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Grex Synthesis Item 111: Family missionaries (fairly long)
Entered by mta on Fri Aug 22 00:09:13 UTC 1997:

I don't know if anyone else deals with this (bjorn, I'd be surprised if 
you hadn't dealt with it at some point) but I have an issue I'd like to 
discuss.

I rarely hear from my family.  Like almost never, unless I call first.  
There's one exception.  My family is devoutly Roman Catholic and every 
year or so I'll get a call out of the blue from one or another of my 
five brothers. (Good Catholics all)  

After a few minutes of idle chatter, they always come around to it.  My 
family is on a mission to bring me "back into the fold".  Now there's 
exactly zero chance of that, but I don't really want to offend them 
since this is the only way I hear from them.

With my parents I've come to an uneasy (on their part) agreement to 
agree to disagree.  With some of my brothers I simply haven't been 
allowed a dissenting word.  They weren't confident enough to hear me 
out.

Then I recieved a series of e-mails from my brother-the-PhD-in-theology.

On the bright side he's confident enough to hear me out -- and by e-mail 
he pretty much has to let me have my say anyway.  But he's also a much 
more experienced debater than I am, and much better able to marshall his 
resources on the fly.  

So far he hasn't come up with any arguments I've never heard before, so 
I've had answers for him, but I'm uncomfortable that either I'll seem to 
be attacking him personally or that he'll feel he's "won" if I state my 
points too firmly or don't I have an answer to some point of "logic" he 
brings up.

Now mind you, I have a lot of practice debating door-to-door 
evangelists, but some of my tactics are none-too-kind.  This is my 
brother and I've seldom heard from him in the 20 years since we left 
home.  I want to encourage him to keep in touch without giving him the 
impression he's "won".

Heres a "ferinstance":

Point: If idea A and idea B are in contradiction, then there are only   
       three possible truths: 
          o A is correct and B is incorrect 
          o B is correct and A is incorrect
          o both A and B are incorrect.

Counterpoint: 
       There is a fourth possibility.  A and B may both be correct, but 
       we don't yet recognize the mechanism that drives them both.  
          
       For instance Einsteinian physics and quantum physics are both    
       true, yet seem to be contradictory.  Probably they are parts     
       of a larger truth that we don't yet comprehend.

He wants to try to approach the religious question through logic.  If he 
sticks to logic and it continues to be this flawed I'll have no trouble 
not losing the argument, but will I lose my brother?

If any of you have tried to deal with this missionary zeal from your 
families, would you be willing to share what you did and said and how it 
worked out?

Thanks...

64 responses total.



#1 of 64 by jazz on Fri Aug 22 13:08:35 1997:

        You have my sympathies - it is a shame that any one should take up the
name of Christ so strongly that they forget the words and beliefs of Christ,
who embraced the sinner before the saint.

        I'd think that, based on my own experiences debating theology, that
the best you're going to be able to do is to achieve a truce - it's not an
argument that is based on rational, post-literate drives, but rather
fundamental needs - the person who is confident in their beliefs may try to
convert, but will not feel a need to do so in order to justify their own
beliefs.

        I'd suggest reading Eric Hoffer's _The True Believer_ for a good
understanding of the mindset you're up against - though he offers precious
little in the way of working against that mindset.

        Another good source of information about non-Canonical Christianity
which can be quite shocking to Christians (for example, the evolution of
Judaic and Christian beliefs from local religions, the influence of the
Yahwist tribes of Israel upon the Ba'al/Yahweh-and-Ashera-worshipping tribes,
the influence of Zoroastrianism on the Judaic councept of Sheol and on the
times and actions of the Meschiah) check out www.infidels.com - it's primarily
an athiest's resource,  but it's very good debate fodder for any of us up
against the "one truth" people.

        FWIW, Einstienian physics have recently been proven wrong (1986, Paris,
France) about several key concepts - I'll provide more info if necessary. 
(from _In Search of Schroedinger's Cat_).


#2 of 64 by mta on Sat Aug 23 01:57:52 1997:

Thanks, Jazz.  (Oh well for my physics argument.  *sigh*  That wasn't an 
auspicious start.)

I'm definitely going to look up the infidels page -- he's very academic 
and it'll be interesting to see what he makes of the historical 
arguments.  ;)


#3 of 64 by mta on Sat Aug 23 01:58:59 1997:

I tried the infidels page -- it hasn't a DNS listing.  Was it moved?


#4 of 64 by robh on Sat Aug 23 03:23:39 1997:

Try www.infidels.org instead.

(Why do people assume that every Web domain is commercial???)


#5 of 64 by jazz on Sat Aug 23 12:09:43 1997:

        Because I listed it as a .com TLD. :)  My bad.

        I can think of several fields wherein there are many different ways
to view a given subject, often contradictory, although the only scientific
field that comes to mind is neurology versus psychology - perhaps that'd make
a comparable argument?

