Grex Oldcoop Conference

Item 129: A request

Entered by tod on Thu Feb 26 18:55:30 2004:

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#1 of 163 by anderyn on Thu Feb 26 20:30:23 2004:

Todd, have you asked Valerie for your responses back? Sent a polite email and
asked her to send them to you? (I am assuming here that she has copies of her
own baby diaries.) Wouldn't that be the first line of defense, and best, if
all you want is your words back?


#2 of 163 by salad on Fri Feb 27 00:42:48 2004:

AHAHAAHA TOD" SINCE I ACTUALLY INITIATED THE ACTION AND YOU USED "WE" DOES THAT
MEAN THAT YOU"RE PART OF MY "GROUP"  ??  OH MAN  I HOPE YOU DON"T GET RAW
TOMATOES THROWN AT YOU OR SOMETHING


#3 of 163 by salad on Fri Feb 27 00:43:40 2004:

re 0
(The baby diaries were deleted over a month and a half ago, btw)


#4 of 163 by tod on Fri Feb 27 01:36:08 2004:

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#5 of 163 by tod on Fri Feb 27 01:39:22 2004:

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#6 of 163 by salad on Fri Feb 27 15:27:56 2004:

staff sucks


#7 of 163 by other on Fri Feb 27 15:52:26 2004:

Staff does what what the membership and the board request of them.
I.e. maintain the system and keep it running and available for all 
of us to use. They do a damn good job of it.

In this instance, the staff has done exactly what the membership has 
requested of them.  Valerie did something else, and Valerie is not 
on staff.


#8 of 163 by tod on Fri Feb 27 16:53:31 2004:

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#9 of 163 by cyklone on Fri Feb 27 22:05:28 2004:

Yup. Couldn't have said it better myself.


#10 of 163 by other on Fri Feb 27 22:42:18 2004:

I cannot dispute #8.  However, what you seem to be failing to 
acknowledge is that those are, and always have been, the rules under 
which this system operates.  


#11 of 163 by tod on Fri Feb 27 23:13:43 2004:

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#12 of 163 by salad on Fri Feb 27 23:25:13 2004:

YEAH<> WHERE"S THE MEMBERSHIP FOR ME< HUH?


#13 of 163 by rational on Fri Feb 27 23:26:28 2004:

YEAH< HUH?


#14 of 163 by cyklone on Sat Feb 28 00:38:35 2004:

Re #10: Perhaps you could point me to the rules (in effect at the time I
posted in jep's items) that said my own words could be removed by a
deliberate act of staff abuse or by a vote of the membership. Both those
things were incredibly sleazy and I do not believe either was supported by
any rules. 



#15 of 163 by jaklumen on Sat Feb 28 01:09:56 2004:

When Valerie wrote such an effective scribble program, I'm a little 
baffled why she didn't originally do that initially (delete her 
responses) instead of deleting the entire items.

Fact remains-- when she deleted her items and jep's, she squelched a 
lot of what other people wrote.  People can argue all day long whether 
it was censorship or not, but other people's writing was deleted 
without their permission.


#16 of 163 by jp2 on Sat Feb 28 01:54:53 2004:

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#17 of 163 by salad on Sat Feb 28 19:47:02 2004:

re 15 I'm baffled too, as I've pointed out countless times.


#18 of 163 by other on Sat Feb 28 20:32:31 2004:

The one rule that supercedes them all is that the membership makes 
the rules.  That's how it has always been on Grex.  No policy is 
immune to overrule by the membership.

14: As for a "deliberate act of staff abuse," no rules apply, 
because by definition, none can.


#19 of 163 by rational on Sat Feb 28 20:33:56 2004:

Only if you're a technocrat.  I'm pretty sure staff can abuse the system, if
you're a humanist.


#20 of 163 by jmsaul on Sat Feb 28 20:47:49 2004:

Re #18:  That's not true.  You could make a rule that, if staff commit an
         abuse, the system will be restored as closely as possible to the
         state it was in before the abuse.  While you can't prevent staff
         from being irresponsible, you can make it clear that whatever they
         accomplish by doing it will be futile, because the rest of the
         staff will undo it within days.

         Unfortunately, that isn't what happened. 


#21 of 163 by cyklone on Sat Feb 28 22:51:52 2004:

Re #18: Your statement can be read two ways. The first is that the members
vote on policies, which means any policy can be changed as of the date the
members vote to change it. The second is that members can vote to
essentially nullify the effect of policies that others thought were in
effect at the time they acted in reliance on those previously established
policies. The second example, by reaching back in time, is far more
extreme and, I'm sorry to say, what grex voters endorsed with their
anti-restoration votes. 



#22 of 163 by other on Sun Feb 29 00:08:10 2004:

21: Both are legitimate readings.  The membership is the ultimate 
arbiter of what happens here.  I can certainly imagine decisions 
which might result in the immediate en masse resignation of the 
board and staff, or with other equally disastrous results but those 
decisions would be legitimate within the parameters of this system 
anyway.

