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jep
response 4 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 13:52 UTC 2004

Jan, if you read resp:3, you have a pretty good idea of what you've 
missed by not actively following the other 8 or 10 items in which the 
proposals have been discussed.  There has been a great deal of personal 
attack against me from cyklone and jp2.  The statements you see in 
resp:3 are pretty well polished by this point; they've been repeated a 
lot of times; several times per day without any note paid to my 
replies.  I think the rest of Grex is pretty tired of it and has 
stopped reading for the most part.

Except the "golden words" argument; that one is new.  That there was so 
much of great and unduplicable value that we don't dare to delete those 
items; not because of the circumstances, but because future Grexers 
probably won't be as wise as we were a couple of years ago.  We need to 
teach those future Grexers.  Heh.
jp2
response 5 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 13:58 UTC 2004

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cyklone
response 6 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 14:43 UTC 2004

Yeah, #4 was one of the lowest things yet he has said. It is interesting
how he managed to twist my statement about the value of old posts into a
criticism of new grexers. Especially when JEP HIMSELF commented on the
value of the old posts. 

Jep, I am paying plenty of attention to your replies. I note when you
avoid answering questions. I note when you belatedly answer them and then
claim you thought you answered them before (but hadn't). I note when you
claim I haven't apologized when I have. I note the increase in your claims
of personal attacks the more we press you to be honest and answer the
questions we are asking. I note the way you twist the words of others to
try to make yourself appear more sympathetic. I note the way you sidestep
the issue of censorship by claiming the words of others have no value,
even after you yourself once said they did. I note the hypocrisy in your
statements and I note the utter childishness with which you have conducted
yourself in this discussion. I note your approach, at its core, appears to
be "please do a personal favor for Jep the Victim." 

anderyn
response 7 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 14:45 UTC 2004

Grow up, jp2. For goodness' sake, insulting jep or janc or anyone else is no
way to get anyone else on your side. It is childish and makes me wonder how
much of this you really mean.
jp2
response 8 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 14:53 UTC 2004

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naftee
response 9 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 15:17 UTC 2004

Isn't it funny that it's been only janc and valerie who have purposely
ditributed false and/or antiquated information to the GreX public?   I think
they're both involved in a conspiracy to destroy GreX.
anderyn
response 10 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 16:00 UTC 2004

I would like to know what criminal activity you're speaking about. I didn't
notice anything in item 75 that could be construed as criminal. Not answering
your questions in the explicit mannner you may wish is annoying, but I only
saw "personal attacks" after someone (I think it was you, though I apologize
if I'm wrong here) called him a liar and implied that this was what broke up
his marriage, etc. 

And while I may not be a member right this very minute, did it ever occur to
you that I could wire some money to aruba and become a member before the vote
was over? My vote could very well count if I wished to make it do so. Ticking
off potential voters is not good strategy. Ticking off people in general is
not the best way to come off as the one in the right.  All you have managed
to do is annoy people who might have agreed with you if you hadn't been so
abrasive. Sometimes the medium does matter as much as the message. 
jp2
response 11 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 16:22 UTC 2004

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anderyn
response 12 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 16:35 UTC 2004

So those people who reposted verbatim comments in the "agora" conference on
m-net are also criminal? In-ter-esting. And yet Bruce was mocked and told he
was being an idiot when he mentioned that he might speak to a lawyer about
it. How fascinating this all is. In a sick train-wreck sort of way.
jp2
response 13 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 16:45 UTC 2004

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slynne
response 14 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 16:50 UTC 2004

You know what? I hate to say it but I am finding the attacks on jep to 
be kind of mean. Does it really matter exactly why he doesnt want 
personal sensitive information about himself online? I am thinking 
about changing my vote for that reason alone. I mean, unlike a lot of 
people, I dont think it matters much if the items or restored or not 
since the restored items will be useless after having most of the posts 
in them taken out.  I like the idea of people keeping control of their 
own words even if those words are about someone else. But this business 
is getting on my nerves. 

jp2
response 15 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 16:57 UTC 2004

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keesan
response 16 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 16:58 UTC 2004

I don't want jep to worry about losing his kid because of what he posted, even
if deleting everyone's responses does tread on a few toes.  Jim lost his kids
through divorce because the legal system is not fair and does not even follow
its own rules.  I think it is appropriate to make an exception to free speech
in order to protect jep and little jep from the divorce courts.  Or even to
keep him from worrying about whether postings made by other people about his
state of mind during the divorce might be used against him.  
md
response 17 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 17:46 UTC 2004

I don't remember anything about his "state of mind" that wasn't par for 
the course with people when relationships end, unfortunately.  It was 
nice to see him rebound from it so quickly.