        Actually, neurology vs. psychology is a fairly good analogy for athiesm
versus theism ... there are many schools of theism, which often disagree
violently, and seem incompatible, but use similar means to explain the same
basic phenomena. :)


#6 of 64 by mta on Mon Aug 25 23:44:28 1997:

That's a good idea -- because David is a much better debater than I had 
expected and much more up on science than I am.  I don't really expect 
or want to "win", but it's becoming much more clear that he couldn't 
care less what I think, he's just determined to "save" me.

Unfortunately his arguments aren't as stupid as most of the doorstep 
prostelytizers.  If you can grant his primary asssumptions, it's all 
very logical.  Course, his primary assumptions are that there's only one 
right way and that's his way.  <grin>

I did eventually find the infidels page and that has kept my spirits up 
though it didn't especially help with the arguments.  (It occured to me 
to try .org anf there it was!)

If anyone is interested I could post segments of his notes -- I'd be 
-um- very interested in how others would handle specific arguments.


#7 of 64 by orinoco on Tue Aug 26 01:07:18 1997:

I would like to see that, yes.  I don't know that I'd be much better at
arguing, but I'd like to see that 'logical explanation' you mentioned.


#8 of 64 by mta on Tue Aug 26 02:50:18 1997:

OK, when I get home I'll log in here and post it.  It's coming out in 
bits and pieces so far, but that may be what's making it hard to get a 
good grip on.

Or there may be other reasons...


#9 of 64 by kami on Tue Aug 26 04:09:00 1997:

Hey Misti!  Item 111, coolness.
I don't get evangelized so much, as guilted about how I'm educating my kids,
how they ought to be in Hebrew school, etc. <sigh>
Seems to me that you can either;
a)tell your brother that familial ties are sufficiently important to you that,
rather than damage them, since neither one of you is going to convince the
other,you'd sooner avoid discussing religion, and if he's concerned about your
soul thanks for the concern, keep it to himself...
b)pull out all the stops and let him cope as best he may--after all, he
started it, and if being right is more important to him than being kin, his
loss.
c)Figure that you don't necessarily pick your family and that, if he *weren't*
family you wouldn't bother with him, so let the whole thing drop as quickly
as possible and blow him off.
d)continue honing your skills against him as gently as possible and hope for
the best.
        Anybody think of any other options?
I guess the one(s) you select is a reflection of how important this
relationship is to you.

And of course the answer to "who's right?" is "both and".  He's not gonna get
that broad a perspective, probably.


#10 of 64 by jazz on Tue Aug 26 14:45:22 1997:

        Or you could pose a similar question to *him* and ask for a rational,
logical answer:

        You're convinced someone else's religious beliefs are wrong, and wish
for them to take up the same beliefs that you have, yet in the process you're
sure to cause them emotional pain, and in most cases lose them forever.

        What do you do?

        "Shoot the hostage" :)


#11 of 64 by kami on Tue Aug 26 18:36:02 1997:

Jazz- like it!  You're a wicked person. <g>


#12 of 64 by mta on Tue Aug 26 23:30:37 1997:

I guess, Kami, that I've decided to go with number 3.  Can't really 
explain why except that it seems important.  (I'll probably resort to 
your suggestion when we come to a bloody draw, Jazz.)

Here's the salient bits of the second message; it's pretty long. MT is 
me from a previous message, DD is him from this message DD> is him from 
a previous message: 
***********************
MT  I don't think that's the best way to paraphrase my religious views. 
MT  I think that religion was developed by people to serve human needs. 
MT  (Completely aside from whether diety exists.)                       
 
DD  While it is true many religions were developed by humans, it is not 
DD  true that all religion was.  The worship of God is innate to our 
DD  being.  There are two sources of knowledge about God.  That which we 
DD  can derive from the process of reason, and that which is revealed.  
DD  If an element of knowledge cannot be shown to be knowable from 
DD  reason alone, to accept it - you must be able to proove that it came 
DD  from God.  But I know I am ahead of some basic elements 
DD  upon which we do not (yet) agree, so I will move on.   

********************************
MT  Along with the Bhuddists, I believe there are many correct paths to 
MT  the truth, and the truth is not a small easily conceived thing. It's 
MT  enormous - beyong any human ability to comprehend the whole. Each of 
MT  us can hope, at best, for a glimpse of one part. For me, reason per 
MT  se is irrelevant to religion. Religion isn't a logical process. It's 
MT  the "other side" of reason: knowing. You recognize spiritual truth 
MT  not with your mind but with your heart...and sometimes what seems to 
MT  be true on one level will see to be contradicted on the other. But, 
MT  as with the story of the blind men and the elephant, that isn't 
MT  because one truth is more correct than another but because we aren't 
MT  capable of understanding the whole of the truth.           

