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jerryr
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response 17 of 174:
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Sep 28 18:22 UTC 2000 |
lemmie see... the supremes are totally wrong about the second ammendment but
totally correct about the bsa? hmmmmmm.....
i had a gay bs leader. he was sleeping with one of the explorers in my post.
he was discovered and busted. none of us were traumatized by this. we met
in a church basement, btw.
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birdy
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response 18 of 174:
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Sep 28 19:08 UTC 2000 |
Brighn - that was me. I know he was an Eagle or something, and you have to
work your way up to that.
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flem
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response 19 of 174:
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Sep 28 19:22 UTC 2000 |
re resp:15 -- No experience as a scout is needed to become a boy scout
leader, but having been a high ranking scout virtually ensures that they'll
accept you as a leader. Unless, of course, you're gay. :)
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brighn
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response 20 of 174:
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Sep 28 19:43 UTC 2000 |
Yeah, you have to work up to be an Eagle, but "troop leader" is the adult
popsition, isn't it? Regardless of his experience, I don't think you need to
have been a boy scout at all to lead a troop.
Popsition... what a typo. ;}
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bhelliom
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response 21 of 174:
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Sep 28 20:05 UTC 2000 |
Hm. . .I was a girl scout for all of two days. The trauma I endured
had nothing to with whether my troop leaders were gay or not, but the
songs I had to sing, and those god-awful badges. . .and visions of
poorly prepared campfood. Blech!
Speaking of Pedophilia (boy, isn't THAT a subject you want to bring up
on a group outing, and WHAT A SEGUE!), children were married much MUCH
younger than wer are now (DUH, right), so the notion of sexual
intercourse with younger children (esp. girls of course) wasn't quite
as taboo. Of course, even they had their limits back them, I'm sure.
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ashke
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response 22 of 174:
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Sep 28 21:19 UTC 2000 |
Agreed. My dad was a troup leader for my brother's troup, and my mom a "Den
Mother", so no, you don't have to have previous experience to be an adult
leader. Just like in Girl Scouts, the parents were voulenteers, rather than
previous scouts.
I don't think the sexuality issues is a point at all. If you don't want to
worry about boy scouts going out and raping little girls, then why would you
expect them to do it if they were boys and gay? It's the pot calling the
kettle black, but only because you haven't been washed lately, not because
you are truly soiled.
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brighn
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response 23 of 174:
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Sep 28 21:41 UTC 2000 |
I honestly don't think anyone in the BSA seriously believes that gay men rape
little boys on a regular basis. That's bru. ;}
The BSA is concerned that homosexuality is a Christian sin, and feel that the
morality on which the BSA is founded is intimately related to Christian
morality. Likewise, the BSA would be more willing to tolerate a Pagan scout
leader who was willing to take a Unitarian stance than an atheist scout leader
(although I doubt they'd be pleased with either -- I recall them banning an
atheist boy scout for refusing to pledge under God, as Mary suggests).
Regardless of its name, the BSA is and has always been an ecumenical
organization with some degree of emphasis on Christian values. Homoesuxality
is a sin, according to many Christians. So homosexuals are unwelcome as role
models. Simple.
If I had a child of Boy Scout age, and there were a boy's organization like
BSA whose local leader was a hard-driving alcoholic, I'd be loath to let my
son join the group. I can see the reasoning. Just because *I* don't happen
to think that gay men make poor role models, I can empathize with that
position. The BSA's stance does not requiring thinking anything about
homosexuality or homosexuals beyond "God said it was bad."
As already stated, the Supreme Court ruled that, as a private organization
with an emphasis on moral development, the BSA is free to set moral criteria
for selecting or rejecting leadership. And if you don't agree, you're welcome
to avoid the BSA (as Mary describes). Difference of opinion. Life goes on.
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tod
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response 24 of 174:
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Sep 28 22:56 UTC 2000 |
My mom was a Den Mother for our Cub Scout Troop. I don't remember
anythint Xtian happening. If anything, there was just alot of stupid
American Indian stereotyping in the rituals. And for sure, there
was a fag amongst the group and no one gave a shit.
I don't know what the big deal is other than a bunch of wimp ass Boy Scout
parents are afraid of their kids getting confused and mistakenly ass fucking
each other or some other stupid horse shit. Those parents should be
mailed to the 700 Club studios for a few episodes and leave alone the
little organizations that try to happen without the political posturing
of the 90's and 2000. No one cares if you are a fag or black or make
minimum wage, so stop trying to wave that banner. And no one gives a shit
if you're a parent that's afraid of your kid being gay or wanting
to wear dresses. Fer crying out loud, it's a kid club. Not a brain washing
session. Leave it alone and let the kids have some organized fun.