The danger in a democratic society is that the majority of the 
society can at any time vote to destroy it, and they'd succeed.


#23 of 163 by rational on Sun Feb 29 00:08:57 2004:

Or possibly by masturbation, don't you think?


#24 of 163 by gelinas on Sun Feb 29 01:17:54 2004:

Re 20:  I don't know that what valerie did was an act of abuse.  Many disagree
with it, and I have come to agree that it shouldn't have been done, but that
doesn't make it abuse.  It occurs to me that *this* is the basic disagreement.
Were it abuse, it should be undone.  If it were not abuse, the appropriate
action is not clear and so the membership must decide what to do.


#25 of 163 by salad on Sun Feb 29 01:54:56 2004:

It was abuse.


#26 of 163 by cyklone on Sun Feb 29 03:33:26 2004:

Denying me access to MY WORDS was, and continues to be, abuse.


#27 of 163 by gelinas on Sun Feb 29 03:35:36 2004:

How is denying you access to your words an abuse when deleting the 'greek
week' items was not?


#28 of 163 by rational on Sun Feb 29 03:53:59 2004:

(because we all know Greek Week was wrong.  cyklone didn't do anything was
wrong.)


#29 of 163 by salad on Sun Feb 29 04:29:15 2004:

(you should english speak-write before greek
)


#30 of 163 by cyklone on Sun Feb 29 13:49:57 2004:

Re #27: The words I posted in no way abused the system.


#31 of 163 by jmsaul on Sun Feb 29 14:44:57 2004:

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#32 of 163 by rational on Sun Feb 29 14:51:35 2004:

sleip.


#33 of 163 by jmsaul on Sun Feb 29 14:57:00 2004:

Re #24:  Use of staff powers for your personal benefit is clear abuse.
         (Valerie's deletion of the baby items.)  Use of staff powers
         unilaterally, when you know the staff is trying to make a 
         collective decision about that very action, is abuse.  (Her
         deletion of the divorce items.)
         
         The vote results were less an endorsement of her actions than a
         statement that people were tired of the controversy, and wanted
         it to stop.  Grexers don't like confrontations.

         Unfortunately, the net result is that she abused her staff
         privileges twice, and got everything she wanted out of it.
         That's a bad precedent -- and it *is* a precedent in the context
         of how staff misbehavior is handled, even if it isn't a precedent
         about non-staff getting items deleted.  The precedent is that
         staff misbehavior is rewarded by allowing your actions to stand.

         (And before anyone claims that she was punished by getting thrown
         off staff, remember that she was tired of being on staff anyway.)


#34 of 163 by remmers on Sun Feb 29 16:01:44 2004:

We know that the vote result was not to restore the items.  We can speculate
as to why people voted that way, but since voters aren't required to reveal
their reasons, we don't really know.  Most of the people who voted weren't
active participants in the discussions.


#35 of 163 by jp2 on Sun Feb 29 16:22:25 2004:

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#36 of 163 by jmsaul on Sun Feb 29 17:36:43 2004:

Re #34:  Yes, guesses as to the reasoning behind votes are speculative.
         Grex has always had a strong tendency to vote to keep things the
         way they are and not rock the boat, however, so it's a reasonable
         speculation.

         My main point, though, is that the end result was to give Valerie
         everything she wanted -- which is not the way to discourage staff
         abuse in the future.


#37 of 163 by mary on Sun Feb 29 18:42:52 2004:

One of the things I'm most sure about here is that Valerie's actions will
NOT encourage other staff members to do the same..  Think about it, Grex,
the community, took a big hit.  It will take a long time for hard feelings
to heal.  Valerie is off staff and even if she wanted her status returned
I profoundly doubt that would happen.  She is off the system and is
probably aware her returning here, for the near future at least, would be
a mistake. 

If there was any confusion as to who has the right to remove another's
text it's probably been made a whole lot clearer. 

So I'm not particularly worried about some staff member deciding to follow
in Valerie's footsteps. 



#38 of 163 by jp2 on Sun Feb 29 19:44:44 2004:

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#39 of 163 by remmers on Sun Feb 29 20:10:15 2004:

How many of you?


#40 of 163 by jmsaul on Sun Feb 29 20:13:21 2004:

I guess it depends on whether anyone currently on the staff has as poor
impulse control as Valerie had, or is as tired of being on staff as she
was.


#41 of 163 by salad on Sun Feb 29 20:47:43 2004:

I am profoundly scared of the staff.


#42 of 163 by rational on Sun Feb 29 21:07:56 2004:

I agree.



#43 of 163 by jmsaul on Sun Feb 29 22:14:51 2004:

(#39 slipped.  I'm not especially afraid of the staff, but I would have been
happier if Grex had taken the stance that they'd undo abuses instead of
letting them stand.)


#44 of 163 by jp2 on Sun Feb 29 22:52:06 2004:

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#45 of 163 by cyklone on Sun Feb 29 23:28:48 2004:

Re #37: I think we are on the same side in this controversy, so don't take
this the wrong way: My hard feelings will probably last until my words in
jep's item are returned to my control. They don't have to be returned in the
context of restoring his item, although that is the correct solution. What
I am refering to is the ADDITIONAL insult of not having control over my own
words even when NONE of the reasons for non-restoration apply to denying
authors access to their own words.


