Grex Cflirt Conference

Item 41: (blowjobs: politics and etiquette)

Entered by carson on Fri Sep 13 23:32:14 2002:

45 new of 55 responses total.

#11 of 55 by jmsaul on Sat Sep 14 21:27:04 2002:

And to see if I'm a voyeur.

#12 of 55 by michaela on Sun Sep 15 02:21:03 2002:

I don't think I've ever made eye contact with the guy.  I usually close my
eyes so I can simply think about what I'm doing.  *Sometimes* I'll peek to
see what his facial expression is, but his eyes are almost always shut.

#13 of 55 by lelande on Sun Sep 15 07:23:04 2002:

try it. look up at him and make a growly sound or something, then when he
looks down at you, smile so your teeth are bared. responses may vary.

#14 of 55 by michaela on Sun Sep 15 17:41:25 2002:

<smirk>  I've done that.  Fortunately, the response was good, mostly because
he knew I'd never actually bite down.

#15 of 55 by jazz on Mon Sep 16 00:39:03 2002:

        I'm with the eye contact camp.  Dunno how I'd react to someone trying
out Lelande's suggestion, but then I think girls who kick bottles for fun are
cute, so your mileage may vary.

#16 of 55 by phenix on Mon Sep 16 02:49:44 2002:

kick bottles for milk

#17 of 55 by lelande on Mon Sep 16 09:57:48 2002:

what does that mean, kick bottles for fun?

#18 of 55 by jaklumen on Mon Sep 16 10:09:56 2002:

I would tend to think eye contact is an okay thing for the visually oriented.
Nothing wrong with alternating eyes open and shut, either.

#19 of 55 by jazz on Mon Sep 16 13:34:33 2002:

        Some people find satisfaction in breaking small things, preferably
small shiny things that can be played with before breaking.  Glass bottles
fit in that category rather nicely.

        Re #18:  I don't think anyone was suggesting constant eye contact the
whole time ...

#20 of 55 by jazz on Mon Sep 16 13:39:03 2002:

        Afterthought:  constant eye contact would be CREEPY.

#21 of 55 by mynxcat on Mon Sep 16 16:13:54 2002:

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#22 of 55 by flem on Mon Sep 16 19:01:05 2002:

for the record, since carson seems curious, any thoughtfulness I may have
implied in my disagreement with his post has been fairly well addressed by
previous comments.  Mainly, that I sometimes like to watch when receiving a
blowjob.  Not always, since I agree that very different experiences result 
from watching vs. not watching, and both experiences are, IMO, worth 
experiencing.  

A couple of other random comments for the record, since I find myself on my 
horse:
  - who says humor and serious discussion are disjunct?
  - I'm a firm believer in the "painfully earnest" school of Grex dialogue, 
    though IMO the painful part is, as it were, in the eye of the beholder.  
  - phenix' opinion loses all kinds of respect from me when he says emma from 
    caoine.org is "only ok".

#23 of 55 by phenix on Mon Sep 16 20:14:17 2002:

i've seen prettier.

#24 of 55 by phenix on Mon Sep 16 20:14:47 2002:

clairification, i've shagged prettier.

#25 of 55 by lelande on Mon Sep 16 20:21:31 2002:

a bargain at twice the price.

#26 of 55 by jmsaul on Mon Sep 16 20:41:03 2002:

Re #24:  I believe that like I believe that carson gets blowjobs.

#27 of 55 by carson on Mon Sep 16 21:42:25 2002:

(although my friend Jim has declared me "the man most seriously in
need of a blowjob" [don't ask], I have to back Greg up here.  sadly, he
*has* shagged prettier.  I still haven't figured out how he does it, but 
I don't understand the appeal of Extreme Elvis either.)

(I'm quite disappointed that I couldn't taunt phenix with such "locker
room" analogies as "you don't watch the mechanic while you're getting your
oil changed" and "when she's playing Yankee Doodle, keep your eyes off the
macaroni."  perhaps I'll be able to use them some other day when I'm not
defending myself against allegations of misogyny.)