I wish all those uptight parents would leave their posturing at the
door and let ALL the kids get along, and let ALL the parents get
involved.
That whole anti-gay thing is stupid and destructive. Those parents will
go to their graves with some hate on their shoulders for a dumb reason.
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mcnally
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response 25 of 174:
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Sep 29 00:31 UTC 2000 |
I was listening to NPR the other day while stuck in traffic and they
had a call-in show devoted to the issue of religion in the schools..
One of the guests was a preacher from Oklahoma who kept talking about
how, due to the decision forbidding school-sponsored prayer before
football games, his "rights" were being taken away.. When pressed
by the host to name the rights he was talking about, the guest sputtered
something about how "we've always done this.."
That may (or more likely, may not) be true, but he was missing the
point (it seemed to me like he missed the point quite a bit, actually,
and I would not have chosen this particular person to speak for his
point of view unless I were setting out to stack the deck, but this
was NPR, so who knows..) As public opinion in this country shifts
(as it IS slowly shifting towards more tolerance of homosexuality..)
behaviors which have "always been" practiced are being re-examined by
a public that doesn't necessarily feel the same way about them anymore.
Some organizations are changing their positions to reflect the new reality
of public opinion. Depending on which side of the issue you personally
stand on, this is either graceful acceptance of the will of their membership
or craven catering to political correctness. Other organizations, including
the Boy Scouts, are sticking fast to their positions (or at least some of
them.)
The thing is, that though I believe the leadership of most of these
organizations know on which side of public opinion they stand, the
rank-and-file of many seem to be feeling completely blindsided by some
of the changes that have come about. Many are reacting with the "you're
taking away our rights" defense, founded upon the "but we've always done
that" reasoning, not realizing that "we've always done that" isn't a
guarantee that the rest of society won't change their minds about whether
they're "always" going to go along..
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As far as my personal opinions are concerned, I think that the upper
leadership in the Scouts organization are fighting the wrong battle.
I think this is actually an issue that is not much of a practical threat
to Scouting and is also not an issue on which Scouts and their parents
are solidly behind the leadership. By taking a very hardline stance on
the issue, the organization may be costing itself goodwill and prestige
that it will take years and years to rebuild..
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anderyn
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response 26 of 174:
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Sep 29 01:05 UTC 2000 |
Mcnally and brighn had some great points. I do think that the Boy Scouts,
as a private organization, does have the right to formulate its own
entrance requirements, even for adult volunteers, although this particular
requirement does seem hurtful. I also think that it has to deal with the fact
that some sources of funding will not support their views. I don't know that
I think that the public schools should *ban* the Boy Scouts, given that the
organization does do good, but they also don't have to be associated with
them.
Oh. Yeah. Bruce does *not* think that homosexuals are pedophiles. I know this.
I am, after all, married to him, and can thwak him if I think he's being too
Neanderthal.
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richard
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response 27 of 174:
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Sep 29 01:12 UTC 2000 |
The city of new york has an ordinance prohibiting discrimination against
anyone on the basisof race, sex, sexual orientation,or religious beliefs.
What this means is that if you work for the city of new york orusecity
facilities yoiu cannot discriminate. Therefore, regardlessof whether the
supreme court has saidits legal for the boy scouts to discrminate agailnst
gays, they cannot under thelocal law discrminate in acity facility.
The city treats homosexual discrimination exactly like racism. Therefore
if it would not condone a racially exclusive organization organizing
initsschools, it cannot condone a group that is exclusive asto sexual
orientation.
They would get sued otherwise and rightfully be accused of hyporcisy.
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birdy
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response 28 of 174:
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Sep 29 01:15 UTC 2000 |
Pardon me if I'm wrong, but doesn't the Supreme Court override local courts?
Civics class was a loooooong time ago. =)
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mcnally
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response 29 of 174:
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Sep 29 01:51 UTC 2000 |
re #28: They do when they choose to (I guess that's what makes them
so Supreme) but only overrule to the extent that they say.
