hey both guys n glas check this out.................
ok i want responses from both sexes ..the q goes like this
ARE WOMEN'S PASSION FOR SEX GREATER THAN MEN'S? If so how many times
4/5/10?????????????
also ther goes a contradictiory saying like this..
MEN LOVE 'COZ THEY WANT 2 HAVE SEX..
BUT WOMEN HAVE SEX COZ THEY WANNA LOVE...
ok shoot ur responses

79 responses total.

<after interpreting the pseudo-English in #0>

It think it's pretty equal, though women are trained that it's Not Cool to
reveal when you're horny.  So, it always seems like women are rarely in the
mood, whereas my experience shows we get just as horny just as often.  Guys
just tend to be more verbose about it.

Not all women have sex to get love.  Not all guys fall in love just for the
sex.

i prefer women hit on me than i hit on women.

can't always get whatcha want.

Generally, I think sex and love are confused entirely too often, at least in
American culture (and probably others) but that's really a seperate rant.

In general, I would suspect that guys and girls 'want it' about the same. 
THere are, of course, exceptions to be made, however, on both sides of the
fence.  Questions/statements such as this tend to lead to very iffy thinking,
to my mind...so I don't ponder it terribly often :)

I prefer to think that women have a better sense of appropriateness than guys.
One coworker I have, for example, will discuss his desire for sex in the
middle of a discussion of insurance issues, with mixed company that couldn't
possibly care.  I'm sure I work with women who have the same desire at the
same times, but most of them don't particularly want to tell *me* about it.

re #1:

It seems like there's a biological difference in there somewhere.  It's
not that men are hornier than women.  It's that men tend to stop feeling
horny for a while when they get off, and women don't necessarily.  A lot
of men I know treat sex like coffee or aspirin -- if you're tired you
drink coffee, if you've got a headache you take an aspirin, and if you're
turned on you have sex -- it's the obvious reaction.  It's like horniness
is a signal that you _should_ have sex, and then you'll feel better.  For
most women, horniness seems to be more of a signal that you _could_ have
sex.  

Dan put it a hell of a lot better than I did.  THANK YOU for understanding
that we don't stop feeling horny once we get off.  A woman's desire builds
and builds and builds with each orgasm, so you just sorta have to wait for
it to fade.  That's what I've been trying to make guys understand ever since
I started receiving the question, "Why don't you masturbate when you're
horny?"

Ah, the light bulb clicks on.  Color me silly, but certain 
things make more sense now, like a woman's need to "come down" 
after sex, i.e. afterplay (so you don't have to *wait* for it 
to fade necessarily).  More specifically, ejaculation that 
almost invariably accompanies orgasm in men doesn't in women 
(I hear it's a rare thing).  Women can theoretically have 
orgasm to exhaustion.  That accurate?

Yup, and it's not as great as it sounds.  You start to feel helpless, since
your whole body goes numb and your vision gets blurred, and every nerve is
overstimulated.  It's not a good torture, despite what phenix might think.
;-)

        You also run into a few differences which may be cultural, or may be
biological, such as the fact that the relationship criteria for men (being
a bit stereotypical) tend to be more immediately visible than those for women,
that affect perception of someone else's horniness.  

        I haven't really figured out why it'd be a useful question to ask,
though, since the difference between individuals of the same sex is clearly
much greater than that between genders.

rare? wow, i must date special girls or just be that good:)
and it depends on the women sarah so thppppppppt

as to drive: many women are encourged to supress their drive untill you
have worn out nutcases like alley mcbeal.

Not all women can have multiples, and not all women have a g-spot.  I can't
remember the figures offhand.  I just thought I'd throw that in.

(Well, I should say, not all women have a g-spot located close enough to the
vaginal wall to gain the effects of stimulation)

that's what fisting is for

OW.

YMMV, but i do not recall "ow' being a recorded response

some girls have told me otherwise about their orgasm: that it is a build-up
to explosion, which relieves them. and after that's done, they don't want
their genitals being touched anymore, because they're too sensitive in an
unpleasurable way. this is how it is for me... although i, like these girls
i speak of, am able to be assuaged back up to potency.

once again YMMV
i've know a few with leland's description, but most i have known
seem to just want to keep going, differnt than sarah.
but i'm not a mind reader, so i wouldn't know for sure

It depends on the individual, in my experience.

I like to keep going...  you're misreading me.  :)

Biologically, it's difficult since the vagina can dry up after an orgasm. 
PLUS, I know many men whose penis becomes sensitive after orgasm, so it's best
to leave it alone for a little while.  Soooooo...it all depends on the person,
the timing, the mood, etc.

Well, now that we've all agreed that everyone's milage varies...

I'm wondering now whether there are any cultures where women are considered
to be hornier than men.  That would be a glitch in my theory that there's a
biological difference involved.

I know that in the Jewish religion, a woman can file for divorce if her man
doesn't satisfy her often enough, but I wouldn't say Jewish women are known
to be hornier than most men.  I just thought I'd throw that in because I've
always thought it was a cool role reversal.  Usually, the man expects his wife
to satisfy him.

(I'm using "usually" in a VERY BROAD sense, so don't get all offended).

No offense taken.  I think it's safe to admit that is rather true.

20: i don't think there's a glitch in your biological theory, but that's very
frequently how i am about biological theories. the next step is to parse
social contributions from biological, to determine a, uh, continuum of
horniness.

Right.  What we really need is some research... for the common good, of
course.  All in the name of science. ;)

Dan...  I...  forget it.

Re: #20
Isn't there a whole advertising campaign aimed at selling Viagra to women
who think (or can be moved into thinking) that their men could really use
some chemical help in the "studly satisfaction provider" dept.?

        Yes.

        I'm not sure if it's a byproduct of their wanting to associate
something specific - like maintaining an erection - with a vague concept like
"sexual potency", but there are even women who take the drug.

(#25:  Oh dear.  I haven't offended, have I?)

The claim is that viagra works for women because it boosts blood flow to the
pelvis, and that's involved in women's sexual response too.  I don't know
enough biology to know if that's a load of bull or not.

No, you didn't offend.  I was going to volunteer and then changed my mind.
;-)

whoa. scary mental imaes!
eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeek

Thanks.  Is this conf not called cflirt?

Scary?  I dunno.  Interesting, maybe.  *shrug*

...and for being "scary", I'm getting laid an awful lot more often than 
you, Greg...

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        Hey, watching someone go down in flames is a part of flirting, too.

I AM being nice.  :)  I forgot the winky face.  I would hope Greg's known me
long enough to know I don't find him anything more than a scoundrel with some
pretty freakin' high standards.

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feh. i have high standards. i could be shooping at pihi, huron or commie,
hell, i could raid the virgin vaults, but it's not worth it.
 the reason it was scary was, i don't knoe, but an english riding saddle, 
tinfoil and velcro are involved

Um, how old are you?

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