| Grex > Cflirt > #22: My girl is pregnant with twins and another on the side.(and all are mine) |
| response 5 of 71: | 
Mar 7 17:04 UTC 2002 |
If we didn't know he was named Jeff, we might not know he was a he?
| response 6 of 71: |
Mar 8 09:46 UTC 2002 |
and the problem being?
| response 7 of 71: |
Mar 8 14:54 UTC 2002 |
She has some confusion about her sexual identity.
| response 8 of 71: |
Mar 8 15:33 UTC 2002 |
I'm with Paul, I didn't respond (initially) because there's too little
information presented, and what's there isn't presented well enough to be sure
of it.
| response 9 of 71: |
Mar 8 18:35 UTC 2002 |
I think he means his girl is pregnant with twins and another girl (on the side) is pregnant.
| response 10 of 71: |
Mar 8 23:23 UTC 2002 |
I was guessing pregnant with twins, and one already delivered.
| response 11 of 71: |
Mar 8 23:25 UTC 2002 |
that'd be really tricky
| response 12 of 71: |
Mar 9 05:50 UTC 2002 |
Not if it wasn't one of the twins, but a seperate birth.
| response 13 of 71: |
Mar 15 23:53 UTC 2002 |
i imagined the lesbian prego with twins and prego with another little bubby in one of her kidneys or something. it probably makes it hard to stand up straight.
| response 14 of 71: |
Apr 26 19:32 UTC 2002 |
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| response 15 of 71: |
Apr 27 00:32 UTC 2002 |
Except that "lesbian" no longer means "woman who is solely sexually
interested in women", but now means "woman who is solely sexually interested
in women, or is interested in both genders but bowing to social pressure to
only be involved with women."
| response 16 of 71: |
Apr 27 16:59 UTC 2002 |
heh. wait, closet bi then?
| response 17 of 71: |
Apr 28 23:19 UTC 2002 |
have you ever looked at a puppy's hindquarters and taken a good long think over the possibilities?
| response 18 of 71: |
Apr 29 19:07 UTC 2002 |
Aaaaaaah! I'm damaged!
| response 19 of 71: |
May 3 19:12 UTC 2002 |
re resp:15: No. Women who are sexually interested in both genders are bisexual. Lesbians are women who have no sexual interest in men. I'm really sick and tired of "lesbians" with boyfriends.
| response 20 of 71: |
May 3 22:33 UTC 2002 |
I know several bisexuals who are really sick of being told by lesbians that they're either deluding themselves and are really lesbian, or are straights pretending to be bi because it's trendy. So it's really refreshing to see that you acknowledge their existence. ;-)
| response 21 of 71: |
May 3 23:21 UTC 2002 |
There's more too it than that, though, it's the instant friend drama
package. I've seen a lot of more lonely bisexual girls get sucked up into
that, and they're usually the ones who declare themselves "lesbian" - which
they seem to view as a political label more than anything else - and have
boyfriends. A good friend of mine went down that path. Very confused girl.
| response 22 of 71: |
May 4 14:45 UTC 2002 |
I view it more as a religion than as a drama package. "Sinner, yea have but to Repent, and Proclaim the Creed of the New Fundamentalist Church of Lesbianism, and yea shall be one of the Elect, a Living Part of the Great Body of the Church, no longer Wrong and Damned, but now Empowered to Tell Sinning Fools and Unbelievers just how Wrong and Damned they really are!"
| response 23 of 71: |
May 4 15:45 UTC 2002 |
There's always the possibility that someone who is having trouble understanding their sexuality might try to be heterosexual until they realize their true sexuality - during that part they are technically heterosexual (or whatever they're *trying* to be). Once they figure it out, they are whatever they are.
| response 24 of 71: |
May 5 02:51 UTC 2002 |
... and if more people had the courage to follow that path, it'd be
a better world.
| response 25 of 71: |
May 6 01:43 UTC 2002 |
People associate a bit too much meaning into the vocabulary.
| response 26 of 71: |
May 6 19:33 UTC 2002 |
amen. apeople.
| response 27 of 71: |
May 8 20:44 UTC 2002 |
Words mean what they mean. If words can be redefined as anyone sees fit, then language is no longer an effective way of communicating and we need to come up with something else pronto. Re resp:19: Bisexuals get a lot of crap from all three monosexual camps. It makes me really mad when I see lesbians or gays start using the same rhetoric against bis as the religious right use against us. Having been burned more than once by bis who turned out to prefer hetero privilege, I can understand the resentment toward them. Still, that's no excuse to go on a crusade and try to make bis adhere to one gender. I just don't date bi women or lesbians-with-boyfriends anymore.
| response 28 of 71: |
May 8 23:56 UTC 2002 |
To be fair, though, is it possible to tell whether a person's decision
about two partners is influenced by whether they're more attracted to one
gender, or how society views their attractions, or whether they simply get
along better with one person than another?
| response 29 of 71: |
May 9 15:50 UTC 2002 |
What are you referring to?