What was suggested at the beginning of this article (#0 or #1, I can't
recall offhand) was that the Supreme Court has ruled that the Scouts
"do not discriminate." Actually, what the Court said was more along
the lines of "yeah, they discriminate, but that's their prerogative,
they are not discriminating *illegally*", underscoring the Scouts'
rights, as a private group, to freely associate (or not) with whomever
they choose. Essentially what the Court said is that it would be wrong
for the government (any government) to compel a private organization
like the Scouts to accept members or leaders that they didn't want.
As much as I think the Scouts are being boneheaded about this, I couldn't
agree more with the Court's decision that the government should keep its
nose out of who can and can't be a member of private organizations.
However, athough they're safe from being forced to admit members whom
they do not consider "morally straight", this still leaves the Scouts
with a problem. To a much greater extent than many other private
organizations, Scouting is dependent on public support for its continued
existence. If this were a case about one of those reprehensible country
clubs which doesn't allow black or Jewish members, the Court's decision
would be enough to more or less settle the matter because the club would
not be dependent on public facilities or private charity so it wouldn't
matter to them what the officials who oversaw the facilities or the
private citizens and foundations who donate money thought.. However, in
many places, Scouting *is* very dependent on the use of public facilities
and they're very, very dependent on funds from charitable organizations
like United Way, so even though they're not going to be compelled directly
by the state to accept members they don't want, they still have to face
the music when it comes to the other parties they may have alienated by
making a stand on this issue.
I personally find it troubling when groups are included or excluded from
meetings in public or public-owned facilities (schools, parks, libraries,
community centers, etc..) based on the political characteristics of the
group. I think that kicking the Scouts out of NYC school facilities is
a bad decision and that what schools faced with this issue should do is
to either allow no outside groups to use their facilities or else offer
them on the exact same basis to anyone who asks, but that's not the way
it's done in most places.
What's going to be particularly hard for the Scouts to get over is that
in many places, thanks largely to a long history in many communities,
they've enjoyed preferential treatment unavailable to many other groups
and now they're going from having very cozy relationships with schools
and cities all over the country to being an awkward embarrassment to many
of those same schools and cities. In a few places people are overreacting
pretty substantially and treating the Scouts like some sort of pariah
organization.
Any disinterested observer who's watched the accusations and allegations
fly in other recent high-profile discrimination battles could have predicted
this as an inevitable outcome of the Scout's decision to take a stand but
I'm not sure that the Scouts really truly understood what they were getting
into when they chose to fight this battle.. I suspect that most Scouting
leaders were counting on decades of goodwill and a squeaky-clean image to
protect them from the inevitable mudslinging -- if so, they were foolishly
overconfident and overreliant on the relationships they had built over the
years, especially when the people they're most dependent on, local
government officials and corporate leaders, are so averse to divisive
controversy. They probably also didn't count on the added backlash that
springs from public loathing of hypocrisy, real or perceived. I doubt that
an organization that didn't spend a lot of time promoting its diversity
would have faced the same public backlash. Try imagining people getting
indignant upon finding that the junior DAR auxiliary doesn't accept
everyone and you'll understand what I mean..
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richard
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response 30 of 174:
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Sep 29 03:30 UTC 2000 |
just becuase the supreme court says boy scouts can discriminate against
homosexuals,doesnt mean they can force state and local governments to let
them in their facilities/domains. That is a state issue,and if the new
york boy scouts want to go to the new york state supreme court and
challenge the city ordinance they can. That ordinance was voted onby city
voters and is not a constitutional issue. It is not unconstitutionalin any
way to have laws that ban discrimination in public facilities. They wont
let the boy scouts in public schools in nyc now for the same reason they
wont allow the KKK to hold meetings there.
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mcnally
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response 31 of 174:
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Sep 29 04:28 UTC 2000 |
Would they let ACT-UP meet there?
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flem
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response 32 of 174:
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Sep 29 04:51 UTC 2000 |
I don't have much of a feeling for the status of Scouting on a national scale,
but I can't escape the impression that the group of Scouts I've been
associated with has significantly changed its emphasis in the time I've known
them. When I was a kid, the troop had a wide range of ages. A fairly
high standard of discipline was maintained *by the older kids*, who
pretty much were in charge of things, within reason. Emphasis was
on (friendly) competition, athletics, and occasionally education. It was
very much like what I'd imagine a relaxed sort of junior paramilitary group
would be like. Now, it's pretty much a social club for Christian kids.
There's a lot less diversity in age. There is basically a small group
of early high-school aged kids and a bunch of much younger kids.
