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orinoco
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response 62 of 129:
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Jun 2 19:57 UTC 2002 |
That it's promiscuity's fault won't save us either, for what that's worth.
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flem
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response 63 of 129:
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Jun 3 17:58 UTC 2002 |
Oh, my. Where to start.
Walter, for someone who appears to have paid some attention to what's
happening with AIDS in the world, you appear to have retained some glaring
errors of fact. You appear, for instance, to believe that "HIV will kill
virtually all members of a human population [in which the majority
are sexually active with multiple partners over time]." Huh? You do
remember, don't you, that it's a precondition for catching HIV by
sexual transmission that your partner has HIV? You are aware that it's
possible to test for HIV with high accuracy, yes? I assert that these
two facts suggest a method by which it may, in fact, be possible to
get one's freak on with very little likelihood of contracting HIV. If
the sea manatees knew where to go where there weren't any propellers,
they might not face extinction.
Clinton may well be a sex addict. I'm a sex addict, too. I get all
cranky and irritable and such when I'm forced to go without sex for
long periods of time. I've been known to do irrational things in
pursuit of sex. As it happens, (and this may be a shock to some of you)
there are circles in which the quirks of my personality are regarded as
charming. I'd be a perfect recipe for a "Typhoid Mary of VD", too, but
for one minor but crucial fact: I DON'T HAVE VD. Guess what? Neither
does Clinton, to the best of my knowledge.
This kind of twisted, limping argument for abstinence tends to suggest to
me that the proponent has something against sex, not against AIDS.
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oval
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response 64 of 129:
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Jun 3 21:12 UTC 2002 |
<wild applause>
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orinoco
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response 65 of 129:
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Jun 3 21:29 UTC 2002 |
<approving nod>
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cyklone
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response 66 of 129:
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Jun 3 23:24 UTC 2002 |
<high five!>
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jaklumen
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response 67 of 129:
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Jun 3 23:59 UTC 2002 |
resp:63 Is this to imply that Clinton couldn't keep it in his pants
because Hillary was too busy or what not to give him some lovin'? We
don't know for sure. We do know, however, that he allegedly engaged
in a number of affairs during his time as governor of Arkansas and as
President of the United States. We know that there was scandal before
his affair with Monica; but it would seem that the president just
couldn't stop. He was definitely in danger of being caught-- and
essentially, he was caught doing something improper a number of
times. If it wasn't an addiction, he may have had more room to cover
it up.
At any rate, there is some reason to believe Clinton is a sex addict.
We have no clear-cut evidence to believe you are the same, Greg.
Something against sex rather than against AIDS.. please. Perhaps
abstinence is poorly represented here, but I *do* know that it is
promoted in AIDS education-- not as *the* alternative, but as *an*
alternative, and as the *safest* alternative.
HIV is transmitted primarily through blood and genital secretions.
Sexual behavior listed in most education programs are as follows, with
riskiest first:
Anal sex-- riskiest, since there is penetration and genital
secretions, with the risk of tearing anal tissue and introducing blood.
Vaginal sex-- less risky, but more mingling of genital secretions.
Oral sex (penile to mouth)-- moderate to moderately low risk. Risk
increases: 1) when ejaculation is involved, 2) when there is bleeding
in the mouth and/or gums.
Abstinence from sexual contact-- relatively little risk, which I
believe includes hugging, kissing, fondling, petting, etc.
Sharing of needles would involve primarily blood.. I am not sure how
risky it is considered-- probably moderately high.
Other risky behaviors include sharing of sex toys without
sterilization, and S&M activities that may draw blood (I don't know
how risky the latter is considered, but I do know the community
considers how to play more safely). Prior contractions of other STDs
are also risky, as they further increase the risk of eventually
contracting HIV. Herpes and Hepatitis C, for example, have no
treatment that will permanently cure infection, especially the former;
and many STDs, including gonorrhea and syphilis, are beginning to grow
resistant to existing treatments.
Okay-- consider that, alone. Even if we find a very effective
treatment against HIV, what's to say it won't grow progressively
resistant like many other bacteria and viruses are today?
About the mantees-- that may be-- but I think it's rather
irresponsible for us to do nothing. And all my point is-- something
can be done, especially in regards to AIDS. A cure shouldn't be the
only solution-- prevention needs to be considered, too, or the cure
may not last forever.
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jazz
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response 68 of 129:
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Jun 4 00:31 UTC 2002 |
Don't think about cunnilingus much, do ya?
