It's time for me to take a leave from Grex for a while. I've been participating only in coop for a few weeks now, and that only to pursue the policy initiatives which directly impacted me. Those issues are settled now, thank goodness. A few parting thoughts: First of all: During the last few weeks, I have been subjected to a more concerted and abusive assault from Grexers than I have ever seen on either M-Net or Grex. It reminds me of junior high school, more than anything else. Or of the book, "Lord of the Flies". I submit to everyone here that that kind of assault is not only unwarranted, even from the least responsible individuals, but intolerable to Grex itself. I don't know what can be done about it, but not very many people are going to put up with being the target of something like that. This is not an acceptable use of Grex. It shouldn't ever be okay to have someone treated like that; not for any participant of Grex. I hope it's not accepted in schools any more, for that matter. Second: That juvenile abuse isn't why I am leaving Grex. I am leaving over another incident, which I have discussed about as much as I want to. I trusted Grex with a lot of highly personal information, and someone abused that trust to attack me, and now I won't be able to trust Grex much any more. I am sorry it worked out that way. Third: Grex is a wonderful system. I hope the users here know what they've got, and are able to maintain it. It's far beyond the founders, the staff, the Board, the fw's, the system itself... all of those are wonderful, but there's a lot more here than what they've provided. Grex is a terrific community. There are many thoughtful, intelligent and nice people here who really care about one another. That's what makes it such a great place. Fourth: Thanks to all who helped me so much during my troubles and stress and despair of two years ago. I appreciate it greatly. It is the nature of a general "thank you" that those for whom it is most intended may not recognize themselves. I hope that's not the case this time. Fifth: I have made many mistakes during my time on Grex. I apologize to everyone who was affected by any of those mistakes. I have misunderstood comments, I have said unkind and thoughtless things, and I have from time to time been unfair. I regret all of these mistakes, and hope they can be forgiven. I have also hurt people -- even intentionally, I am sorry to say. I won't ask forgiveness for doing that, but I have always regretted those occurrances, and tried to overcome my tendency to do that sort of thing. I'm posting this in coop because that's where I'm active right now. Feel free to pass this on wherever you wish.0 responses total.
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