with exceptions).

Someone will hopefully correct me if I'm wrong on this.


#26 of 72 by spooked on Sun Aug 14 02:28:09 2005:

amin -n lynx
or
amin -n bbs
or 
amin -n <program>

for whatever program you are running and don't want to be disturbed by 
writes/tels




#27 of 72 by naftee on Sun Aug 14 02:58:48 2005:

mcnally is great


#28 of 72 by nharmon on Sun Aug 14 04:31:43 2005:

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#29 of 72 by keesan on Sun Aug 14 14:58:12 2005:

Thanks for the .nowrite info.  I already had such a file with a few variants
of polytarp in it, and it had never worked.  I added to .cshrc 'mesg -ye'.
I don't suppose there is an easy way to set up 'tel' not to send telegrams
to more than one person in one minute.  You don't want to block someone from
sending multiple telegrams to one person, because that is the only way some
people have figured out to communicate - during the first five tels I attempt
to teach them to use 'talk' or even email instead.  


#30 of 72 by scholar on Sun Aug 14 18:19:21 2005:

While adulations from me are hardly worth much in the way of respect on Grex,
I'd like to thank mcnally for being the person to finally put ryan in his
place.


#31 of 72 by naftee on Mon Aug 15 05:23:42 2005:

Please ignore that offensive comment by nharmon ; I truly and utterly believe
mcnally to be a great staff member and all-around Alaskian.


#32 of 72 by remmers on Mon Aug 22 19:11:27 2005:

Re #26:  "amin" is a way to indicate to someone that you're busy with
something and would rather not be bothered, but it doesn't block them if
they decide to go ahead and write you anyway.


#33 of 72 by mcnally on Mon Aug 22 19:16:57 2005:

 amin ,idi


#34 of 72 by scholar on Tue Aug 23 01:13:26 2005:

i know someone with the last name amin, but he is not a dictator.


#35 of 72 by naftee on Tue Aug 23 01:45:20 2005:

He's a javascript function !


#36 of 72 by spooked on Tue Aug 23 09:52:09 2005:

Umm, yes it does John - if you pass it the correct argument (like I 
specified).


#37 of 72 by triludaa on Tue Aug 23 10:25:39 2005:

try !man amin   ?


#38 of 72 by naftee on Tue Aug 23 14:00:53 2005:

AUTHOR : Jan Wolter


#39 of 72 by remmers on Tue Aug 23 16:46:09 2005:

Re #36:  Ah - ok.  Had forgotten that.


#40 of 72 by remmers on Tue Aug 23 16:55:54 2005:

However, amin blocks everybody, which you might not want to do.  If you
want to filter selectively without blocking everyone, then .procmailrc
(for mail), :ignore (for party), and .nowrite (for write/tel/talk) are
tools designed for that purpose.  I use 'em, and I agree with mcnally
that barring users for bad taste, besides being difficult to implement
from a technical standpoint, isn't what Grex is about.


#41 of 72 by tod on Tue Aug 23 17:51:37 2005:

Does grex have .yeswrite ?


#42 of 72 by albaugh on Tue Aug 23 19:41:42 2005:

It used to...


#43 of 72 by gelinas on Wed Aug 24 00:22:03 2005:

Yes, it does.


#44 of 72 by richard on Thu Aug 25 19:17:03 2005:

This same user (triludaa)has in the past used his grex email 
priviledges to mail bomb other users.  One night he used one of his 
known other grex emails to flood by email box with close to 10,000 
emails.  I complained to staff and provided clear evidence that he did 
this, and staff did nothing. I thought staff could have reported that 
activity, and I'm sure I wasn't the only user he used grex to mailbomb, 
to his ISP at the least.  On another occasion, he changed his .forward 
file on his "triluda" account to my email address, so that any email 
sent to him by staff went to me.  Staff reset his password and 
the .forward file was taken out and that is why he is now "triludaa" 
with two a's, because he had to get a new login.

he's a troublemaker who has no desire to use grex in a proper manner, 
and who seems to only desire to find new ways to abuse it.  What do you 
do about users like this?  


#45 of 72 by mcnally on Thu Aug 25 19:51:32 2005:

 Basically you have two choices:

  1)  Turn off newuser
  2)  Learn to live with them.