The older kids kind of loaf around and do their best to avoid any kind
of responsibility or work, leaving the business of running the troop
to the adults, who are very active. (I'd go so far as to say too active.)
The adults, good Christians to a man, are careful to keep a religious
overtone to just about everything that happens, and the kids who stay
are the ones who are comfortable with this.
It's probably a useful group, and a positive influence on the kids, but
it sure ain't what I remember from the good old days. :)
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birdy
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response 33 of 174:
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Sep 29 06:18 UTC 2000 |
I've been getting that feeling, too. My brother was a Cub Scout but elected
not to join the Boy Scouts since it was "too much like church youth group".
He enjoyed youth group, but he felt the Scouts should be more about general
life lessons and the practical things they earn badges for. He wanted to
learn how to be a lifeguard and go camping and use a compass, but without
referring to Bible passages first. (his quote) He believes in God but also
believes God has a time and place. If the Boy Scouts want to take that route,
then they need a slightly different name. People wouldn't be so shocked if
they were renamed "God's Little Campers" or something. ;-)
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scg
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response 34 of 174:
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Sep 29 06:27 UTC 2000 |
I was in the cub scouts for a year. They met in my elementary school lunch
room after school, had their bigger meetings in the cafeteria of the local
middle school, and recruited by having teachers hand out flyers in class.
If they weren't school affiliated, they sure fooled me. I enjoyed it at
first, going through the activities to get the merit badge for the year.
There was stuff about learning how to grocery shop, some stuff on bike safety,
a bunch of nature study stuff, stuff about doing good deeds for other people,
and so forth. Then they got to the religious section, where some of the
requirements included getting information from people at whatever church you
went to, and not going to any church, I felt completely lost there. I didn't
return the next year.
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bru
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response 35 of 174:
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Sep 29 13:52 UTC 2000 |
If it bears a christian overtone, is it because the unit you see is sponsored
by a church? Admittedly, I haven't been involved with boy scouts for ten
years, but it is hard to believe they could have changed at the national level
that much. There have always been religious badges, but they were for every
religion. Yep, they even had one for lutherans.
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scott
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response 36 of 174:
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Sep 29 13:59 UTC 2000 |
"...brave, clean, reverent."
I suspect religious content is at the whim of the leadership, most of whom
are the parents. The troop I was in met in a church, but we spent most of
our time camping.
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brighn
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response 37 of 174:
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Sep 29 14:52 UTC 2000 |
When I was a Boy Scout, the emphasis was on dorking around, going camping,
and playing dodge ball.
Personally, I see a lot more usefulness to the Cub Scouts than to the Boy
Scouts, and it's too bad that this controversy affects the Cubs as well.
And here's a sentence you won't see often: I agree with Richard. The SC's
decision doesn't infringe on local schools (or any public resources)
restricting BSA use of facilities. IF anything, the BSA have positioned
themselves as a pseudo-church, and should be treated as such... meaning no
school grounds in areas with bans on letting churches use schools grounds.
That DOES affect the Boy Scouts more than the Cub Scouts, since (in my
experience) the latter tend to meet in homes, while the former meets in
schools -- at least, that's the way it worked in my neck of the woods when
I was a kid. I think it's because the Cubs tended to be run by Den Mothers,
who (in the little conservative dreamworld) are more comfortable in the home,
and the Boy Scouts tended to be run by fathers, who (in that same dreamworld)
are more comfortable outside the home.
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albaugh
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response 38 of 174:
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Sep 29 16:04 UTC 2000 |
So much disinformation, so little time. Sigh. Anyway, I can speak from
direct recent knowledge as the father of sons in both Cub scouts and Boy
scouts. Go to the scout web site if you want to know exactly what it is that
scouting stands for.
First: Schools do not "sponsor" scout packs/troops. The sponsoring
organizations are churches and service groups (e.g. Kiwanis). Scouts *do*
of course meet frequently *at* schools, because, duh, most of the scouts in
the particular group attend those schools. Scouts also meet at churches and
elsewhere, depending on what is most convenient.
Second: Scouting definitely does contain an explicit religious component.
The founder was a Christian, so in the USA, most groups will be largely
composed of Christians. But all religions and denominations that believe in
[a] God are welcomed. If you want to form a militant atheist scout group,
then yes, you're out of luck. Part of the scout oath is "doing one's duty
to God and one's country". Scary stuff, that. :-p How much emphasis is
placed on religious activities will depend on each group's leadership.
But characterizing most scout groups as little more than Christian youth
groups is a ridiculous distortion.
