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Jep, I understand why you did what you did. flem is being a little harsh terming it vandalism (The image of you sitting at your computer rubbing your hands in glee and cackling comes to mind, and it makes me laugh) I'm glad that you found a break, and got those items that could have caused you potential harm deleted. However, Grex did have a rule. Either you make it cut-and-dried - there will be no deleting, you may only use retire, or come to the realisation that if we think it ok for your situation, you have to let other people be able to do it too. Your divorce could be a highly stressful subject for you to have on agora, in someone else's case it could be something else. Who is to judge how much concern an individual has about an item that is out there, that they may have started in a moment of vulnerability. (And while we're at it, I'd like that item I entered about the piano in the music cf to be deleted. People might read it and make fun of my piano playing skills, or lack thereof ;) )
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