DD  I agree that there are many paths to the Truth, what is the Truth 
DD  that we are searching for and what is the best path to that.  I will 
DD  try to show that Truth is that there is one God who created us, sent 
DD  His Son to die for us, and left a Church here to guide us to what 
DD  "no eye has seen, no ear has heard, what God has waiting for those 
DD  who love Him."  Most religions have some truth in them, but I 
DD  contend that they are the result of a process akin to the old game 
DD  of "gossip" that have left the true path God has set and error in 
DD  the one Truth has crept in and clouded the entire truth.  I also    
DD  agree that the entire Truth is much more than any human can 
DD  comprehend, but that doesn't mean we cannot understand what we need 
DD  to for our salvation.  Religion is not only a logical process, but 
DD  it cannot be illogical.  Faith cannot deny reason.  While faith 
DD  doesn't come from reason alone, it must be part of the process.  
DD  With the story of the blind men, I don't remember it verbatim; 
DD  however, as I do remember there was no contradiction here, only    
DD  evidence that seemed to conflict with initial assumptions with 
DD  regard to what the truth was.  That simply shows that the "model" 
DD  used for making predictions was incorrect.  In Catholicism I have 
DD  found no data, no evidence that conflicts with the "model."  It all 
DD  makes sense logically and God confirms it through His Grace that I 
DD  respond to -- my faith.              

*********************************** 
MT  Well, I firmly believe that truth is where you find it, and that for 
MT  *you* and for millions of others, yours is the one truth. It feeds 
MT  your need for understanding in a way that no other path will.       
   
DD  What you are assuming here is that religion only exists to serve our 
DD  earth needs.  In that case it is nothing more than as you said 
DD  before, a human creation.  However, while religion can benefit us on 
DD  earth, that is not it primary purpose.  Its purpose is to know God, 
DD  to understand His Will, and follow His Will.  The reason for this is 
DD  not because God is some demanding being, but because we need it.  
DD  Things go wrong when we live outside of the Truth, whether we do it 
DD  purposefully or not.  We are all one Body, the Mystical Body of 
DD  Christ (for those who have been baptized).  When one part suffers, 
DD  we all suffer; when one part is glorified we are all glorified.

**********************************
MT  The only place I disagreewith that is in your idea that other paths 
MT  can't be the one true path to understanding for other people. 

DD  The Truth cannot be changed, nor does it change.  One cannot just DD 
 choose something as the truth because it fits with what one wishes DD  
to believe or because it justifies how one wishes to live.  Many DD  
people have taken different paths to the truth, they end up finding DD  
it in the Catholic Church -- and here they are really satisified, as DD 
 is not possible any other way.    
 
************************************
<long story about a wierd experience snipped>

DD  One cannot always explain how the Holy Spirit.  The cure may not DD 
 have been a sign for you.  It may have been for someone elses DD  
sanctification. The cure may have been given at the Mass and delayed DD 
 for some reason, or God may simply have let the illness take its DD  
course.  Having worked as an analyst and studied some logic, I do DD  
know that human beings tend to apply the most recent cause" to the DD  
"effect" they see and this many times gets us into trouble.  Effect DD  
can sometime immediately follow cause, but not always, sometimes it DD  
is delayed.  

DD  As an example, a hockey player once during a game was hit very hard. 
DD  He got up and finished the game.  Several hours later at dinner, he 
DD  falls limp in his chair.  Everyone rushes to him supposing that he 
DD  choked on his food.  What actually happened was that his vertebrate 
DD  had been lacerated during the game, during dinner and he moved just 
DD  right (wrong) and cut his spinal cord.  The short story long, 
DD  whether this incident was a miracle or not I don't know, but God 
DD  could not have given you a sign that would take you away from His DD 
 Truth.                                                          
    
*************************   
DD> Tolerance I think has come to mean that everyone's beliefs can be 
DD> true. However, that is not possible if they contradict one another. 
DD> The fundamental law of logic is that of non-contradiction. 
DD> Therefore, if two positions say the opposite, there are only three 
DD> possibilities, A is correct, B is correct or they are both 
DD> incorrect. In that case you need to find out which is the case.     
 
MT  Not necessarily true, David. Look for instance at how einsteinian 
MT  physics and quantum phsyics appear to be true in their own realm and 
MT  yet appear to be contradictory. There is a fourth possibility -- MT 
 sometimes both are true but we don't yet understand the mechanism or MT 
 see the whole picture.                 
                                                                        
     
DD  I think you mean the newtonian physics seems to break down at the DD 
 quantum level.  That is true; however again there is no 
DD  contradiction here.  As with the incorrect model used with the blind 
DD  men and the elephant, the newtonian model simply is the incorrect 
DD  model to use to predict what happens at the quantum level.  We don't 
DD  yet have a model that bridges the gap between the quantum level and 
DD  the macro level; however the models don't contradict one another. 