#46 of 163 by mary on Mon Mar 1 00:33:46 2004:

Part of being an adult is realizing you can't always have
it go your way no matter how badly you want it and how
"right" you feel you are.  It's time to move on.  Doing
so doesn't diminish what you value and it just might mean
next time you want to be part of a discussion, that folks
will still be listening to what you say.


#47 of 163 by rational on Mon Mar 1 00:36:31 2004:

Realizing he can't always have it his way isn't the same as knowing he SHOULD
have it his way when he's correct, Mary.  You know that.


#48 of 163 by mary on Mon Mar 1 00:46:08 2004:

I *knew* that when I was four.


#49 of 163 by rational on Mon Mar 1 01:48:24 2004:

Why don't you know it now?


#50 of 163 by remmers on Mon Mar 1 12:59:07 2004:

Re #44:  People being the flawed creatures that they are, I don't know
of any way of conferring authority that does not entail risk.  If Jamie
knows of some successful real-world enterprise that proves otherwise
and that Grex could emulate, I'd appreciate a pointer to it.


#51 of 163 by jp2 on Mon Mar 1 13:57:23 2004:

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#52 of 163 by remmers on Mon Mar 1 17:09:25 2004:

Of course not.  And I'd hope that Grex staff would take reasonable
steps to correct any damage, intentional or otherwise, inflicted by
anyone, staff or not.  In fact, the staff does that all the time,
mopping up after users who fill up the disk or do other harmful
stuff.

Having a staff member do a baddie like that took us by surprise.
I'd like to think that the staff would have ultimately decided to
do the right thing by way of correction.  But remember that you are
the person who decided to move right away to a member vote, effectively
taking the decision out of the staff's hands.


#53 of 163 by jp2 on Mon Mar 1 21:41:02 2004:

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#54 of 163 by salad on Mon Mar 1 21:58:42 2004:

REMEMBER: They were still "discussing " it.


#55 of 163 by jmsaul on Mon Mar 1 23:15:38 2004:

Re #52:  I would have hoped that too, prior to this incident.  Now, I have
         my doubts.


#56 of 163 by tod on Tue Mar 2 00:50:17 2004:

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#57 of 163 by jp2 on Tue Mar 2 00:53:29 2004:

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#58 of 163 by remmers on Tue Mar 2 13:30:43 2004:

Re #53:  I'm a staff member, and I'm on record from early on as opposing
what Valerie did.  When the issue came to a vote, I voted in favor of
restoring the items and believe I am not the only staff member who did so.

In terms of the appropriateness of staff taking action, though, I think the
significant point in time is not when the voting started but when the
motion was made.  At that point, knowing that the issue was likely coming
up for a vote by the membership, I don't see how staff could have taken
action without subverting the concept of member control of policy.


#59 of 163 by cmcgee on Tue Mar 2 14:29:47 2004:

I agree that the staff was pre-empted from doing anything the moment a member
made a motion about the issue.  

I expect staff in -any- organization to wait for direction if they know there
is a controversy AND that the appropriate decision-making group is making a
decision.  If AATA staff took action on a controversial issue that they knew
the BoD was meeting about, there would be very serious insubordination issues
to contend with.  If staff here had done anything, knowing the decision
process had been set in motion and was moving at its fastest pace, I think
the issue of "who's on staff, and who's not" would have been the next item
to consider.  


#60 of 163 by slynne on Tue Mar 2 18:35:57 2004:

I agree with remmers too. Once the motion was made, it would have been 
inappropriate for staff to act. Personally, I think this stunned 
everyone and the staff were wise not to act too quickly. I also think 
that with an issue like this where a lot of people's emotions are 
involved, it was appropriate to let the membership decide. I can live 
with that even though the decision didnt go the way I would have wanted 
it to go. 





#61 of 163 by tod on Tue Mar 2 19:03:52 2004:

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#62 of 163 by albaugh on Tue Mar 2 19:20:06 2004:

While I can possibly buy the notion that once the motion was made staff was
reticent to act on their own, I think the major reason for inaction is that
this situation had never come up before, and it wasn't clear exactly what
should be done or how & who to do it.  If jp2 had known that the staff were
ending deliberation once the motion was made, he could have said something
like "the staff is free to do what it would have done had the motion not been
made", and that to me would not have resulted in any inappropriate action
having been taken.  I.e. if the staff already had a policy of restoring
mistakenly deleted items, then they would have proceded to do so, regardless
of any motion being made to do so (and in fact not requiring such a motion).

This all goes under the category of "live and learn".


#63 of 163 by salad on Tue Mar 2 22:54:03 2004:

Yeah, learn that GreX sucks.



#64 of 163 by jmsaul on Wed Mar 3 02:37:45 2004:

So... the next time this happens, all that's necessary to prevent staff action
to restore the items is for some random member to make a proposal in Coop?

