(You've been dating this woman for a couple of days. She decides it's time
for you to meet her parents. While meeting them, her mother makes several
passes at you. It becomes obvious to you where your girlfriend got her
looks from! During the course of the evening, her mother manages to find
herself alone with you. She offers to have a secret rendevous with you
that night.)

(do you accept?)

29 responses total.

Well....no, because i would be more devoted to the original girl

No, I keep my mind focused on the girl.

no.

 absolutly not. It is not appropriate behavior to date your girlfriend's
mom.

Nope.  If I already had one girlfriend (the daughter) I pretty certainly
wouldn't be that desperate.  It would kind of mess up the relationship
between me and the mother, though.

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I wouldn't either.

I'd probably thank her sweetly for flattering me, and then make like I
thought it was good humoured flirting.  If the girl means that much to
me, I'd want to keep on her mother's good side as long as possible.

yes, but i'd make it clear that i wasn't going to accept, so it wouldn't
happen again.

(hell yes! obviously she'd have to be a hot little thing if she sired a
babe like the one I'm dating! Not only that, but she'd be more
experienced, experience I can put to use when I boff my sweetie! Sex is
sex! Why be picky?!?)

I liked the movie version of this item. "The Graduate, 1968, Dustin Hoffman"

re #11: (glad you noticed. That's exactly what inspired it.)

Has anyone read _Time Enough for Love_ by Heinlein?  It ahs a similar plot.

re#10:  I gather from the question that the mother is married to someone, like
the father?  Carson, it's called adultery.

If you'd only been dating this woman for a couple of days, she probably
wouldn't mean that much to you.  I'd probably tell her I wasn't comfortable
with the situation and get outta there fast.  Unless of course I was one
of those guys who has a thing for older women...

I disagree very strongly with what seline said.  I prefer to judge people
by their own actions, not the actions of their parents, so I would never
break up with somebody because of what their parents did.

Selene didn't seem to be judging the daughter.  The *situation* is going to
lead to trouble no matter what you do.  I too would prefer to be elsewhere,
for that reason in addition to any others.

Yes, but I think I could have a good realtionship with the daughter while
still avoiding being alone with the mother.  Or maybe in time the mothier
would figure out that I wasn't interested in her in that way.

I think Steve just doesn't want to close his options. ;)

no.

("no"?!? I think the Will Tarkington I know would jump into bed... wait a
minute... never mind.)

(I keep forgetting that we're not really playing Scruples here.)

        it'd probably be pretty *stupid* to go off with the mother if you're
trying to develop some sort of relationship with the daughter... 

(not necessarily. by observing the mother, you can learn a lot about the
daughter.)

(not that I'm saying I *would*, because, quite frankly, in the situation
described, I *wouldn't*, but I can still see rationale for doing so.)

I would not jump into bed. Well probably not anyway :)

(no, instead you'd be carried there and tucked in.)

Her mother might be testing you, .....but then the male sex drive is very very
powerful and constant, but then how do you feel about the girl (your
girlfriend) ? Turn mommy down guys. And consider how you tell her daughter that
mommy made a pass.

Bang her like a drum.

No way. I would tell the mother that if she cared for her daughter that she
wouldn't risk hurting her in this way and that I had no intentions of having
an affair with her. Do what you will and harm none (expect for the almost road
kills).

No, that would be asking for trouble. I would try to pretend that it is a
joke. 

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