DD  An example of what I mean:  I say there is a chair sitting behind  
DD  me and you say there isn't.  We cannot both be correct, it cannot be 
DD  true for me and not for you.  When I sit down we then find out what 
DD  the object truth was.  If I fall to the floor "my truth" was 
DD  incorrect, your "truth" was THE truth.  The same logical principle 
DD  holds at all levels, two contradictory things cannot both be true, 
DD  in the same way at the same time, in the same place.  

DD  With regard to religion, if I say there is only One true God and    
DD  there are no others besides Him, and you say other deities exist, 
DD  either you there are no others besides Him, and you say other DD  
deities exist, either you are correct or I am (or in this case an DD  
athiest could offer a third possibility) we cannot both be correct. DD  
One (or from the perspective of the athiest both of us) of us is DD  
wrong.  The only way to know is to use reason/logic and any existing DD 
 data one can make an argument for.  We cannot go our separate ways DD  
with nothing happening sooner or later we will sit down 
DD  (when we die) and then we will find out the truth.  In the meantime, 
DD  we must use the faculties God gave us to find the Truth.            
********************                 
MT  That sort of faith doesn't work for me.  I operate from my heart -- 
MT  and yes, my feelings about my children have always been intense: I 
MT  love them beyond reason, and no one can make me as angry.  Not even 
MT  Larry has a greater draw on my emotional resources.  Even when 
MT  things are neither very, very good nor very, very bad, I feel an MT 
intense rightness when I'm with the kids. 
 
MT  I need a religion that feels that right, too.  Like the Native MT  
Americans, I find that rightness in my connection to the earth and MT  
like the Hindus I find that singing of my soul through imagery and MT  
poetry.  The Catholic church leaves behind in my life a taste for 
MT  pageantry and ritual and my experience as a woman demands a religion 
MT  that is honest in its expression and respectful of  the reality of 
MT  my life and the lives of my ancestors.          
 
DD  You have already advised that you do use reason as a guide (at least 
DD  partially) in faith .  You said you couldn't understand the Catholic 
DD  faith and that is your reason, at least in part, for rejecting it.  
DD  I would suggest that the methods you used were perhaps not correct 
DD  for you, but I disagree that the faith cannot be correct for you.  
DD  It is a fact of creation that it is correct for you, that is because 
DD  it is the all encompassing Truth to which you earlier referred.  It 
DD  is true we will never understand all of it, but that is the happy DD 
 consequence from God's infinite Being.  It is a necessity that we DD  
not understand it all, otherwise God would be finite and within our DD  
minds. It is also true that God has revealed that which is DD  DD  
sufficient to understand what we need for our salvation.  I would DD  
suggest that you make another attempt at understanding the Catholic DD  
faith in its fullness before rejecting it.  I would be more than DD  
glad to help.  Once you comprehend it, then the possibility of the DD  
heartfelt acceptance is possible.                 

*******************************    
MT  I've found that religious expression through neo-paganism.  Neo MT  
because though it's based on the pre-Christian European religions, MT  
it's actually only been practiced openly since the 1920s.  Paganism MT  
because it's open to filtering reality through the lenses of many MT  
dieties to see what gold-dust of truth we'll find there.   
    
DD  Again, if you use incorrect models ("the lenses of many dieties") 
DD  you will get erroneous answers.  These will only be seen as error if 
DD  you use reason and logic for the filtering.  The probability of 
DD  error is high in a passive environment, it is greatly enhanced in an 
DD  environment of active evil.  If you reject the possibility of the DD 
 devil (which is his desire) than you have no defense against his DD  
temptations and lies.                                   
 
DD  This is pretty long already so I will have to put off the proofs for 
DD  the existence of God and what attributes the proofs show God must 
DD  have until my next e-mail.                                          
                                                                        
DD    God Bless                                                         
          
                                                                        
                                      


#13 of 64 by robh on Wed Aug 27 02:42:08 1997:

So the gist of his argumebnts is "If you view the universe the
wrong way, you get the wrong view of Truth; if you view it correctly,
you get the correct truth"?  I'd love to see his argument that the
Catholic "lens" is the correct one - I'd think that the vast number
of non-Xians in the world who haven't been smited down cruelly proves
that, if there is one God, he at least tolerates other beliefs.

This may have been mentioned somewhere earlier in the item, but I only
have an hour before I go to bed, so...  >8)  What does your brother
think happens to those who do not see the one correct Truth?


#14 of 64 by kami on Wed Aug 27 03:12:22 1997:

Frustrating, Misti.  And also, a delightfully skilled debate partner, if it
were not a matter of such personal importance to both of you.


#15 of 64 by jazz on Wed Aug 27 14:23:28 1997:

        Holy Frijole.  That's a long and convoluted post.

        My advice would be this:  paraphrase what he's been saying with (to
borow the terms from Swift and programming) "big-endian", say, for
Catholicism, and "little-endian", say, for what you believe.  But do it in
your head - it sounds a bit silly when you do it verbally in a debate.  Or,
you can switch the terms for what he believes and what you believe, to get
the impact of the statement clearly.

