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Grex Scruples Item 88: The smoker
Entered by scg on Mon Oct 31 03:45:22 UTC 1994:

Somebody who works where you work is a very heavy smoker and likes to
smoke in her office.  This in and of itself wouldn't bother you, because
youdon't have to go in her office, but she has a tendency to leave the
office door open and the smoke drifts out into the hallway.  Smoking is
banned in University buildings, so she is breading the law, but you are
new there and feel it is in your interest not to have her mad at you. 
What do you do?

8 responses total.



#1 of 8 by aruba on Mon Oct 31 05:27:24 1994:

Honestly, if I were new, I probably wouldn't do anything, except build up
resentment.  It's not a very *good* strategy, but that's what I'd do.


#2 of 8 by popcorn on Tue Nov 1 15:08:17 1994:

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#3 of 8 by batty on Wed Nov 2 23:34:21 1994:

I agree with Valerie.  Being new and all, I wouldn't get too involved.


#4 of 8 by zook on Thu Nov 3 00:24:16 1994:

It is probably slimy, but anonymous notification of someone (public safety,
environmental management, her boss, etc) would be what I'd do.


#5 of 8 by gracel on Mon Nov 7 04:14:03 1994:

If there were enough smoke to make me cough, and I had any
reasonable excuse for me to talk to her about something else,
I would raise the issue in terms of my health (including 
minuscule history of asthma) and ask her to consider closing
her door.


#6 of 8 by roz on Wed Nov 9 19:41:19 1994:

I might force a couple of coughs whenever I had to go to the office.
If it were annoying enough, I might ask my supervisor to arrange a
work area for me that wasn't smoky and see if that started any
'interesting' developments.


#7 of 8 by simcha on Fri Dec 23 16:22:06 1994:

I refuse to breathe smoke.  I was disinvited to a high level meeting
because I told my boss I'd tell the BIG GUY what to do with his 
cigar (it was a non-smoking building, too).  I have a big mouth.
But I like Bret's approach, too.


#8 of 8 by ewhisam on Thu Dec 28 03:25:42 1995:

I personally dont care if a cigarrette smoker likes me or not, I would tell
her it is against state law and it should be done outside. When she can behave
like a person she can come back inside.

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