I don't think it's the case that the moral and ethical fiber of the
human race has suddenly been eroded, though it's not really possible to prove
or disprove. People, or their ancestors, have been doing it for the last
billion years or so. While we have aggravated a lot of natural factors that
predispose us to disease by living in such close proximity to one another,
we've also imposed social and moral codes on the proper expression of our
sexual drives. I don't believe for a minute that we're sinners and therefore
being punished for our wickedness, and the evidence suggests that such
diseases have emerged, and far from becoming epidemic, disappeared in the
past.
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i
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response 69 of 129:
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Jun 4 01:32 UTC 2002 |
Re: #63
Let's start with the personal. Considering how much damage Clinton
could know damn well that he was risking to an administration &
government, the attention & performance of which would be making &
breaking millions (at least) of human lives, i don't think that you
could possibly have done so much harm if you wished to. In fact, i
suspect that you probably made the "right" choice more often than he,
in spite of the far lesser consequences of your making the wrong one.
On to the Typhoid Mary of VD. If you don't have it, then you are
almost certainly sadly lacking in one or more critical behavioral
areas. Like a hard-drinking pilot who gets & stays cold sober two
days before take-off, you are happily deficient as a menace to public
safety. (Highly mobile males with many causual partners, preferences
for riskier behaviors with them (see #67), and ignorance/denial about
health are a huge factor in the spread of HIV through a population.)
Now to a really fat hair to split. I used the phrase "almost everyone
wants to be sexually active, with multiple...", you used "the majority
sexually active..." 95+% vs. 50.01+% is a very large gap. I didn't
bother stating a few extras like "with a normal human range of risky
behaviors, a seed sub-population that's HIV+, etc." From your follow-
on, i'll guess that you're talking about well-informed and responsible
individuals with very good current first-world medical resources; i'm
talking about the public health of populations that we can but dream
about getting up to that level of behavior and health care. To cut to
the chase, we're arguing about whether wood burns; you're dropping the
lit match onto a thick, fresh green log and i'm dropping it into the
average old woodpile with plenty of dead leaves, mouse nests, etc.
Abstinence? If the alternative is high-risk behavior, then YES, most
certainly absinence would be far better than the horrible alternatives
now playing out in too many parts of the world. But, on the flip, if
the alternative is informed, responsible, low-risk behavior, then let
me encourage you to spend much more of your leisure time enjoying sex
with your partner(s) of choice, and perhaps cut down on your hours at
work so that you have yet more time for it. Just, please, don't go
assuming that your own ability to handle both driving and alcohol is
any proof that everyone else can, or that loads of innocent people are
not dying for the lack.
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jaklumen
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response 70 of 129:
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Jun 4 05:31 UTC 2002 |
resp:68 I do-- it's just generally not considered as risky as
fellatio, *shrug*, depending on who you talk to. I think dental dams
are indeed advocated, but I don't think they are quite to the extent
condoms are.
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flem
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response 71 of 129:
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Jun 4 16:52 UTC 2002 |
> From your follow-
> on, i'll guess that you're talking about well-informed and responsible
> individuals with very good current first-world medical resources; i'm
> talking about the public health of populations that we can but dream
> about getting up to that level of behavior and health care.
Yes, that's right. I'm not really talking about what ought to be done
in the parts of Africa and so forth you mention earlier with unbelievably
high infection rates. There, you're right that one would be dangerously
crazy to employ anything less than a sexual strategy that woudl be
considered paranoid elsewhere.
But elsewhere, such as where I live, such a strategy does verge on
paranoia. Most people of my acquaintance (almost all, even) actually are
well-informed and responsible individuals who do have access to
excellent modern medical resources. What I'm saying, and this is basically
*all* I'm saying, is that it's reasonable for those well-informed, responsible
people to explore their sexuality, within the dictates of common sense.
Yes, this introduces a slight risk. It's not my place or yours to tell
other people whether that risk is acceptable or not.
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jazz
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response 72 of 129:
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Jun 4 17:27 UTC 2002 |
You risky fucker ...
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i
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response 73 of 129:
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Jun 5 10:36 UTC 2002 |
Re: #71
Heh. There are plenty of populations far closer than Africa that flunk
the "well-informed and responsible" test. Teens are perhaps the most
dangerous, because they're generally easy targets for social pressure,
far short of well-informed & responsible, in denial about risks and
consequences, and hugely self-deluded about all of the above (plus mostly
cut off from medical resources). But HIV is on the rise in a fair number
of demographic groups in America.