 We've already had a long period this year without newuser and people
 weren't very happy about it.  And we can take actions to mitigate some
 of the more common misbehaviors.  But *some* level of annoyance is 
 always going to be present on an open system.


#46 of 72 by triludaa on Thu Aug 25 22:01:45 2005:

clear evidence? what the fuck ever, dude! get real and go fuck yourself.


#47 of 72 by naftee on Thu Aug 25 22:30:44 2005:

fuck 'em


#48 of 72 by ryan on Sat Aug 27 19:48:09 2005:

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#49 of 72 by triludaa on Sun Aug 28 04:54:54 2005:

 i agree with ryan. in fact, grex should close its doors period. shut down
and never turn on. or we can stop new user ban me, naftee, scholar and a whole
host of others so it's just down down krj, bru, ryan and his mother. if you
choose to do that grex should change its name to children of corn!


#50 of 72 by md on Sun Aug 28 13:05:30 2005:

My cousin Settimio in New York (we call him "Babe") will take care of 
Grex's little problem, but it's gonna cost you. 

Or, you could just learn to enjoy the little ones -- make them take 
off their muddy shoes before coming in, shush them when the grownups 
are talking, clean up their messes, tell them when they're doing well, 
give them the occasional time out, and enourage them to sit up 
straight and finish their vegetables. 


#51 of 72 by tod on Sun Aug 28 19:43:32 2005:

re #49
Valerie starring as Malachai!


#52 of 72 by remmers on Sun Aug 28 20:08:02 2005:

McNally correctly points out, and Ryan apparently agrees, that major
changes to system policy would be needed to implement selective
exclusion of users.  Eliminating newuser, or comparably drastic
measures.  So maybe this is a good time to remind folks that Grex is a
Michigan corporation with a set of bylaws that it is legally obligated
to follow.  These specify a governance structure and policy-making
procedures.

Structure:  Grex has members (people who pay dues, get to vote, and have
a few additional perks such as outgoing telnet access), a board of
directors (elected by the members), and a technical staff (appointed by
the board and responsible for implementing policies and keeping the
system running).

Procedures:  The technical staff doesn't make policy, it's job is to
implement it and to keep the system running.  Policy is made by the
board or by member vote.  Traditionally, the board deals mainly deals
with things that involve money issues - hardware upgrades, rent,
insurance, etc. - with more far-reaching changes to the user experience
- access policies, etc. - being enacted by member vote.

I think that any change in newuser, mail access, posting privileges,
anything like that - should be by vote of the members.  The bylaws
specify how this works - member makes a proposal in a new coop item,
there's open discussion for a set period of time, 10% of the members
have to endorse bringing the proposal to a vote, proposer submits final
wording, then a vote takes place by secret online ballot over a period
of days.  (For text of the bylaws, see item 2 of this conference or go
to http://grex.org/local/grex/bylaws.html)

Several policies have come into existence by member vote.  (And several
proposals have failed, as well.)  See the "Grex Member Votes" webpage
(http://grex.org/local/grex/votes.html) for a history.

Actually, I'd like to see people's ideas for improving the Grex
experience.  And maybe I personally find annoying some of the same users
that Ryan and other find annoying.  Perhaps that's the price you have to
pay to have the things that one likes about Grex, perhaps not.  But just
bear in mind that for anything to change, you have to have a concrete,
technically feasible proposal, and you have to persuade enough people
that it's a good idea to vote it in.


#53 of 72 by naftee on Mon Aug 29 00:25:57 2005:

I find the GreX experience as enjoyable as enjoyment offers.


#54 of 72 by triludaa on Mon Aug 29 01:31:44 2005:

or you could go join the well or the wall or whatever that pay for chat site
is and then see how long they put up with your baby whining bullshit.


#55 of 72 by triludaa on Mon Aug 29 01:35:52 2005:

 also i would like ryan to think of this, there is a whole host of party goers
that dislike you mother because all she does is talk about crap such as: what
she is cooking, what dave thought, what she cleaned today and so forth.
perhaps you might want to protest and get her banned as well.


#56 of 72 by tod on Mon Aug 29 04:00:00 2005:

Shutting off newuser would be lame.


#57 of 72 by nharmon on Mon Aug 29 16:58:07 2005:

I am a paying member of Grex, and would probably cease being such if
newuser were shut down because of a policy decision. I do not think I
would be the only one.

