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md
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response 75 of 216:
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Oct 10 11:48 UTC 2000 |
[Shh! How can jerryr keep congratulating himself with you saying
inconsiderate stuff like that?)
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jerryr
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response 76 of 216:
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Oct 10 12:05 UTC 2000 |
are you serious? are you telling me that pro-lifers have no problem with
abortion? that they accept either choice with equal acceptance? what planet
do you guys live on?
if you are a pro-lifer that considers abortion a choice, you are not a
pro-lifer you are a pro-choicer.
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tod
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response 77 of 216:
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Oct 10 13:49 UTC 2000 |
It's call Uncle Tom style Pro-Life. Kick you in the ass for being
pro-choice but then apologize for the bootprint.
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brighn
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response 78 of 216:
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Oct 10 15:06 UTC 2000 |
Is it really that difficult to accept that somebody can see the rationale and
sagacity of your arguments and still come to a different conclusion than you
do? Is it really that difficult to accept that somebody coudl say, "Yes, you
have some really excellent points, and I could see how somebody could come
to the conclusions you have come to, but I feel I also have some valid points,
and, having weighed all of the points together, I have come to a different
conclusion"?
#76 indicates that, no, you DON'T respect the pro-life stance, because if you
did, you'd see that it also has some valid arguments. Whether you like it or
not, abortion *is* killing a living being... what makes it different than
killing a child is, in my view, viability: While an infant may be cared for
by any adult, a fetus (before the third trimester) is *entirely* dependent
upon its host uterus for survival.
Others don't see it that way. They see a living being, regardless of its
dependence on another, and they see killing a living human for no reason as
murder.
they have reached a reasonable moral conclusion based on the data; I have
reached a reasonable moral conclusion based on the data. Since we live in a
democratic state, it is then up to the government -- all three branches --
to decide (with input from its citizenry, and based on constitutional
foundation) which of the equally valid moral conclusions to accept.
The government has done so. Abortion is legal. In a mature society, the
remaining issue would be then to decide what, if any, modifications to make
on the general statement... should the gov't pay for it? Should minors have
to tell their parents? Should the gov't require that women considering
abortion be educated on the severity and ramifications of the decision?
But, honestly, just because somebody doesn't embrace your opinion and make
it their own doesn't mean they don't respect it. Grow up.
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tod
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response 79 of 216:
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Oct 10 15:20 UTC 2000 |
If someone wants to make laws that remove that said freedom, you can
call it anything you want, but it's VERY lacking in any sort of 'respect'.
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jazz
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response 80 of 216:
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Oct 10 15:30 UTC 2000 |
Ah, but the pro-life side doesn't tend to think of it any differently
than removing the "freedom to murder", and I can see their point.
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brighn
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response 81 of 216:
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Oct 10 15:40 UTC 2000 |
I can respect your desire to do something and still not want you to do it.
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tod
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response 82 of 216:
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Oct 10 15:55 UTC 2000 |
It's pretty sick if you think folks have a desire for abortion.
What we're really talking about is that some stranger wants to take
a 5 second glimpse into the life of a woman and made a broad decision
on what she does with her life/body. It's not about what you want
me not to do, it's about what you don't want to allow anyone to ahve
the choice in their life should they have the traumatic fork in the
road that they should figure out on their own. A broad decision from
a stranger regarding this issue is insulting beyond belief.
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jazz
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response 83 of 216:
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Oct 10 15:58 UTC 2000 |
The people who make those sorts of arguments, about women using
abortion as a preferred method of birth control, are appealing to emotion
rather than logic and represent a fairly extreme part of the pro-life
movement.
There are silly pro-choicers with silly opinions too, however.
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tod
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response 84 of 216:
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Oct 10 16:00 UTC 2000 |
I'm just curious why these same pro-lifers aren't so staunchly
protesting the military's existence.
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jazz
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response 85 of 216:
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Oct 10 16:08 UTC 2000 |
People tend to have different attitudes about killing adults and (what
some believe to be) killing babies. I can understand that, too. We're wired
to protect children. We're also wired to kill adults that compete with us
for the same resources.
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rcurl
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response 86 of 216:
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Oct 10 16:13 UTC 2000 |
Which brings me back to a point that I think is important. The pro-lifers
like to wave the "murder" flag, really for effect, since killing humans
has long been sanctioned in our society. There is the execution of
criminals (or at least, declared criminals); there is war, in which most
of the soldiers killed have killed no one else, and are guilty of no
offence; there is the recent surgical separation of conjoined twins, in
which one had to be killed; there are life-and-death decisions made in
medical procedures; there are 'mercy deaths' practiced on the terminally
ill; there are thousands killed on the highways in order to facilitate
rapid transit for the convenience or profit of others....the list goes
on and on. Society makes explicit or implicit decisions on killing
other people - and in this case, we have given a human being the right
to kill their own fetus, up to a certain period of time. This is just
one among that vast number of justifications used for killing humans,
which serve societal purposes. There is an awful lot of hypocrisy about
this.
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tod
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response 87 of 216:
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Oct 10 16:28 UTC 2000 |
Especially on the point of "competing for resources".
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brighn
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response 88 of 216:
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Oct 10 17:30 UTC 2000 |
Soldiers can choose to go into the army or not (the Draft notwithstanding).
Murderers have done something that warrants execution.
The terminally ill can indicate their desires about whether to go on or not.
A fetus has no say in the matter.
