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If there was a place / time that you could visit again, even if for a brief amount of time, what would it be? I assume that most people have had feelings like me: you've vistied a place, and when going there again, something is different, such that it isn't the same? Sometimes I think its little things like the people I was with, or perhaps places being "built up" over the course of years. These are the places I visit in my mind, over and over.
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In 1976, I travelled with friends to various places in Ohio. The car, sometimes called The Shit from Below, decided to throw a bearing of some sort in the engine. Its death throws were truely dramatic, as something slammed into the top of the underside of the hood, and stuck there. This happened near Xenia, which 4 years ago had been nearly destroyed by a tornado. Perhaps you remember President Nixon, flying there to look at the damage? He was placed next to a man still in a state of shock, and the President asked, "Well, what did you think of the ballgame?" In the course of getting the SFB pushed into town, so the machanically minded could work on it, we came across an old geezer who it turned out was as old as he looked--96. He saw that the car was out and offered *his* place to work on it, and to crash there, rather than try to find a place that might work on it on Sunday. Looking at each other (there were four of use), it seemed no more bizarre than the rest of the trip, and we accepted. Mr. Geezer turned out to be an interesting if loney man who outlived all his children, and wife (two of them). He wasn't quite spry, but he didn't have the gate of the acient, either. Politically he was a Republican, and rememberd Nixon visting the area. He was disgusted enough with him that he said he wrote something in the local paper over it. Getting the car repaired took two days, in which we did some chores around the place, in payment for getting free use of an incredible tool set, and free food. My part was rewiring the TV antenna; I'll save the story of how I started sliding down the Big Steep Roof of the farmhouse and saved myself with TV antenna cable for a more appropriate place, like the writing conference. During those two days I learned something about gathering peices of what life is trying to say to you during your years, and came to appreciate some of my mothers stories a bit more. Before we left we had a bbq on what was once an emense barrel of some sort. Mr Geezer had sause what seemed to contain mostly black pepper, but it worked after being cooked on the meat for about an hour. As we were eating the sky turned black and angry, with enough of the Sun left to color its part of the sky bright red/orange. I remember sitting there with food about my mouth thinking this was a very special time, for some reason. Here we had a bizarre trip (more happenings suitable for the writing .cf), had the car blow up and wind up with the tools and place to fix it with a interesting, sad, crufty old man. We all developed a liking for each other, and did promise to come back and bother him if we were in the area again. Two of us did go back that way again, about a year and a half later. Anyone who knows me will appreciate the fact that a paper bag can often be a geographic challenge, but I was able to find the house / farm again. Only it wasn't there. What remained was the burnt out shell of the house, and the barn that held the tools and such mostly flattened. We drove closer to town and asked what had happened. From what we heard he had died and before anyone knew what to do with his property, the house burned down. Of course Mr Geezer died without leaving a will-- his children (two? three?) had died so long ago that apparently a lot of people didn't know he had ever had them. The person in the gas station we talked to seemed puzzled that we would have known him, and didn't really believe the quick version of his generosity twords us. As I left the area I felt sad. Sad that I hadn't gotten to see him again (and gotten the receipe for the bbq sause). But glad enough that I had met him just that once. So I still have memories of sitting on an ancient picnic table, red paint weathered, eating food looking at the sky that was dark and golden just before a rain. I will never capture that again.
But aren't those memories wonderful, though, Steve? [Great story!] I'll have to think about this one [where I'd like to revisit...].
Even if I don't ever move back to Michigan, I'm definitely going to come back, over and over, to visit!! :-) What about the rest of you, where would you like to visit again?
I didn't exactly visit these places, but I wish I could have. First, I think I'd like to live in Paris in the 20s and 30s. It would have been a great kick to live there when Gerturde Stein, Hemingway, Picasso and others were doing their thing. I also think it would be interesting to have lived in San Francisco during the "beat" era.
This hasn't been touched in a _very_ long time, but I couldn't pass it up! I join the last entry, if I could visit a place I feel I've been, but have no way of knowing, I'd go back to visit Renaissance England. To go back to some place I've actually been I'd go back to London, England. I lived there for a year and it was home to me. Though born and raised in the United States (MI), I never felt I belonged here, and after returning, I still feel I am supposed to be at my _real_home...England. One of my favourite places/memories is sitting on Tower Bridge very late at night, looking out over the Thames, seeing the ghosts of The Tower looming through the mist, while faintly, very faintly Big Ben echoes and drifts off the waters. This is my solitude. My other favourite spot/memory was sitting beside the "moat" surrounding Leeds Castle (Leeds, Kent, England) as sunset as 20 hotair balloons took flight simultaneously over the Castle while I supped on fine wine, fresh bread and cheeses. The warm summer breeze enveloped me and once again, I knew where I belonged. I hated returning to the USA, but I know that someday I will return. I hope these things won't change too much, for I hope to share them with my new family someday.
You really evoked the feel of England -- I've never been but would love to. I don't know if I'd like th reality. What I want is the England of Dorothy Sayers, Marjorie Allingham and Agatha Christie. Not only is it probably not there now, I wonder if it ever was.
I think any type of England you want, you can find somewhere. One day I felt I was truly in a part of 1960s London while I wandered aimlessly through some backstreets of SoHo and eventually down near King's Road area. I was away from the way the streets are today, into some out of the way areas, and felt transported. I even found a smokey jazz club! The very next night I was wandering SoHo again, and found I was walking the pathways where Jack the Ripper had murdered his victims. It still has the original cobblestones, the flame/torch streetlamps, and the mists rising up out of the sewers. I was wearing a flowing skirts and cape, and actually felt myself being afraid of the shadows. While England is continually evolving, they preserve the feel of their history so well, I think you could eventually find a little bit of any time somewhere in the country.
I love England. I'd love to see Paris and rome too.
Places to revisit if I could: Varous places down south! :-)
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