        I only saw one thing I wouldn've let rest - on the whole he seems
reasonable, but convinced that his way is the true way and others are
distortions or reflections - WHY is he so lucky to have been born into the
true way, and how does he know it isn't a similar distortion or reflection
as he admits other religions are?


#16 of 64 by robh on Wed Aug 27 21:24:45 1997:

(The very question that I was pondering all day at work...)


#17 of 64 by hematite on Thu Aug 28 00:04:36 1997:

(Not to try and divert attentions from Misti, but I'd kinda like to know..)
What's the best way to cope being at a Catholic school and believing
everything you're being taught is a bunch boo-hockey? Or suggestions on
how to handle questions directly asked to you about beliefs and god etc?
(Cause it doesn't look like this years teacher is going to let me sit back
and never talk in his class Bother.) Thanks..



#18 of 64 by void on Thu Aug 28 04:32:27 1997:

   oy.  you were right when you said he's a skilled debater, mta. as
far as your question in #15, jazz, the answer to that is easy: in order
to be a good roman catholic, one *must* accept that the roman catholic
church is the one true church, founded by jesus himself. "i call you
`peter,' which means `rock,' and on this rock i build my church..."
is accepted in the roman catholic church as jesus' appointment of peter
as the first pope. it is roman catholic dogma that their church is the
only one started by jesus, therefore it's the only one which could
possibly hold any validity whatsoever, since jesus is the son of the
one true god, and therefore *all* other religions are *wrong*. (but
you won't find too many rc non-clergy these days who are willing to
put it that strongly.) and obviously, he was lucky enough to have been
born into the one true faith because it was god's will.


#19 of 64 by robh on Thu Aug 28 11:21:37 1997:

So why did God allow us to be born into a false path?  Is it because
he's a flaming asshole who wants us to go to Hell?  Or maybe he
doesn't mind other faiths?


#20 of 64 by jazz on Thu Aug 28 14:41:40 1997:

        Right, but here we're  talking about someone who ostensibly has a
certain amount of logic in their faith - the question begs to be answered:
how is it that, among all of the religions that have followers amongst all
of the peoples of the Earth, how is it that he was so lucky to be born into
the One True One - and how can he, as a rational philosopher, tell the
difference between the One True Faith and the others, outside of being born
into it?


#21 of 64 by md on Thu Aug 28 15:06:54 1997:

The chances of him - just precisely him - having been born at all
are staggeringly tiny.  Throwing in "the one true religion" doesn't
make it much more unlikely.

The best way to deal with family missionaries is to be as nice as
possible, find as much common ground as you can, and leave it at
that.  The Goddess, the Green Man, Jesus Christ, Allah, the Tao,
the Creator Spirit, and yod-hey-vov-hey all want it that way.


#22 of 64 by robh on Thu Aug 28 20:54:39 1997:

Re 20 - But that's the easy part for him to explain.  Some
number of people are born into the One True Faith, others
aren't.  He happens to be one of the lucky ones.  If he had
been born into a false faith and then found the True one, he
would probably be willing to admit that he had had an unlucky
start.


#23 of 64 by void on Fri Aug 29 08:00:11 1997:

   it's the job of roman catholic missionaries to take the word of
their god to all the peoples of the world. it's up to the peoples of
the world to seek out the word of that god and become converts. if they
don't seek out the word, or if they hear the word and still don't
convert, then they're going to hell for refusing to realize and reform
the errors of their ways. if you want to be strict about it, it is the
job of every roman catholic to bring those poor lost sheep into the
fold. good catholics are utterly convinced that theirs *is* the one
true faith and everyone who doesn't follow it is going to spend
eternity in hell. of course, anyone who follows the one true faith can
tell that it's the one true faith among all the others because, among
other things, it was founded by the savior of all mankind.

   in order for roman catholicism to be a logical religion, one must
first accept its basic premise as true. but then, the rantings of the
paranoid schizophrenic and the plots and actions of the psychotic
follow a logical progression from their own basic premises, as well.


#24 of 64 by jazz on Fri Aug 29 15:12:03 1997:

        Follow my argument for just a moment longer - either there's a
fantastic and logical argument for being born into the One True Religion, or
there is an act of faith in contradiction to logic - and I've a feeling it's
the latter.  Faith that the religion you're born into is true.  If you can
point out to a logical and rational person that their faith is based on flimsy
premises, then they may accept this ad back off. :)


#25 of 64 by robh on Sat Aug 30 01:31:51 1997:

No, I don't think that's going to work.  Apart from the obvious problem
that nothing is going to convince this guy that he's wrong >8), simple
set logic actually does back him up.  Assume two sets of people in
the world - Set T, those born into the True faith (regardless of what
faith they hold now) and Set F, those born into false faiths (again
regardless of their current faith).  (Oddly, this would make me a member
of Set T, from a Catholic viewpoint.)