I'll agree that public health authorities should direct nothing but a
steady stream of hard facts toward well-informed & responsible sexually
active folks.
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i
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response 74 of 129:
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Jun 10 00:43 UTC 2002 |
Gee. Looks like this thread just totally died for lack of controversy.
How about we pass laws that everyone has to start having at least five
times as much sex (low-risk only) to cut down the time that they've got
available for tooling around in their giant SUV's, working for money
they don't need to spend on paving the world with strip malls and mini-
mansions, buying stuff from factories pouring toxic wastes into Earth's
water, etc.?
No....make that ten times as much. Harsh penalties for scoflaws, too.
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flem
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response 75 of 129:
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Jun 10 16:47 UTC 2002 |
What, you expect that to be controversial? :)
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orinoco
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response 76 of 129:
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Jun 12 03:03 UTC 2002 |
What the hell, I'll bite. I think the expectation that people have lots of
sex is just as ridiculous as the expectation that they don't have much.
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jaklumen
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response 77 of 129:
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Jun 12 07:08 UTC 2002 |
Well, apparently, there are a great deal of people who *do* have sex
moderately. But there is a small minority of people who have sex
quite frequently, with many different partners up to 300+. It's those
kinds of numbers-- those in the scores, or few hundreds, that worry
those concerned with transmission of STDs.
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mynxcat
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response 78 of 129:
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Jun 12 13:42 UTC 2002 |
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jaklumen
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response 79 of 129:
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Jun 12 13:47 UTC 2002 |
I'm not sure. Celebrities like rock stars and athletes number among
them. Portions of the gay/bisexual male community.
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orinoco
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response 80 of 129:
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Jun 12 15:53 UTC 2002 |
(Uh, lumen? Numbers that high are kind of startling no matter which gender
you're into. Saying "oh, they're gay men" doesn't count as an explanation.)
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mynxcat
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response 81 of 129:
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Jun 12 16:00 UTC 2002 |
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jaklumen
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response 82 of 129:
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Jun 13 03:26 UTC 2002 |
resp:80 yep, I figured I'd get that. If you'd rather I be specific,
it has been noted that it is more particular among numbers of young
black and Hispanic gay males because of cultural taboos, machismo
among them. For example, "tops" are not seen as necessarily gay,
while "bottoms" most certainly are.
In general, it has been found that infection is once again on the rise
in the gay/bi youth population, and it is surmised that it is because
the fear of AIDS is not as prominent as it once was; these young men
do not have friends who have died yet.
Why it's not equally a concern among the lesbian/female bi population,
I'm not sure, but I think risk factors are not considered as high.
They also don't seem to be interested so much in cruising for sex.
(Not all gay/bi men are, but if you think the cruise culture doesn't
exist, you're kidding yourself.)
It has been reported in the news media: I remember hearing about it on
NPR and in a Seattle newspaper.
Clearly, numbers this high among either gender would indicate a degree
of sexual addiction, which is a concern. However, it is folly not to
examine that gays and bisexuals may be part of the picture. Men with
both male and female partners are a concern: there is a larger
potential pool of infection.
I congratulate you if you haven't been there, Dan, but trust me, I
have. Pretending that everyone *is* equally sexually promiscuous to
this kind of degree isn't quite fair.
Besides, I didn't say the rock stars and athletes were necessarily
gay/bisexual. Freddy Mercury fits the bill, but Magic Johnson, Wilt
Chamberlain, Gene Simmons, and others who have boasted or spoke of
their numerous conquests clearly do not (yes mynx, they did get away
with that and then they told everyone).
Also, the numbers of Catholic priests who are now being found to be
pedophilic or otherwise sexually predatory-- I don't think
homosexuality is really a root cause here. There are indeed
homosexual priests-- this has been confirmed-- but I doubt they
necessarily comprise a significant portion.
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response 83 of 129:
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Jun 13 17:02 UTC 2002 |
No one really knows about woman-to-woman HIV transmission. There
was one study in 1991, and all the women in the study were IV drug
users, bisexual, or both.
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jazz
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response 84 of 129:
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Jun 13 17:39 UTC 2002 |
Studies are scarce, but available scientific evidence points to a much
lower rate of transmission for cunnilingus than for fellatio, fisting, or anal
sex.
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response 85 of 129:
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Jun 14 00:39 UTC 2002 |
Possible, but no one knows. 'Sides, who says lesbians don't fist
or share anal toys?
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orinoco
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response 86 of 129:
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Jun 14 03:08 UTC 2002 |
(ding!)
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