Are you sure that's the way you want it to work?


#65 of 163 by remmers on Wed Mar 3 11:30:25 2004:

No, I hardly think we'd want it to work that way.  Kevin's #62 is
pretty close to my own thinking.


#66 of 163 by jp2 on Wed Mar 3 14:10:43 2004:

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#67 of 163 by albaugh on Wed Mar 3 18:41:31 2004:

And you're not absolved of your mental breach over this whole dragged-out
affair.


#68 of 163 by scott on Wed Mar 3 20:18:28 2004:

Re 66:  If anybody is having ethical problems, it's you.  


#69 of 163 by jp2 on Wed Mar 3 20:24:49 2004:

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#70 of 163 by salad on Wed Mar 3 20:41:45 2004:

STICK 'EM UP


#71 of 163 by jmsaul on Wed Mar 3 22:29:03 2004:

Re #65:  If this ever happens again, you can expect to see a repeat, I'm
         sure.


#72 of 163 by tod on Wed Mar 3 22:43:12 2004:

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#73 of 163 by scott on Wed Mar 3 23:23:38 2004:

Sure, Jamie, just as soon as you've provided proof for your #66 accusation.


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#76 of 163 by scott on Thu Mar 4 02:15:43 2004:

Sorry, Jamie, you can't get off that easy.  As the prime mover behind a lot
of wasted bandwidth and member votes you've got a lot to explain.


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#79 of 163 by salad on Thu Mar 4 03:55:40 2004:

re 73 It's a tough deal in his case.  Since he sometimes doesn't log on in the
span of a couple days, we can't really be sure if he's lying when he said that
he'd publically announce valerie's item deletions were I not to have entered
those items.


#80 of 163 by scott on Thu Mar 4 14:11:13 2004:

Re 78:  Oh yes, one of your other unfounded, unproven, wild accusations.


#81 of 163 by polygon on Thu Mar 4 18:06:57 2004:

Maybe this is irrelevant to the hubbub, but I still fail to "get" the
concept that free speech requires that one's words be preserved on the
system forever.

In the course of ordinary maintenance, restart and deletion of
conferences, etc., I'm sure hundreds of thousands of my words have been
deleted from M-Net and Grex (not to mention other systems) over the years. 
And there are certainly some of those I wish I could have back.  But it
would be ludicrous for me to charge either system with violating my rights
because it was time to repaint the wall I scrawled my name on. 

The items shouldn't have been deleted.  But they were written months or
years ago; Grex doesn't (and shouldn't) promise a permanent archiving
service.  If your words are so important to you, download and archive them
yourself!


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#84 of 163 by polygon on Thu Mar 4 19:12:57 2004:

Re 82.  I was just making the point that the free speech argument was
nonsense.


#85 of 163 by tod on Thu Mar 4 20:16:39 2004:

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#86 of 163 by cyklone on Thu Mar 4 23:08:41 2004:

Re #84: Putting aside the private v. government distinction, do you honestly
believe the ACLU would sit idly by if the Congress passed a law requiring all
newspapers to destroy back issues from the Nixon era? 


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#89 of 163 by other on Fri Mar 5 14:31:47 2004:

The definition of censorship as a concept depends on the act being 
performed before the information being censored has the opportunity 
to propagate to the society.  The information in question here was 
patently NOT censored, because it was available to be read copied 
and distributed (without regard to the legality of that activity) 
for a very extended period before it was made unavailable.

If you choose not to read a book before the publisher stops 
printing and distributing it, then it is up to you to locate a copy 
of it on your own if you still wish to read it, and if you can't do 
that, then too bad, but it isn't censorship.


#90 of 163 by rational on Fri Mar 5 15:41:50 2004:

Regardless of whether or not you call it censorship, it was wrong.


#91 of 163 by rational on Fri Mar 5 15:49:05 2004:

I agree, rational.  I don't see the point in constantly arguing about 
definitions, when what something is called has nothing to do with 
whether it's right or wrong, and doing so is almost like suggesting 
people who don't have words for a certain thing would be unable to 
argue whether or not it was right, or that a dictionary would somehow 
be an arbiter of morality.  I wonder if this habit of arguing 
definitions might be related to our common legal system, where strict 
definitions rule.  But, regardless of that, we don't need to argue 
formal definitions.  Simply use intuition to understand what people 
mean, and consider this in relation to what actually happened, instead 
of running abstractedly around censorship.


#92 of 163 by anderyn on Fri Mar 5 16:59:17 2004:

But, you see, it's the people running around screaming censorship who get
other people's backs up. I've said all along that it's prior restraint (if
that's the correct legal term?) that makes it censorship -- if Valerie had
prevented you from posting because she didn't like your words, for exampl,e
that would have been censorship. But deleting something that has been read
and around for a while so that everyone who was reading that particular thread
had been able to read it doesn't equal censorship. It may be something else,
and wrong, but it's not censorship. So calling it that prejudices your case.
I do think that people have very strong feelings about their words on here
and that a lot of this is a clash of visceral impressions about how and what
the system is.