#28 of 55 by phenix on Tue Sep 17 01:03:20 2002:

eh-hem, i'd like my mojo back actually.
when i find out who's stolen it i'm going to whip out my goonhand something
fierce

#29 of 55 by jmsaul on Tue Sep 17 02:15:06 2002:

Is that an example of one of your pickup lines?

#30 of 55 by phenix on Tue Sep 17 02:20:22 2002:

i don't really have pickup lines.

#31 of 55 by lelande on Tue Sep 17 06:44:37 2002:

do you have a pickup truck?

#32 of 55 by phenix on Tue Sep 17 13:55:01 2002:

uh, no, no ranger.

#33 of 55 by jazz on Tue Sep 17 18:14:55 2002:

        I don't buy it for a minute.

#34 of 55 by phenix on Tue Sep 17 19:16:18 2002:

j00've seen my pimp green escourt.

#35 of 55 by mynxcat on Tue Sep 17 19:26:28 2002:

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#36 of 55 by lelande on Tue Sep 17 19:50:36 2002:

living in a fast truck...

#37 of 55 by jazz on Tue Sep 17 20:19:11 2002:

        Clees thought my truck was manly.  Heh.

#38 of 55 by mynxcat on Tue Sep 17 20:53:26 2002:

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#39 of 55 by phenix on Tue Sep 17 23:18:38 2002:

yha, i don't think thats something one dude should say to another do,
um-hum, yha...

#40 of 55 by jmsaul on Wed Sep 18 03:58:34 2002:

Especially a Dutch dude.

#41 of 55 by jazz on Wed Sep 18 13:33:44 2002:

        If you're expecting linguistic precision ...

#42 of 55 by mynxcat on Wed Sep 18 14:12:59 2002:

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#43 of 55 by jazz on Wed Sep 18 15:21:22 2002:

        (a) Only if you're going to be a grammar nazi; and,
        (b) It wasn't my precision I was talking about.

#44 of 55 by mynxcat on Wed Sep 18 15:56:52 2002:

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#45 of 55 by michaela on Wed Sep 18 18:42:53 2002:

Yes.  The ability to make lots of friends during moving season.  :)

#46 of 55 by phenix on Wed Sep 18 19:13:05 2002:

heh, i was thinking space to hold mor ehighschoolers.

#47 of 55 by lelande on Wed Sep 18 22:15:47 2002:

in my dreams, when i'm playing with my penis, it symbolizes fantasies of
driving of a truck.
that's why i'm gonna get my CDL.

#48 of 55 by michaela on Thu Sep 19 01:24:11 2002:

<laughs aloud>

#49 of 55 by jazz on Thu Sep 19 13:36:37 2002:

        Now my first car was definitely a Freudian nightmare.  A bright purple
1973 Plymouth Roadrunner, dropped six from the pavement and sporting the
biggest small block Mopar made.

#50 of 55 by mynxcat on Thu Sep 19 15:40:59 2002:

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#51 of 55 by jazz on Thu Sep 19 20:02:37 2002:

        Freud was wrong anyways.  Ever notice how many cigars he smoked, and
kept insisting that sometimes a cigar was just a cigar?  Eh heh.  Yeah.  In
truth, it symbolizes the fact that I'm fuh-ree-kay.

#52 of 55 by lelande on Fri Sep 20 07:28:22 2002:

was it in 1973?

#53 of 55 by sdctrss on Wed Oct 30 16:53:48 2002:

is there no sexchat in grex?

#54 of 55 by phenix on Wed Oct 30 17:54:08 2002:

there's whatever you want to do, but people have the respect for others to 
be discrete now
it happens alot more than you'd think, but people are adult about it.
that means quiet, respectful and mature.

#55 of 55 by otter on Sun Apr 11 23:40:30 2004:

resp:41 No, but we do expect you to be a cunning linguist.

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