Grex needs new members in order for it continue as a healthy
organization. Without new members, it'll simply die out. And shutting
down newuser will do just that.


#58 of 72 by tod on Mon Aug 29 20:21:22 2005:

Shutting down newuser will kill kittens.


#59 of 72 by albaugh on Mon Aug 29 22:15:29 2005:

And then only killers will have guns!


#60 of 72 by twenex on Mon Aug 29 22:40:39 2005:

I am not a paying member. If newuser is shut down I will stop using grex and
encourage any grexer with whom i might have any influence to do likewise.


#61 of 72 by cross on Mon Aug 29 22:51:55 2005:

It occurs to me that what grex needs are users, not members.  The ``member''
population is totally out of touch with the vast, vast, vast majority of
grex users, but still seem to feel they are the only ones qualified to
wield any authority on grex.

One lesson I learned about leadership is that, with authority, comes
responsibility.  The grex membership has authority to make decisions
affecting a group many times larger than itself, but takes almost no
responsibility for doing so.


#62 of 72 by tod on Tue Aug 30 03:53:16 2005:

I'm a member and I try not to touch anybody's vast vast vast anything without
gloves first.


#63 of 72 by naftee on Tue Aug 30 03:58:02 2005:

I am not a member, but I would touch tod's wife without my gloves.


#64 of 72 by triludaa on Tue Aug 30 07:08:22 2005:

thanks, naftee


#65 of 72 by nharmon on Tue Aug 30 15:47:51 2005:

  > The grex membership has authority to make decisions affecting a group 
  > many times larger than itself, but takes almost no responsibility for 
  > doing so.

Be careful what you wish for.



#66 of 72 by richard on Tue Aug 30 18:52:43 2005:

It bears pointing out that the political climate is still changing in 
this country.  With a more conservative congress and a more 
conservative judiciary, and acts like the Patriot Act already on the 
books, it is likely there will be another attempt to push through a 
version of the Communications Decency Act.

It is conceivable that grex may one day not be able to exist in its 
current form due to new censorship laws.  Grex with its open newuser 
provides uncensored content that children can read, and laws could 
easily come that would require grex to censor its own material and age-
verify its users.

So the question may be, do you wait until you are forced to do things 
differently, or do you attempt to adjust now so that there is more time 
to find changes that are acceptable?  For grex to do nothing belies the 
dark future that may await it in the years to come as this country gets 
swallowed up in paranoia.


#67 of 72 by nharmon on Tue Aug 30 19:46:48 2005:

 > So the question may be, do you wait until you are forced to do things 
 > differently, or do you attempt to adjust now so that there is more 
 > time to find changes that are acceptable?

Not only do we wait until we are forced to do things differently, but we
attempt to nip in the butt any upcoming legislation that forces us to
change how we do business.

If anything like the Communications Decency Act ever finds its way on to
the law books, perhaps Grex and M-Net can come together (*huh* *huh*,
come) and buy a server colo'd on Sealand. 8D


#68 of 72 by cross on Tue Aug 30 21:01:13 2005:

YES!  Go Sealand!


#69 of 72 by tod on Tue Aug 30 21:20:07 2005:

<scans barcode on infidel's forehead>


#70 of 72 by mary on Tue Aug 30 21:49:09 2005:

I don't think anyone wants Newuser shut down.  I certainly don't.  But 
what I do know is that our policies act as a filter for the users we 
attract.  By staying wide open we don't appeal to everyone.  Just as a 
verified system doesn't appeal to everyone.  Everyone checking us out 
decides if the content is worth their time.  It's the content that is 
the deal breaker, not the gate.  

To a great degree I think we've worked ourselves into a positon where we 
are stuck with our course.  We don't have enough users that if we had 
the BIG BATTLE over verification, the remaining folks would make 
critical mass.  Yet our content now is pretty thin and the community 
ingrown.  I suspect many of us are here because of momentum and habit.  
I still enjoy Grex but I'm also glad there are other communities out 
there.



#71 of 72 by sabre on Thu Sep 22 20:05:18 2005:

"Yet our content now is pretty thin and the community 
ingrown.  I suspect many of us are here because of momentum and habit."

I simply can't believe that mary has posted something that I actually 
agree with....just when you think you heard it all.


#72 of 72 by jesuit on Wed May 17 02:15:38 2006:

TROGG IS DAVID BLAINE


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