To me, and to a lot of people like me, it was a not-quite-real-time
conversation, so the words I type are not "published" per se, but simply
written as part of the conversation. It's not expected that one would keep
a conversation around forever.

To others, it was being "published" and they expected it to be kept. And for
others to read it, even years after the conversation that had sparked it had
gone. 

I admit, I have a hard time understanding the other point of view, because
it is so alien to the way I relate to the computer. But I can see that if you
expected it to be around and archived, that would be frustrating. Of course,
given the typos, etc. that are endemic to on-line communication, I'm not sure
*why* anyone would want them around forever and as a public record of what
you were thinking on any given day. :-)



#93 of 163 by cmcgee on Fri Mar 5 17:10:26 2004:

For me censorship implies a primary intent to keep someone elses' ideas
out of public discourse.  As I saw it, Valerie's actions were primarily
intended to remove her own ideas from public discourse (and later, at
jep's request, jep's ideas).  A secondary effect was that other peoples
commentary on valerie and jep's ideas were also removed. 



#94 of 163 by tod on Fri Mar 5 17:52:16 2004:

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#95 of 163 by rational on Fri Mar 5 20:21:28 2004:

God dammit.  Didn't you guys read what I wrote?


#96 of 163 by davel on Fri Mar 5 20:36:46 2004:

Why bother?


#97 of 163 by rational on Fri Mar 5 20:47:06 2004:

Because what I said discounted all the responses between it and what I just
LAST said.


#98 of 163 by anderyn on Fri Mar 5 21:36:20 2004:

Todd, much of what I posted WAS commentary. It was only in response to what
Valerie was talking about -- it wasn't like I suddenly woke up and decided
"oh, I'm going to talk about why I named my kids what I did in Valerie's diary
item today" -- Valerie would muse on names, or whatever, and people would
respond. And there would be repetition, if the subject came up again -- I
would say much the same thing again because, well, if I'm talking about why
I named my kids, there are really only two responses possible for that. (One
for Rhiannon and one for Gareth.) And in JEP's items, it was the same. I
didn't come up with a new theory and just post it. Nor did anyone else in
either item, as far as I can recall. It was response, not initiation. 

As well, so freezing an item is censorship? So are we going to ban freezing,
too?



#99 of 163 by salad on Fri Mar 5 22:36:31 2004:

That's a little off the mark.  Someone else can always start a new item and
grab text from the old frozen items.  

But in the case of these baby diaries or jep's items, there was only one copy,
and it was mercilessily destroyed.


#100 of 163 by jmsaul on Fri Mar 5 23:36:37 2004:

Re #93:  csmcgee wrote:

 For me censorship implies a primary intent to keep someone elses' ideas
 out of public discourse.  As I saw it, Valerie's actions were primarily
 intended to remove her own ideas from public discourse (and later, at
 jep's request, jep's ideas).  A secondary effect was that other peoples
 commentary on valerie and jep's ideas were also removed. 

Actually, Valerie's stated intent was to keep other people's responses from
being read.  I'm not sure that I can find the post where she said that any
more, because she may have scribbled it -- but she made it very clear that
she was removing the items entirely rather than just scribbling her responses
because she did not want people to have access to other people's responses
in those items.  Specifically, she did not want the parodists to be able to
read those responses.

That was her primary intent in removing the items.  I'll see if I can find
the post.


#101 of 163 by cyklone on Fri Mar 5 23:49:33 2004:

cmngee and twila are simply playing word games to avoid the real issue, which
is that users were denied control over their own words as part of doing
personal favors for favored persons. They both fail to see that the reason
there are absolute principles about censorship before *or* after the fact is
because otherwise expression (words) is lost when the twilas and cmgees of
the world start making value judgments like "those weren't really ideas, they
were just commentary." What a boatload of bullshit. Shame on both of you.

And FWIW, my words were not commentary, they were ideas posted to benefit
everyone, not just jep's sorry ingrateful ass.

The ignorance and/or intellectual dishonesty shown by the likes of cmgee
and twila is stunning. BTW, prior restraint is just one form of
censorship. The actual definition in my Webster's unabridged is 

"to examine, review, *expurgate* or change as a censor." 

A censor is defined as "a person whose task is to examine literature,
motion pictures, etc. to *remove* or prohibit anything considered
unsuitable." Note that prior and post publication actions are covered.


#102 of 163 by scott on Fri Mar 5 23:57:06 2004:

So if your words were so important, why didn't you save a copy?

At this point we're all beating our favorite dead horses over this, and I
can't think of a mutually agreeable way out either.


#103 of 163 by salad on Sat Mar 6 00:28:06 2004:

I hope someone copies verbatim their previous answer to that comment.


#104 of 163 by anderyn on Sat Mar 6 01:36:27 2004:

Okay, Stupid question, here. Have you asked anyone if they had a copy? If
there is in fact a copy in someone's hot little hands, archived, then it's
not lost and gone forever.  As I said before, if you really want your words
back and nothing else (if that's the important thing to you), then why don't
you ask and see if someone saved them? That would get you what you say you
want, your words back. If instead what you want is to make a fuss, then it'd
be nice to know that, too.


