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richard
response 170 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 21:31 UTC 2006

jep you cannot state as a fact I deliberately lied because you are not inside
my head.  I *know* I didn't lie.  You can either be a man and accept there's
at least the possibility I'm telling the truth, or you can be a stubborn child
and insist that you and only you know who's telling the truth.
tod
response 171 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 21:34 UTC 2006

re #140
 He should be responsible for 1/2 the costs associated with the pregnancy
 and rearing the child.
You think that isn't the way the courts do it today?  Why should banning
abortion make responsibility any different for the parents?  I think that if
there is a ban on abortion, then we should all have to report to church on
Sunday to listen to sermons given by jep and bru.  Kingjon can be the choir
and we'll all sing "Onward Christian Soldiers" along with him.  Then, after
that, we can go whip some negroes in the town square and shoot Indians accused
of trying to burn our houses down.  Oh wait, I know...I'm being ridiculous
and discriminatory....sorry.  Its a man's world.
jep
response 172 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 21:36 UTC 2006

re resp:170: Try it this way, Richard.

Trust me.  You lied.
tod
response 173 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 21:38 UTC 2006

re #160
 im starting to see why your last wife left you.
Wow, you're an asshole.  I'm at least portraying a stereotype from an online
persona but you are actually saying hurtful shit.  Don't be such a prick.
richard
response 174 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 21:38 UTC 2006

jep is pro-life because he KNOWS abortion is wrong, he knows it is wrong for
everyone and it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.  It is wrong because
JEP knows it is wrong.  JEP isn't in a position to KNOW if abortion is wrong
for another human being anymore than he's in a position to KNOW I lied.  He's
not some all-knowing God.  But you'd never get JEP to admit he was ever wrong
on anything.
richard
response 175 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 21:38 UTC 2006

re #173 and jep, you think calling someone insane, an idiot and a liar isn't
hurtful?  You get what you dish out buddy.
tod
response 176 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 21:40 UTC 2006

re #174
Ok, thanks.  Now please focus on this abortion debate cuz your hyper focus
on jep is ruining my pork roast and taters luncheon.
jep
response 177 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 21:40 UTC 2006

Richard, you do not have the power to hurt me.  Losing your composure 
isn't proving a lot for you.
richard
response 178 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 21:44 UTC 2006

my personal integrity is at least as important to me as your last marriage
was to you, you attack my personal integrity and I view it as just as hurtful.
You can apologize, you can admit you overreacted and I might, just might, be
telling the truth, and then I can admit that maybe I overreacted in kind, and
this can be done with.
jadecat
response 179 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 21:46 UTC 2006

resp:171 The difference, as I see it, is this- if she doesn't have a
choice about whether or not she has a child (no abortion) than he
shouldn't either. It's not fair. I don't want to see that happening. It
may not also be the mature response to banning abortion- but then
sometimes my emotions get the better of me on this topic. 

If abortion is legal than both partners should have a choice. If
abortion is illegal- neither partner has a choice. 
tod
response 180 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 21:47 UTC 2006

Shutup, liar
richard
response 181 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 21:49 UTC 2006

re #179 so anne are you saying that if a woman stops taking the pill and gets
pregnant against her partner's will, and abortion is illegal, that the father
shouldn't be able to decide he doesn't want to participate as a father under
the circumstances?
edina
response 182 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 21:51 UTC 2006

Re 178  I love how you're negotiating this.  

Wow.  This is a face of the pro-choice movement.
jep
response 183 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 21:58 UTC 2006

re resp:179: I agree with the point.  If a woman is able to abort her 
fetus, then it seems morally appropriate for a man to be allowed to get 
out of his responsibility, too.

I'm already on record as agreeing with you, that if abortion is not 
legal, then the father of a child should be legally obligated to pay 
for half of all of the costs of having and raising the child.  That 
should include all pre-natal care.  He should provide support for the 
mother to make up for whenever she has to miss work due to the 
pregnancy or giving birth.

I think you and I agree on all of that.  I think, pretty much, we agree 
on the whole range of issues around the question of abortion, except 
for the central one about whether abortion ought to be legal.
richard
response 184 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 22:01 UTC 2006

jep said:

"re resp:179: I agree with the point.  If a woman is able to abort her   
fetus, then it seems morally appropriate for a man to be allowed to get 
out of his responsibility, too.                                         "

Then why are you against this man's lawsuit?  It sounds like you would 
support a law such as this man suggests, IF abortion stayed legal.  Your 
opposition to it then is situational?  is that accurate?
richard
response 185 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 22:20 UTC 2006

here's the deal.  if biology was reversed and it was men who got pregnant, 
not women, there would be no abortion argument, because a male dominated 
society isnt going to tell a man what to do with his body.  I have always 
found a high degree of sexism in the abortion debate.  Many people who are 
pro-life believe in a traditional, male dominant, female subordinate, view 
of society.  They don't find it natural for women to be making their own 
decisions.  
scholar
response 186 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 22:22 UTC 2006

If men got pregnant instead of women, women would be men and men would be
women.
richard
response 187 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 22:29 UTC 2006

similarly, I believe that if men were the ones risking pregnancy, there would
be no debate about the morning after pill.  in this society, certainly in the
past, men making decisions for women was acceptable, women making decisions
for men not acceptable.
tod
response 188 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 9 22:53 UTC 2006

If biology was reversed, Wal*Mart wouldn't be the discussion because the day
after pill would be at every convenience store and 7-11 in the country.  Guys
just don't want to fuss with stuff like that.  Its too easy for them to tell
a woman what to do because they're clueless what a woman's personal life is
like from the plumbing and emotional perspective.
naftee
response 189 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 10 00:14 UTC 2006

they want to build a wal-mart in the old quarry in st-michel.  the usual
arguments.

i'm sorry ; i can only think of off-topic stuff to write because i only read
the last response.

where did richard lie ?!
bru
response 190 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 10 00:17 UTC 2006

I have always found that arguement to be fecitious, richard.  If red was green
the roses would be weeds.  Women have a lot of control over their bodies, just
as men do.  They are more than capable of making logical decisions.  OR are
they?
edina
response 191 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 10 00:26 UTC 2006

Oh my God....and Twila hasn't killed you yet?  
marcvh
response 192 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 10 00:41 UTC 2006

If biology were reversed, then men would be women, and women would be men.
Duh.  Why is it so hard for some people to engage in feminist rhetoric
without straying into misandry?
richard
response 193 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 10 00:48 UTC 2006

marcvh, if you insist then, just consider if BOTH men and women could 
get pregnant.  But in every other way, men and women played the same 
roles in society.  In that case, abortion would be legal IMO and so 
would the morning after pill.  Why?  Because men in this society would 
not place the same restrictions on their decision making that they 
would have no problem placing on women.

marcvh
response 194 of 254: Mark Unseen   Mar 10 00:52 UTC 2006

See what I mean?
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