I'm pro-choice, as well, but I don't think "Adults who do things which they
know or suspect will lead to their deaths" is a valid response to "It's wrong
to kill a human that has done nothing wrong."
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tod
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response 89 of 216:
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Oct 10 17:33 UTC 2000 |
Humans don't eat their young nor do they push away the runt. They do
other things like have abortions.
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jerryr
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response 90 of 216:
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Oct 10 17:37 UTC 2000 |
how simply can i put it...ok... let's try this. i am pro-choice. choice.
being pro-life is against choice. anyone that argues differently is consuming
spiked pablum. i support women who refuse abortion. i support women who
chose abortion. no pro-lifer worth their salt as a pro-lifer will support
abortion. do you ever hear of pro-choice advocates killing doctors because
they refuse to perform abortions? i think not. what you do hear about are
the wack jobs that believe that killing abortionists is saving unborn
children's lives. yeah, respect. uh huh. no. not all pro-lifers buy into
that, but the overwhelming majority of them do not respect or condone
abortion. to say otherwise is just plain silly. if it isn't silly, then
everyone would be pro-choice, right? and you know that's not true.
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brighn
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response 91 of 216:
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Oct 10 17:47 UTC 2000 |
Where did anybody say that being pro-life isn't against choice?
You're right. The overwhelming majority of pro-lifers do not respect or
condone abortion. That's, um, what makes them pro-lifers. That's a definition
kind of thing.
So let's try it again, and take your fingers out of your ears, Jerry.
MANY (IF NOT MOST) PRO-LIFERS RESPECT THAT PRO-CHOICERS HAVE VALID OPINIONS
ABOUT ABORTION. THEY SIMPLY FAIL TO SHARE THAT OPINION.
For that matter, many pro-choicers do NOT respect or condone abortion. They
TOLERATE the existence of laws permitting abortion (or the absence of laws
prohibiting it) because, for them, the issue is about CHOICE.
Pro-lifers feel so strongly about the sinfulness of abortion that they feel
there should be laws to prevent it.
Pro-choicers feel so strongly about the right of the pregnant to choose what
to do with her body that ther should be laws to allow abortion.
You're going over and over the definitions as if saying them again and again
will somehow convince us that they don't exist.
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tod
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response 92 of 216:
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Oct 10 17:48 UTC 2000 |
I walked in a Pro-Life rally when I was in college. Right before the rally,
they read a letter from Ronald Reagan applauding their commitment.
I was doing all of this to experience the thoughts and opinions as I hadn't
made up my mind yet where I stood. During this rally..a walk down the
main avenue of this town..they filmed us and I was broadcast on TV.
My composition teacher saw me..she was a staunch left wingnut and promptly
began trumping all my grades down a notch or two.
I've seen disrespect on both sides of the house.
Personally, I think the guys should keep their hands off the women unless
invited. That includes legislating a woman's body.
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tod
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response 93 of 216:
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Oct 10 17:51 UTC 2000 |
Oh..and evolution is a theory. ;)
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brighn
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response 94 of 216:
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Oct 10 18:47 UTC 2000 |
What about men who want to get abortions?
Why must the laws be so sexist?
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rcurl
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response 95 of 216:
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Oct 10 19:14 UTC 2000 |
Re #88: quite right, each case is different in some respect. Abortion in
the first two trimesters is different in that it is the mother's choice,
no one else's.
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jazz
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response 96 of 216:
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Oct 10 19:31 UTC 2000 |
Rane, you're using a faulty argument; the issue is not whether
killing is sanctioned under certain circumstances, as clearly it is, and only
a subset of the pro-life movement (or other movements) would argue that there
should be no sanction under any circumstances. The issue is about whether
a given killing is sanctionable, and morally acceptable, or not.
The argument that "it's her body", though it touches some important
psychological issues, doesn't really answer the question - if it's morally
and ethically unacceptable for a woman to give birth to a child and then
kill it, what is it about the earlier stage of development, or about it's
location in her body, that makes it acceptable?
For the record, I'm strongly pro-choice, but it's a complicated issue,
and I recognize and respect a variety of opinions.
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anderyn
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response 97 of 216:
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Oct 10 19:38 UTC 2000 |
I think that I'd prefer there never to be a need for abortions, but I do think
that they are somewhat acceptable in the first trimester, but are less and
less acceptable after that. I think this is because after the first trimester
there are recognizable features, and the like. On the other hand, I also have
some sympathy for the rights of the fetus' father to have some say in whether
or not the child is aborted -- it's not just "my body", it's my body and this
potential person which has two parents (unless babies are made parthogenically
and no one told me), who should both have a say in what happens to that
potential person. Now, in some cases (rape, one-night stands, incest...), the
father has no right to a say because he's already infringed upon the mother's
rights by assault, seduction... But if there is a relationship there then the
father should have equal rights to decision.
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rcurl
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response 98 of 216:
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Oct 10 22:28 UTC 2000 |
The Supreme Court worked out the justifications (literally) that answer
jazz's questions in 96. All I would do is repeat their ruling. I believe
that some of the considerations that made abortion acceptable to the SC
was the non-viability of a fetus in the first two trimesters, and a
reading of the Constitution of what constitues a "person" in law.
I don't think "recognizable features" can be considered as a logical
basis.
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brighn
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response 99 of 216:
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Oct 10 22:35 UTC 2000 |
Remember, to be a citizen of the United States, you have to be BORN here, or
apply for citizenship. ;}
Technically, then, human or no, fetuses aren't citizens.
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