#105 of 163 by salad on Sat Mar 6 02:29:14 2004:

Isn't there a copy in gelinas' house?


#106 of 163 by rational on Sat Mar 6 02:49:02 2004:

Listen, you sons of bitches, I'll stop posting if you don't realise you're
just arguing in word games.


#107 of 163 by happyboy on Sat Mar 6 03:27:07 2004:

re102:  why should he have to make a copy to have them
        preserved?  you are defending the actions of
        a cowarly vandal.


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#109 of 163 by salad on Sat Mar 6 04:43:08 2004:

Well, she didn't ENTIRELY destroy the items, as far as we know.  There could
still be copies on the GreX pumpkin backup tapes


#110 of 163 by tod on Sat Mar 6 06:55:50 2004:

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#111 of 163 by scott on Sat Mar 6 13:57:17 2004:

Mnet was down for a month from vandal activity.  Grex backups are rare at
best.

By not keeping copies of your works given what you know about the reliability
of unsecured, open Internet sites, you've pretty much proven that you don't
care that much about your words.  Whether the loss was due to a staff abuse
or any other source is irrelevant.


#112 of 163 by cyklone on Sat Mar 6 14:29:11 2004:

That is absolute and utter bullshit Scott, and I expected you of all
people to be smart enough to see the difference between an accidental loss
of text due to system failure and a deliberate act of staff misconduct.
Like I've said before, by your logic there is no difference between murder
and death by old age since the result is the same. You cannot possibly
believe your "logic"  is in any way valid. 

I agree with tod in #110.

Twila: If you would bother to keep up with this discussion and recall what
I've written, you would know I have already made a request in this cf for the
copies of my dbunker entries. Let me say it again for those that missed it
the first time.

IF ANYONE HAS COPIES OF THE DBUNKER POSTS IN JEP'S DIVORCE ITEMS I WOULD
VERY MUCH APPRECIATE A COPY. YOU CAN EITHER GIVE ME THE ENTIRE COPY, AND I
PROMISE NOT TO POST OR OTHERWISE USE ANYONE ELSE'S POSTS, OR YOU CAN JUST
COPY OUT THE DBUNKER POSTS AND SEND ME ONLY THOSE. IF THERE IS A LOT OF
LABOR INVOLVED, I WOULD EVEN BE WILLING TO COMPENSATE FOR THE TIME. 



#113 of 163 by scott on Sat Mar 6 15:30:49 2004:

My logic is just as good as yours.  You valued your words that much, you
should have done something to protect them.  You KNEW that Grex was not a
guaranteed safe place for data - doesn't matter how the damage was done.


#114 of 163 by rational on Sat Mar 6 16:03:55 2004:

(M-Net wasn't down from vandal activity, though I'm not surprised a technocrat
like Scott would fall for that myth.)


#115 of 163 by cyklone on Sat Mar 6 19:26:39 2004:

Scott's logic is defective in many, many ways. He also fails to recall my
very detailed arguments as to why the the "safeguarding" of one's posts is
a complete red herring (here's a reminder scott: what if a poster died?). 
The words have value regardless of the permanence of storage or the
safeguards to retain them. 

Censors are people who make value judgments about the texts based on the
qualities they attribute to the words and/or the authors. Scott seems to
think words are not worth preserving if the original authors take no steps
to preserve. If he wants to live in his fantasy world, great, but I have
lost all respect for his intellectual capacity. 

Using Scott's twisted "logic" if a person didn't attend to their health,
it would be OK to murder them because they didn't plan to live long
anyway. 



#116 of 163 by salad on Sat Mar 6 19:27:38 2004:

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#117 of 163 by scott on Sat Mar 6 21:21:45 2004:

Re 115:  So it's not about the value of your own words, then?  That would
explain why you hadn't even posted them under your own name.

Look, you could go ahead and just say you've changed your mind, given the way
those items were removed.  Just don't try to argue logic here, or present any
more faulty analogies.  It's very hard to take you seriously when you
essentially saying that your words are important, but that you didn't care
enough to preserve them yourself.


#118 of 163 by rational on Sat Mar 6 21:26:55 2004:

I wonder if it's possible they were over the threshhold of something he'd want
to save, but not over the threshhold of something he'd go out of his way to
save.


#119 of 163 by coopcf on Sat Mar 6 22:57:08 2004:

Scott & Cyklone:

Read item 75, responses 155 - 167 .

Thanks.


#120 of 163 by salad on Sun Mar 7 00:15:40 2004:

The COOP conference is eternally wise.


#121 of 163 by cyklone on Sun Mar 7 13:26:44 2004:

Re #117: " It's very hard to take you seriously when you essentially
saying that your words are important, but that you didn't care enough to
preserve them yourself." 

So even if words have value to a third party, the should nevertheless be
denied access to those words simply because the author for whatever
reasons did not to take your required steps to designate those words
worthy of preservation? Get a clue, moron. You don't even realize that by
piling value judgment upon value judgment you are engaging in the very
behavior free speech prinicples seek to avoid. 