Now, we start off assuming that both sets are non-null, i.e. there is
at least one person in each set.  Just about anyone except a Shaker
would accept that set T is non-null >8) and only those weird Buddhists
and pagan types would even consider that set F might be empty.

If Set T is non-null, then there has to be *somebody* in the world
who was lucky enough to be a member in that set.  So the challenge
here is not to prove that mta's brother didn't just happen to be
born into set T - somebody had to be, so why *not* him?  He has the
same chances as everyone else in the world.  The challenge
is to get him to stop worrying about T's anf F's and let mta be who
she wants to be.


#26 of 64 by void on Sat Aug 30 06:36:16 1997:

   the thing is, he can't stop worrying about t's and f's and remain
a good catholic. and if it is logically pointed out to him that his
faith is based on flimsy premises, then i'd be willing to bet dollars
to doughnuts that he'll fall back on some sort of "we mere humans are
incapable of understanding the true nature of deity" statement, or some
sort of centuries-old rc propaganda. look at his above statement that
"the worship of god is innate to our being." the principles of logic
can be used to support almost anything, no matter how absurd. "the
shrub is green. the frog is green. therefore, the shrub is a frog" and
all that.

   am i making sense to anyone but myself here? i'm starting to feel
like i'm ranting a bit.


#27 of 64 by robh on Sat Aug 30 11:07:24 1997:

I think we're all ranting.  It's innate to our being.  >8)

While I was born Catholic, our family didn't stay long enough for
me to be confirmed, so I really don't know that much about the
doctrines.  Most of the Catholics I've known were willing to
question their beliefs at least a little, then again, most of the
Catholics I know aren't good Catholics - if they were, they wouldn't
be talking to me, would they?

Another problem we may have here is simply the differences between
various priests and churches, who (for all of the Vatican's best
efforts) really do vary wildly.  (Does anyone else remember the episode
of TV Nation where Janeane Garofalo did confession at several dozen
NYC churches for the exact same sin, to comparison shop and see
which priests were more strict and which were more lenient?)
I once saw an interview with a priest in San Fransisco who flat out
said (to the camera!) that if a married couple asked for a special
dispensation to use birth control, he'd rather give it to them than
risk seeing them leave the Church.  So much for the supreme power
of the Pope...


#28 of 64 by void on Sun Aug 31 08:52:37 1997:

   i was raised rc as well. not only that, i was informed in no
uncertain terms that i would attend church until i was 18. i attended
ccd and was confirmed and all the rest of it. the dogma/doctrines i've
been quoting here are the strictest possible interpretations; it sounds
like mta's brother is even more rc than my mother was. what i've been
trying to do is give some notion of the rc mindset which gives rise
to the sort of tactics the mta-sib seems to be using. the vatican has
had almost two thousand years to come up with logical arguments as to
why roman catholicism is the one true faith, and covers any logic-holes
with dogma and blind faith. 

   american rc's are regarded as something of a problem in rome. it
seems that american rc clergy and congregants, having spent all or most
of their lives in a representative democracy, have trouble accepting
blindly the edicts of the church. on the other hand, the church is
having trouble dealing with members who want to discuss and argue with
its edicts rather than blindly follow those edicts. in short, american
catholics, having so much freedom of choice in the rest of their lives,
have a lot of trouble accepting that the pope is their final, no-appeal
religious authority.

   in spite of that, the number of american rc's who are embracing
strict dogma and doctrines is slowly but steadily growing, and has been
for the last ten years or so. i could relate at least half-a-dozen
anecdotes about rc's who have accosted my friends or me in attempts
to save our souls. most of them are not nearly as well-read or
articulate as the mta-sib, but they have all the zeal of born-agains
or witlesses.


#29 of 64 by robh on Sun Aug 31 16:15:41 1997:

One wonders whether the growth of strict RC in this country is really
a sign of the less strict folks leaving the church...


#30 of 64 by jazz on Sun Aug 31 17:28:51 1997:

        But to admid that one's beliefs are based on faith, changes the nature
of a debate ...


#31 of 64 by void on Sun Aug 31 21:09:01 1997:

   re #30: yes, it does. the two basic premises have to be taken on
faith: first, that jesus is the son of god and the savior of all
mankind, and second that because jesus started the roman catholic
church, it is the only one with any validity. the rc church has had
some of the finest minds in the history of the western world come up
with logical arguments to support not only those two premises, but the
rest of rc dogma and doctrines.


#32 of 64 by orinoco on Sun Aug 31 23:25:07 1997:

What is the Catholic Church's premise for claiming that they represent a
direct line from Jesus?