Third: That most Cub scout packs are led by women is flatly inaccurate. And
it is non sequitor anyway.
Fourth: The United Way branches that no longer support scouting are led by
morons.
Fifth: As far as homosexuality not violating any of the 10 commandments:
"Thou shall not commit adultery." Adultery is any sex that does not occur
between husband and wife. That includes premarital sex (sometimes referred
to as fornication), and "cheating". If someone could be "legally" married
to a family member and/or someone underage, then in those cases incest and
pedophilia wouldn't technically be adultery, I suppose. But in the biblical
view there is no way for homosexuals to be married, so any sex they have must
necessarily be adultery. You don't have to agree with it, but you can't try
to dodge around the definition to say no commandment was broken.
Sixth: Given that scouting includes godliness, and there is no religion that
can condone practicing homosexuality, then trying to be a practicing
homosexual is incompatible to participation in scouting. Sure, there are
undoubtedly scouts and leaders that are not "out". That is true of other
situations (clergy, military, etc.), and is a matter between the individual
and his conscience.
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brighn
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response 39 of 174:
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Sep 29 16:22 UTC 2000 |
First: Whatever. I didn't see this claim, but then, I may have missed it.
Second: For my part, I characterized the BSA as a pseudochurch, which is
different from a "Christian youth group." I'm not sure whose comments you were
responding to, though.
Third: Every Cub Scout troop in my neighborhood when I was growing up was run
by women. Every one. The Webelos troop and all the Boy Scout troops were run
by men. *shrug* I don't know what the national averages are. And if it's a
non-sequitor, why comment on it?
Fourth: That's opinion, not fact. Unless you have IQ tests on file...?
Fifth: That's opinion, too, actually. Do we really want to go into the
hackneyed conversation of, "The Bible wasn't written in English, and all the
translations are faulty in some way"? Also, cite where in the bible it says
that two men (or two women) can't be married... I'm interested in where that
could be found. Sure, we COULD have a biblical discussion on the Sin of
Homosexuality, but that's hackneyed too. In short, one MAY make an argument
that homosexual acts (but not homosexuality itself) violates one of the
Commandments. Of course, if you go back and read your bible carefully, you'll
find that adultery isn't in the final set of Commandments that Moses receives
anyway... those are the dietary laws, mostly. ;}
Sixth deserves a couple of spaces.
OH MY GOD! How can ANYONE be so BLINDERED as to say "There is no religion that
can condone practicing homosexuality"? You want a few? first off, there's a
growing contingent of Christians who believe that homosexuality is not a sin.
Second off, *MY* religion (Wicca) says that not only is there nothing WRONG
with homosexuality, it's perfectly 100% okiedokie acceptable.
So sod off with your fundie bias, dude.
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jazz
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response 40 of 174:
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Sep 29 17:36 UTC 2000 |
Re #38:
As simply as I can put it, the definition you're offering, while it
may be currently valid, wasn't valid at the time of writing and doesn't fit
with the concept translated in most versions of the bible as "adultery", which
concerns only the violation of the marital bond. That definition of adultery
also includes re-marrying after abuse or abandonment (neither of which is
covered in scripture as a valid reason for breaking the marriage covenant)
or anyone who happens to marry a non-Christian (2nd Corinthians). The
Biblical concept of adultery doesn't apparently cover (in some cases),
extramarital sex with non-Jewish (and one would then presume non-Christian)
women, nor does it cover polygamous marriage! (Genesis)
The old Biblical concept of adultery doth seem a might strange to my
eyes.
There are prohibitions outside of the TCs against homosexuality (and
apparently only male homosexuality, and not female) but they appear in a
context which, if used to prohibit something, would open a floodgate of other
potential prohibitions, including Kashrut law.
I believe it's also safe to say that the majority of the people on this
Earth don't believe in the Baal-El-YHVH-Jehovah diety, so the statement that
the Scouts accept anyone who "believes in a god" doesn't sit terribly well
with me as an example of tolerance and open-mindedness.
All of which is fine. If you wish to have a group that teaches these
values, then all of the power in the world to you, especially if you include
a healthy ration of community service, as the Scouts do. However, you're not
welcome to any of my tax money if a part of your community service is teaching
discrimination or prejudice.
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tod
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response 41 of 174:
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Sep 29 17:42 UTC 2000 |
Why does religion have to be involved with BSA?
It should be about the kids and having them get involved and some
adult attention.
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