You also have a wonderful way of blaming the victims for Valerie's abusive
behavior and to justify the shamefully unprinciple vote of the grexers who
supported personal favors for favored persons.


#122 of 163 by scott on Sun Mar 7 14:55:58 2004:

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#123 of 163 by scott on Sun Mar 7 15:00:29 2004:

I'm not blaming the victim, actually.  I'm saying that you are making 
yourself out to be the abused and aggrieved victim, when your (lack of) 
actions previously seem to say otherwise.

As I said a couple responses ago, I would accept that once the deletions
occurred you suddenly found yourself much more concerned about the survival
of your words than before, and that in retrospect you would have made your
own backups.

BTW, calling me a moron is not helping your logic any.  And it would help if
you could decide once and for all whether you're concerned about your own
access or a hypothetical "third party" access to your words.

Hmm... didn't we have yet another huge argument here a while back about what
sort of license was being given/loaned to Grex to keep a copy of people's
words online?  This was part of the scribble log debate.


#124 of 163 by salad on Sun Mar 7 20:06:16 2004:

Didn't you guys read the item?%!


#125 of 163 by rational on Sun Mar 7 20:13:32 2004:

YEAH?



#126 of 163 by jp2 on Mon Mar 8 00:28:08 2004:

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#127 of 163 by salad on Mon Mar 8 01:00:51 2004:

LOL


#128 of 163 by tod on Mon Mar 8 16:48:02 2004:

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#129 of 163 by remmers on Mon Mar 8 17:11:32 2004:

The members voted not to restore.


#130 of 163 by jp2 on Mon Mar 8 18:38:31 2004:

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#134 of 163 by cyklone on Tue Mar 9 00:13:38 2004:

Rer #123: Scott, if you had been following the debate with any careful
consideration, you would have seen that I was making two parallel points. 
My first (and initial) point was that grex had no principled basis to deny
authors, including myself, the right to control our words (other than the
"personal favors for favored persons" prinicple).

What happened next was that the anti-restorationists, unable to deny my
compelling logic, began to seek alternative grounds to justify removing
user control over their words. The main basis was the benefit to jep and
valeried outweighed the harms to the posters. I stated at the time that
while I did not consider that a valid argument to justify censorship and
the removal of user control over their words, even that flimsy argument
was highly suspect. 

My basis for that claim was that jep and valerie made no supportable
claims of harm, prefering instead to "argue" on the basis of innuendo. I
also made very clear the point that the words had value independent of the
author and even beyond the value the author ascribed to said words. One of
the key pieces of evidence in support of my argument was that JEP HIMSELF
said he wished a similar item had existed when he was so unable to cope
with his divorce. 

I'm sorry you can't remember all that. However, I made my points
consistently and repeatedly. I am sure you are quite smart when it comes
to electronics and computing. But when it comes to following the history
and the arguments in this debate you are clueless. Hence my moron comment.

And yeah, if it makes you feel better or believe you've won some sort of
argument, then I admit I probably would have backed up my posts if I had
any idea grex staff and its members would act in such a reprehensible
manner. In terms of the principles at stake, and the unsupportable
anti-restoration arguments, though, whether or not I or anyone else made a
back-up is entirely irrelevant. I'm amazed you can't see that.


#135 of 163 by scott on Tue Mar 9 00:25:32 2004:

Um, just because I don't agree with you doesn't mean I don't understand your
arguments.


#136 of 163 by tod on Tue Mar 9 01:08:45 2004:

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#137 of 163 by other on Tue Mar 9 01:25:32 2004:

If you want the blue ribbon removed, submit a proposal to that 
effect for vote.  Otherwise, it ain't gonna happen.


#138 of 163 by salad on Tue Mar 9 02:19:42 2004:

We should submit a memeberer proposal to remove Grex's underwear.


#139 of 163 by cyklone on Tue Mar 9 02:30:01 2004:

Re #135: You *say* you understand my argument. However your continued
focus on whether or not an author chooses to back up his/her text
demonstrates no understanding whatsoever of my point: Words have intrinsic
VALUE all by themself, and that value doesn't increase or decrease simply
because of an author's decision to save or not. 



#140 of 163 by anderyn on Tue Mar 9 02:40:54 2004:

I don't think I believe that words have value in and of themselves. As an
editor, I change people's words all the time. As a writer, editors change my
words all the time. I see words as tools rather than anything set in stone.


#141 of 163 by rational on Tue Mar 9 04:18:55 2004:

Right, they're changing your words to make them less valuable.


#142 of 163 by cyklone on Tue Mar 9 13:29:27 2004:

Re #140: You have unwittingly described your problem in a nutshell. Your
*JOB* is to make value judgments about the words of others! Thus, you are
comfortable supporting censorship on grex.  You can't see the difference
between words subject to editing and free and unedited speech. Maybe you
haven't noticed there are no editors on grex. Each person is responsible
for their own words (or at least was until the Valerie/jep fiasco).