#33 of 64 by robh on Mon Sep 1 02:47:43 1997:

That one's so easy even I know it.  >8)  Peter, one of Jesus'
apostles, was the first Pope, and all Popes since have claimed
a direct spiritual lineage from him.  And since Jesus said to
Peter, "You are the rock upon which I shall build my church",
that means that Peter got his authority from Jesus.  QED.


#34 of 64 by void on Mon Sep 1 07:57:21 1997:

   yep. "i call you `peter,' which means `rock,' and on this rock i
build my church" is the quotation. if you want, i can even dig up book,
chapter, and verse.


#35 of 64 by jazz on Mon Sep 1 12:35:38 1997:

        There is a fair amount of credible evidence, if one accepts such things
- at least as much as many commonly accepted historical events - that Jeus
was the meschiah referred to in Judaic lore.  So that doesn't have to be taken
entirely on faith - although in all of the cases I've seen it is not a case
of research then faith, but faith then research and jusification.

        If someone is presenting their religion as an article of reason, and
suggesting it to others  by rational argument as an article of reason, there
should be few or no articles of *faith* in it.  ASking someone else to accept
your faith rationally does not work particularly weell ...


#36 of 64 by orinoco on Mon Sep 1 15:12:23 1997:

Well, we accept gravity 'rationally on faith'.  It certainly seems to provide
a good explanation for why things fall, but I have no direct proof that things
don't fall due to evil spirits or such like.  
Okay, so I'm reaching...


#37 of 64 by jazz on Mon Sep 1 16:13:00 1997:

        The general theory of gravity is pretty easy to demonstrate, though,
and reproducible, and familliar to all ... those theories that are not easily
reproducible or familliar to all are usually in dispute and accepted as
theories.


#38 of 64 by orinoco on Mon Sep 1 21:32:39 1997:

Exactly.  I'm reaching.


#39 of 64 by mta on Tue Sep 2 23:45:45 1997:

Viod:  You seem to have my brother's number.  Thanks for putting his 
philosophy in so many words.  It makes it easier to get a good handle on 
his arguments.

My brother now seems to have now buckled down to actual arguments so 
I'll include another post from him.  I can't confirm or refute the 
statistics he uses (if anyone else can, I'd appreciate a clue) but I see 
several interesting loose threads in his arguments.

Thanks, everyone, for your help on this.  

DD   Your last letter brought up a good point:                          
                                                                        
MT    Granted.  But I challenge your assumption that yours is the only 
MT    correct model.  You haven't offered any proofs for that model that 
MT    weren't based on unprovable suppositions.  Those suppositions MT  
  seem to me to be perfectly valid as a basis for your own beliefs, MT  
  but when used to judge another's equally unprovable suppositions, MT  
  they strike me as arrogant.                
                                                                        
DD    I am continually reminded of the dangers of miscommunication using 
DD    e-mail.  One cannot convey the subtleties of communication we rely 
DD    on with verbal communication so often times we are taken not as we 
DD    intend.  I don't intend to sound arrogant or to try to steal your 
DD    intellect (I wouldn't even if I could).  What we believe we must 
DD    assent to with our whole hearts and minds. What I believe, I do
DD    first because I can assent with my whole mind, and the with my DD 
   heart.  I may come across as arrogant for many reasons which I 
DD    don'tintend.  I trust though you would agree that someone can be 
DD    confident enough with a particular position to be willing to 
DD    relate them to others without being considered arrogant.  In 
DD    anycase, please don't take offense at what I say as none is DD    
intended. 

DD    With regard to your point about my willingness to change my DD    
position, I am a seeker of truth and beauty.  I know that their is DD   
 absolute truth and that we can know it and believe that I have DD    
found it. This believe comes from the fact that given all the DD    
philosophical, historical and scientific data that I have been DD    
presented with, the Catholic faith alone corresponds perfectly.  I DD   
 will admit that although I have not seen everything there is to DD    
see or know, but I have been exposed to a considerable amount.  
DD    Therefore, to change my position given these circumstances two DD 
   things would be necessary:            
DD         a.  I would have to be presented data that proves my position 
DD             untenable                                                
DD       and                                                          
DD         b.  I would have to be shown a position that claimed and 
DD             proved itself to be the absolute truth.                  
                                    
DD    Another good point you made is that I have not yet provided any 
DD    proof of my position, so I will now try:                          
DD    I will not respond directly to each of your argument unless you 
DD    wish, but I think that the previous discussions served well to 
DD    understand each others perspectives.  But since the discussions 
DD    were primarily in generalities there was not much to prove or
DD    disprove.  I will try to lay out for you why I think that my
DD    understanding of the truth is more than simply belief and why it 
DD    can be known with assurance before one dies.  Hopefully we can DD 
   then discuss the strenghs and shortsfalls of the specific DD    
arguements.  It is probably better to do in installments since it DD    
can get pretty long.     First the knowledge that there has to be DD    
a God and what we can know of Him although it may at first seem DD    
androcentric, later I will hope to show that using a masculine DD    
personal pronoun for God is not a human invented convention).     