Re jp2 "caring" about Grex, my impression is that much of what he does 
here is his gleeful way of making Grexers pay attention to him and get 
all in a tizzy over whatever issue he raises.  It is hilarious to watch 
everyone here fall for it, I must confess.  But he is also the sort of 
person who hates to ignored or disagreed with so much that he can't 
just leave it at that.  So what started as a joke, or a taunt, turns 
into a BFD.  After that, he can't help himself.  So yes, I guess you 
could say he does "care," in a certain sense.

Cy is another matter.  Either he cares deeply and sincerely about these 
issues, or else he is doing the best parody of [insert name of your 
favorite old-time querulous bbser here] I've ever seen.
jep
response 18 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 17:50 UTC 2004

re resp:14: Lynne, I'd appreciate your "yes" vote on my proposal, very 
much.  It may not matter to you (or anyone else) whether those items 
are restored, but it matters a whole lot to me.
cyklone
response 19 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 18:08 UTC 2004

MD is correct: I care very deeply about allowing the items to remain. I
put a great deal of time, effort and thought into my many posts (using a
pseudo). Jep even specifically mentioned my pseudo as someone who helped
him.  Those words were not just for him, though. They were for anyone who
could benefit from them. I know a great deal about the subject and I do
not want that information to disappear. I very much hope slynne will think
about that before she making any decision about changing her vote. 

In deference to slynne and twila, I will try to tone down the emotional
level of the conversation, while noting that jep himself appears to be
ramping it up in what is apparently a last ditch effort on his part to
prevail. And I do wish some of the other "anti-censors" would focus on the
facts and not the emotions. I do give some of them credit for having made
that distinction already.

As for keesan, I guess I am on her filter so perhaps someone she is not
filtering can reprint this for her: In my "Parodist's Reply" Item
(50-something I believe) I point out the error of using your personal
experience as a yardstick by which to make broader decisions affecting
many people. It is even more risky to use Jim's experience as such a
yardstick. I am quite certain there were many unique aspects of his case
that caused it to come out the way it did. I see very few parallels to
jep's situation. I see absolutely nothing that would cause him to lose his
children if his items were restored minus his own words. Perhaps aaron
will grace us with his quick overview and confirm this as well. Even if he
doesn't, keesan would do well to remember that JEP HIMSELF has said that
his concerns are NOT legal in nature and are NOT related to his divorce
case. 

I would very much appreciate a "no" vote on jep's request so that (1)
others can benefit from the collective wisdom found in his items and (2)
because it is the right thing to do in terms of supporting free and
uncensored speech.
jp2
response 20 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 18:08 UTC 2004

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keesan
response 21 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 18:18 UTC 2004

I am not filtering cyklone.  
cyklone
response 22 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 18:28 UTC 2004

Cool!
keesan
response 23 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 18:37 UTC 2004

I only filter people who are trying to be obnoxious and one who is totally
unconcerned about typing/spelling quality.  I don't filter people for their
opinions.
jp2
response 24 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 18:48 UTC 2004

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twinkie
response 25 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 19:04 UTC 2004

I think it's funny that she filters tsty.

jp2
response 26 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 19:07 UTC 2004

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albaugh
response 27 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 19:37 UTC 2004

> From a personal point of view, it is mean-spirited and petty to retain
> these old details of people's lives on public display against their will
> just to prove a point.

That's crap.  There may be some here who are using this very serious issue
as an opportunity to be mean, but I reject the notion that wanting the items
restored to the position they would be had valerie and jep acted within the
bounds of what they were allowed to do (i.e. only scribble their own posts)
is "mean-spirited and petty", regardless of how "damaged" the items would be.
I'm not claiming that grex will be permanently damaged if the items aren't
restored or that an irreversible precent has been / would be set.  But to
flatly state that it's either "leave 'em deleted" or "admit mean-spiritedness"
is nothing more than a partisan campaign speech.
cyklone
response 28 of 157: Mark Unseen   Feb 5 22:00 UTC 2004

I agree completely with that last sentence. Very well put.
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