And it is extremely presumptious of you to suggest words have no intinisic
value and imply that editors such as yourself add or create value. Shame
on you!  My words certainly need no input/modification/censorship from the
likes of you. 



#143 of 163 by anderyn on Tue Mar 9 15:15:20 2004:

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#144 of 163 by anderyn on Tue Mar 9 15:19:25 2004:

The next time you read an unedited book and notice the problems, remember what
you've just said. *Everyone's* words can use a lookover for typos, mistaken
grammar, and the like. (Previous response scribbled for typo, in fact.)
Even Homer nods, sometimes, and can use a hand. As I said, words are tools.
They are not sacred. 


#145 of 163 by cyklone on Tue Mar 9 17:25:48 2004:

Nice dodge, twila. The issue in grex has never been one of grammar or typos.
You are simply creating a red herring to justify your predilections to act
as an editor/censor on grex. And you again fall into that ignorant binary
either/or trap so many grexers fall for. Words can be sacred *AND* tools, so
stop trying make it one or the other. 


#146 of 163 by tod on Tue Mar 9 18:03:26 2004:

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#147 of 163 by anderyn on Tue Mar 9 21:59:19 2004:

Well, actually, words are tools for communicating. If they don't do that, then
they should be changed. If they don't do it effectively, they should be
changed. However, I'm not offering to edit Grex. Eeek! That would be a totally
thankless task. And I don't want to censor it. No, what I'd like is if people
were thoughtful and acted civilly and with respect to each other. 

I have never written anything that couldn't have been improved by a careful
look-over and rewrite. I certainly don't do that for Grex. Grex is a much more
immediate and ephemeral creation. This is where I'm differing from you -- in
my definition of what kind of speech it is here. If it's for publication, then
one should be very careful and correct in order to ensure that it's as clear
and communicates everything that one wishes. If it's "speech", then it's
enough to write what one thinks at the time in a very immediate style. I don't
expect anyone to preserve and archive my speech. I suspect that this is the
very nub of where we differ. I don't see Grex as anything but a facilitator
for my "speech". It's not publishing per se. Once I've typed this and hit the
period, and it's been read and responded to, I don't care if it is erased in
a day, or two days, or a month, or whatever. I've had the effect I wished to
have at the time I wished to have it. Just as if I'd called you on the phone
and said these things. 


#148 of 163 by cyklone on Tue Mar 9 22:22:37 2004:

Yeah, but just because you feel that way does not make your standard
correct.  You admit that speech is involved and then you try to make
distinctions based on what you perceive to be different types of speech. 
If you knew anything about free speech you would know it is exactly that
sort of parsing ("good"  speech v "bad" speech/"effective" speech v
"ineffective" speech) that opens the door to censorship. It is the reason
free speech only works when it is absolute (except for one or two
well-defined exceptions like yelling "fire" in a crowded theater). 

You need to recognize that true free speech cannot flourish when you make
the distinctions you are making. Until you can accept that fact you are
the poster girl for why grex sucks.



#149 of 163 by salad on Tue Mar 9 23:41:39 2004:

re 147 So would your "editing" of GreX include the killing of entire items
because of their content?


#150 of 163 by tod on Wed Mar 10 00:16:18 2004:

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#151 of 163 by anderyn on Wed Mar 10 01:09:41 2004:

I don't believe you know what I voted (or if I voted). As for editing or
censoring Grex, nope. That's not what I'm saying at all. 


#152 of 163 by jp2 on Wed Mar 10 01:28:54 2004:

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#153 of 163 by tod on Wed Mar 10 01:34:14 2004:

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#154 of 163 by cyklone on Wed Mar 10 02:36:15 2004:

Typical. Apparently some grexers have no qualms about "editing" the speech
of others because they so often find themselves "editing" their own.


#155 of 163 by anderyn on Wed Mar 10 03:23:08 2004:

I can support something without voting for it or against it. I don't believe
I have said that I voted one way or another. 


#156 of 163 by salad on Wed Mar 10 03:35:45 2004:

re 151 But surely you can see, that's just what happened with 
the valerie and jep items!!


#157 of 163 by polygon on Wed Mar 10 18:52:14 2004:

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#158 of 163 by jiffer on Fri Apr 23 15:44:28 2004:

Holy Focken' Shite! I think I have seen 3 year olds with more maturity 
than salad, soup, rational, and jp2! They are words, it is a BBS, if 
you are going to post here, think first.  weinies. 


#159 of 163 by tod on Fri Apr 23 18:14:20 2004:

Where's crouton when you need him!


#160 of 163 by soup on Fri Apr 23 22:22:52 2004:

Get that bread over here!


#161 of 163 by tod on Fri Apr 23 23:14:58 2004:

poohman!


#162 of 163 by jaklumen on Tue Apr 27 01:57:29 2004:

resp:158 I dunno-- if you don't like it, you can always simply ignore 
it, too.

resp:161 tiggerroo!


#163 of 163 by jesuit on Wed May 17 02:14:53 2006:

TROGG IS DAVID BLAINE


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