DD    There are two general proofs for the existance of God:   
        
DD    The Telelogical proof says generally that nature as we see 
DD    reflects an elaborate design and therefore there must have been a 
DD    designer.  That designer we call God.  It would take up too much 
DD    space to anticipate all the objections to this argument (nor am I 
DD    capable); however I will try to mention a couple.                 
DD         a.  The universe as we know it is the result of random forces 
DD             of nature, following natural, repeatable laws that 
DD             resulted in conditions that led to formations of planets, 
DD             some of which had conditions that led to the           
DD             spontaneous formation of life, which evolved from 
DD             processes of natural selection and mutation (in the 
DD             revised theory through punctuated equilibrium). 
DD             Therefore we need not appeal to a superstitious belief in 
DD             God. 
               
DD    The response to this could be a book (but I will spare you, but   
DD    only a little).
DD             1.  First, we can be quite sure from available 
DD                 oservations of the following premise:  
DD                     - from nothing, comes nothing  - 
DD                 While we may be able to understand how matter and DD 
                energy behave at some level, we can't say why they   
DD                 exist.  

DD                 For example, if we were to build a room that was a 
DD                 perfect vacuum shielded from all energy, the current 
DD                 models scientists use for prediction at the macro and 
DD                 quantum levels would predict that nothing would ever 
DD                 appear in that "empty" room that did not first exist 
DD                 someplace else.  We can show that all matter and DD  
               energy has some source of origin; it doesn't have to DD  
               exist but it does.                                       
                               
DD             2.  Evolution is another animal.  Without debating is 
DD                 merits and short falls as a theory; even if the 
DD                 theory (although it would need further modification) 
DD                 were true that would only show the way creation 
DD                 works.  It would have nothing to say about as to how 
DD                 the matter that evolved, came into being. Looking at 
DD                 evolution statistically there just hasn't been enough 
DD                 time for life to evolve given the two phenomenon on 
DD                 which it relys: again mutation and natural selection. 
DD                 Mutation must be a random process less there be a 
DD                 Guiding Hand behind it. If you look at the 
DD                 improbability of the amino-acid chains coming DD     
            together by random chance in haemoglobin for example 
DD                 it could be calculated at 1 chance in 1*10**650 (the 
DD                 ** means to the 650th power, or 650 "0s after the 
DD                 "1").  If you look at one of the simplist DNA 
DD                 structures, the T-4 phage (a bacteria), its
DD                 probability would be 1 in 1*10**78000.  To  
DD                 compare this with time, since the big bang there have 
DD                 been 10**18 seconds and there are only and estimated 
DD                 10**80 atoms in the universe.  What this says is 
DD                 that there has not be time enough  for life to have 
DD                 evolved anyplace without a significant modification 
DD                 to the theory.  By the way, I do believe and admit 
DD                 that the two process, mutation and natural selection 
DD                 are real processes, but they cannot by themselves 
DD                 explain the way we have evolved.
 
DD             3.  The way the nature behaves and can be described by   
DD                 mathematical equations also reveals logic and 
DD                 intelligence.  So much less than being evidence DD   
              against the existence of God, it is more evidence in DD   
              His favor.                                           

DD             4.  Finally, take a look at a design in nature that we 
DD                 have copied and used in technology.  The human eye.  
DD                 The human eye takes electromagnetic radiation (light) 
DD                 found in nature and uses both it wave and its 
DD                 particle properties to enable us to see things at 
DD                 many focal lengths and in color.  It uses a lens to 
DD                 bend the light to a focal point, an iris to 
DD                 accomodate the dynamic range of the light sensor and 
DD                 different sensors (rods and cones) to detect not only 
DD                 the light but the wavelength of the light.   All of 
DD                 this, by the argument of evolution happened randomly 
DD                 overtime.  I don't know how to calculate the 
DD                 probablity that the first creatures without eyes 
DD                 would have been eaten before they evolved eyes 
DD                 randomly but it is not plausible.  I think that this 
DD                 puts the reliance on evolution as an argument against 
DD                 the existence of God, ironically, in the category of 
DD                 superstition. 
DD                                                                      
DD             b.  The big bang is where everything came into being.  
DD                 We therefore have the explanation of how thing were 
DD                 created. This simply postpones the inevitable.  Who 
DD                 created the energy that comprised the singularity 
DD                 (the point of origin) that allowed the big bang.
DD                 It did not have to exist, therefore it had to come 
DD                 from someplace.           
DD                                                                      
DD    whew..... and this was the short one.  The second actually has 
DD    many correlary proofs which establish the attributes of God.  It 
DD    is called the Cosmological argument.                              
DD
DD    <snip> 
DD    I am sure that you are tired of reading by now, so I will save DD 
   that argument for my next tome.                                   

DD  God Bless            
  


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