response 52 of 138:

Jan 18 00:28 UTC 2004

re resp:51: Cyklone, now you're trying to run Grex from afar *and* 
telling me how to raise my son.  Do you do this kind of stuff a lot?

response 54 of 138:

Jan 18 00:40 UTC 2004

(wow, uh oh! You didn't use enough noun 
specifiers!  You'll confuse the girls.)

response 56 of 138:

Jan 18 00:47 UTC 2004

<willcome snuck>

response 58 of 138:

Jan 18 14:18 UTC 2004

Cyklone, I don't need your advice on how to raise my son.

Okay?

How I raise him, and what I tell him, and my son in general, is 
outside of the debate.

Okay?

There will be no votes on Grex which will direct anything I do with 
regard to him.

Got all that?

I'm not suggesting or asking that these things be that way.  I am 
telling you.  Pick another direction; this one isn't productive.  If 
you want to discuss raising children, go to the parenting conference.  
Which, by the way, I am not currently reading.

response 60 of 138:

Jan 18 15:41 UTC 2004

Jep, your capacity for rational thought is clearly diminished if you
perceive my statements as advice on how to raise your son. Pointing out
the truth is not advice on raising your son. Obviously, this whole matter
has hit a nerve with you, which is why I suggest you return to counseling
for at least a short time. You are again displaying the same
self-centered, petty, over-emotional behavior that characterized your
early divorce item posts. 

What I am opposing is your misguided belief that your efforts to do what
you feel is right for your son, in terms of limiting his access to grex
items involving your divorce, should somehow prevail over grex's professed
dedication to free and uncensored speech. A lot of damage is done in the
name "for the children" and it appears to me you are willing to see grex
suffer that damage to satisfy your notions of protecting your child. I do
not feel that is a fair price for grex to pay.  

A vote in your favor would also be an incredibly damaging precedent for
grex.  As I have mentioned before, a favorable vote on your proposal would
open the door for virtually any parent to come back to grex and say "as a
parent it is my prerogative to remove entire items that I now feel would
impair my ability to make parental decisions and/or relationship with my
child." That simply cannot be permitted on a system that claims to support
free and uncensored speech. The cat is out of the bag. You cannot unring
the bell.  Grex should restore the items and permit you and others to
delete their posts. Deal with it. 

response 62 of 138:

Jan 18 17:07 UTC 2004

Re resp:57: If by "custodian", you mean "someone who repeatedly creates
trouble in the hope of driving away staff members."


Re resp:61: A vote for jep's proposal would not set any precident worth
talking about, except perhaps that if people want an item deleted they
can take it to a member vote.  It's pretty specific.  As far as I can
tell there's never been anything preventing this, and in most cases it'd
be counterproductive anyway because it's too slow.  Besides, we already
have a more general proposal on the table about item removal.

Also, telling your opponent that they need to see a shrink is rarely an
effective debating technique.

response 64 of 138:

Jan 18 18:37 UTC 2004

Fine, I did the work for you.

#83 of 125: by Dan Cross (cross) on Mon, Nov 10, 2003 (21:08):
 Oh, screw it.

 I'm actually so disgusted by Mary's comments on my action, that you don't
 have to prepare any legistlation, polytarp.  I resign from staff as it is.


And from Valerie Mates:
it did cross my mind that if I get kicked off staff for 
this, I don't care.

HEY GUESS WHAT, WE DON"T TRY TO KICK PEOPLE OFF STAFF.

response 66 of 138:

Jan 18 21:01 UTC 2004

Re #62: "Also, telling your opponent that they need to see a shrink is rarely
an effective debating technique."

Then perhaps my purpose is not clear. I'm not entering my posts as an
intellectual exercise in debate, although I do recognize that is what many
grexers like to do. I post for two reasons. The first is to make clear my
belief that grex would abdicate its professed support of free and
uncensored speech if the deleted items are not reinstated, and that no
good reasons have been offered in support of deletion.

My second reason is the same reason I posted to jep's divorce item. I
thought I could provide insight that would help him and others in his
position. I see him repeating the same behaviors I saw early in his
divorce items. He sought professional help then and he said it was
worthwhile. I am suggesting he consider that option again. This discussion
appears to have hit an emotional nerve with him that I suspect has little
or nothing to do with the merits of the deletion debate. Hence my
suggestion.
 

response 68 of 138:

Jan 19 04:07 UTC 2004

re 65 Damn!  Now all I need to do is cause enough bullshit for YOU to quit.

response 70 of 138:

Jan 19 11:52 UTC 2004

My apologies, I first read about Nomic in Douglas Hofstadter's "Metamagical
Themas" column in Scientific American in 1982.  Basically it is a game about
law.  You start with an initial set of rules which contain laws about how you
can create new laws.  The point of the game is to game the system by creating
laws favorable to you and get the other players to pass those laws.

Anyway, Peter Suber is the actual creator of the game, he maintains a webpage
at http://www.earlham.edu/~peters/nomic.htm

response 74 of 138:

Jan 19 23:58 UTC 2004

Mary's a stupid bitch.

response 76 of 138:

Jan 20 01:38 UTC 2004

(jep killed the items before he knew about mary's disgusting actions)