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Depended on what social class they belonged to, what country they lived in, etc. In Victorian England, for example, some upper class women not only never left their home during the time they were pregnant, but never even left their bed. At the same time, many lower class women with jobs in fac- tories worked as long as they possibly could regardless of their state of health. (Hm - rereading the item I'm responding to, I realize I should have specified that "Whether women really stayed home the whole time they were pregnant" depended on what social class they belonged to, etc...sorry.)
No apology necessary. :)
On the other hand, I worked till the week before my first child was born. It was in a high school and they gave me an elevator pass. The principal kept asking if I planned to deliver in the elevator. I didn't.
I think it just means women weren't pregnant before this century. :-)
In the circumstances where ladies were never "pregnant" anyway, but rather "in a delicate condition" or "knitting little booties" or whatever, social delicacy expected them to conceal their condition one way or another. I vaguely remember reading bits of _...And the Ladies of the Club_ (when I was supposed to be cataloging it) which mentioned that younger members often missed about six months of meetings while expecting a baby -- this was pre-World War I, I'm not sure how much pre-.
Hey, was I actually the first to respond to this item? That's a first for this newbie. Am I permitted a heartfelt "Cool!" at this point? Re #2: thanks, and :-) yerself! Re #3: the principal actually *kept* asking? Did s/he think you were going to change your mind if offered the option often enough? Re #s 4 & 5: interesting point - avoiding explicit language allowed for all sorts of behavior meant to disguise a wide variety of "women's conditions", not just pregnancy but menstruation and other "female ailments". Not that that's necessarily changed on all fronts - I dunno how often I've heard women I work with talk about "that time of the month" or "my friend", etc....
Maybe the confinment to home was due to the fact that pregnancy is an announcement to the world that you have had sex (in those days, married or no, it had to be viewed as evil, no?).
Before 1904 they just made their own? Back in those days, the sewing machine was common, and a lot of people, especially rural, made clothes for themselves and their families. I'd find it hard to beleive that farm women just stayed inside for several months.
To farm folk, seeing a pregnant woman would be just as natural a seeing a pregnant goat or cow. Rural people tend(ed) to see things differently than "society" people. Polite society saw things like bodily functions as vulgar, and that's what I think we're talking about here.
I've thought of some other considerations. In mid-to-late pregnancy one's own comfortable chair can be very attractive; automobiles with good shock absorbers were not available in those days. And we can be cavalier about exposing a very young baby & new mother to possible infection, but they didn't have our immunizations & antibiotics & germicidal soaps.
A number of reasons for "confinement" have been given: "Polite" society's discomfort with bodily functions, pregnancy when it gets to the "showing" stages being an indiscreet display of "personal" condition. Another was health: in addition to the lack of antibiotics, the miscarriage, premature labor, and infant mortality rate were high. Being pregnant now with my 4th child, I really appreciate all of our advances in the last few decades. Very common ailments, like vaginal staph infections, affect as many as 40% of all pregnant women, and can cause premature labor & infant infection...now identifiable with simple lab tests and easily treatable; or toxemia or high blood pressure, or gestational diabetes...the list goes on. During the early months, when a woman is less likely to show, the wealthier women with domestic servants would be able to take to their beds as suffering from nausea, sleepiness, and anemia are common then. Lower class women whose very lives depended on their work were not afforded that luxury. But the concept of confinement is not limited to the pre-WWI period. How many of you over the age of 35 remember seeing a pregnant teacher in school? As recently as 20 years ago they were required to take leave from the moment they showed, or in some areas, from the moment they found out they were pregnant. That seems very strange to me as someone who worked until the day before each of my first two kids' births and two weeks before the 3rd one's.
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