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Grex > Cflirt > #24: The Politics Behind Oral Sex! | |
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response 35 of 55:
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Mar 31 23:38 UTC 2002 |
#32 is right on. and the key really is enjoying doing it. that eventually make
taste etc a non-issue. i couldnt enjoy receiving head if i knew the other
person had to apply something in order to be able to do it. [not that thats
out of the question - just the motive behind it] it would make me feel like
i'm gross or something..
but it think it is also easier to master the task on a man than on a woman.
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response 36 of 55:
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Apr 1 01:24 UTC 2002 |
Re: #33
Ack! Just as the guys are safely talking themselves into believing that
that they've correctly diagnosed and solved the problem, just like the
hosts on Car Talk did with that clutch cable that kept breaking on the
highway, and that the problem is no threat to the competence or honor of
Real Guydom, and now you go and say something like that!
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morwen
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response 37 of 55:
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Apr 1 02:04 UTC 2002 |
resp:20 I never meant that I thought it was an exercise in power.
I've been led to believe that girls don't like to give head for a
variety of reasons.
Here are a couple I have heard.
1) they think it's dirty
2) they think that the man is becoming dominant over them (feminist
response)
3) they don't like the taste of the penis/ejaculate
I was responding in part to response #2
Any other reasons why some ladies don't like to give head?
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response 38 of 55:
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Apr 1 03:04 UTC 2002 |
the more pig-like man could then consider that woman as slutty.
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jazz
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response 39 of 55:
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Apr 1 03:26 UTC 2002 |
I don't think it's an easier task to master with a man than a woman,
though perhaps there's a Kinsey three or two in the confrence who could
comment from experience rather than speculation. I'd speculate that for
competence, you'd need more of a psychological angle with women than men, but
that for truly outstanding sex you'd need a lot more than just physical skill
with either gender.
Women don't like giving head to men? I must've been lucky as hell,
then. I've noticed in my admittedly skewed sample that some women have had
issues with giving head to orgasm, and that wasn't generally a problem, but
it seemed more that they considered it less intimate, and therefore only
foreplay, than anything else. I've also noticed, in a few rarer cases,
people who've had issues due to past relationships or inexperience who are
very awkward about head, but did initiate it (as a side comment, I really
have to say not a one of them was bad; perhaps lacking in skill, but making
up for it in honesty and connection).
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jazz
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response 40 of 55:
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Apr 1 03:27 UTC 2002 |
Oh, and Meg, please don't take my suggestion-offering as an indication
that I think that all of this bothers you; it's just that you're missing out
on one of the more fun things in life, IMHO, and people're bound to offer
suggestions.
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michaela
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response 41 of 55:
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Apr 1 03:40 UTC 2002 |
I don't think one is more difficult than the other, physically speaking. Some
of the "issues" in women is that they think they taste bad or smell bad, so
it's hard to relax enough to have an orgasm. As for technique, it's not that
hard if your partner communicates, but it can be damn difficult to know how
you're doing if they're silent or won't give little directions for pressure,
speed, etc.
As for the taste of male ejaculate, just swallow quickly and keep a drink near
the bed. :) It's not THAT horrible, but the tang/salty quality is a bit out
of the ordinary. I just don't think about it since I enjoy pleasing my
partner. That outweighs the second or two of "what an odd taste..."
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jaklumen
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response 42 of 55:
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Apr 1 04:19 UTC 2002 |
resp:35 well yes, jazz managed to say it a lot better than I.. resp:32
was rather hastily written.
resp:39 okay, I'll bite, albeit reluctantly.
Speaking from the receiving end, hmmm.. well, yes, it does take
practice. The term 'mastering' was used, so I don't think you can
just suck away and be good. Also, I have a hard time ejaculating from
being fellated, which I suppose is from too much masturbation.
Speaking from the giving end, well, I'm not sure. I suppose some guys
have practiced 'staying power' or ejaculation delaying techniques, so
some ejaculate fairly quickly, and some don't. It's easy sometimes to
be lazy.. I forget what the term is, but I think the slang is 'face-
fucking'.. and so sometimes the guy can just move it around as feels
best while the giver remains still.
To be sure, a guy's sensitive parts are right out there, and it's hard
to ignore them orally. For a woman, well, they are smaller. For me,
well, it did help to read up and watch up on cunnilingus (sorry,
easier to differentiate that way) and figure it out from there,
because I was rather bad the first time I did it.
But I'm sure it *will* vary from individual to individual.
As for women's 'bad smell'..
"If is smells like fish, eat all you wish
If it smells like cologne, leave it alone."
Ejaculates (former), good. Urine (latter), not tasty and so the
genitals probably could use a good swab with a warm washcloth.
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jaklumen
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response 43 of 55:
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Apr 1 04:22 UTC 2002 |
btw, there's also a taboo on smegma.
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morwen
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response 44 of 55:
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Apr 1 08:32 UTC 2002 |
What's the problem with smegma?
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michaela
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response 45 of 55:
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Apr 1 10:13 UTC 2002 |
Ummm... you do know what smegma is, correct?
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jazz
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response 46 of 55:
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Apr 1 16:13 UTC 2002 |
Hahahaha. Oh man, I can't stop laughing.
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phenix
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response 47 of 55:
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Apr 1 17:06 UTC 2002 |
the poem?
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morwen
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response 48 of 55:
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Apr 2 00:14 UTC 2002 |
Yes, I know what it is. It smells gross and if Jon has it on him when
I go to give him head, I usually clean it off of him just because of
that.
Oh, heck! I put my foot in it again, didn't I?
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jaklumen
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response 49 of 55:
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Apr 2 01:44 UTC 2002 |
what's so funny?
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michaela
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response 50 of 55:
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Apr 2 08:24 UTC 2002 |
<shaking mental image away>
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orinoco
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response 51 of 55:
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Apr 2 16:27 UTC 2002 |
Heh.
Mostly, though, it's just a fun word to say. Smegma smegma smegma. Pity
there aren't that many uses for it in conversation.
Okay, so it's not such a pity.
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jazz
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response 52 of 55:
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Apr 3 00:33 UTC 2002 |
Smeg'ead.
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jaklumen
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response 53 of 55:
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Apr 3 07:19 UTC 2002 |
What was the name of the actor who played Lister again?
Now that Battle Bots has a U.S. version that is continuing where the
BBC version left off, well, you just don't see him much anymore.
Red Dwarf was such a good show =)
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phenix
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response 54 of 55:
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Apr 3 18:33 UTC 2002 |
battle bots is comedy central with sports guys
i think you mean robot wars
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rlejeune
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response 55 of 55:
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Apr 3 18:44 UTC 2002 |
Re: 53 Craig Charles.
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