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response 157 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 22 23:29 UTC 2003

Apparently a right-wing group has filed a lawsuit, based on the Michigan 
1996 Defense of Marriage Act, against the Ann Arbor Public Schools 
because of their provision of health benefits to same sex partners, which 
the plaintiffs claim equates those relationships with marriage in 
violation of the law.

So, the fucking idiots will eat into the already strained resources of 
the school system just because they know that the schools might concede 
the point rather than engage in a protracted and expensive court fight.
tod
response 158 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 22 23:41 UTC 2003

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other
response 159 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 00:04 UTC 2003

I didn't say they weren't.  And I don't agree that what they're wasting 
money to stop is indeed a waste.  I believe it is an investment in 
improving the quality of the education available to students in the AAPS.
bru
response 160 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 01:57 UTC 2003

It is indeed a waste on from both sides.

If they are going to extend domestic partnerships, they shoulkd offer it to
everyone, no matter their orientation or situation, or just give it to those
people who are married.
i
response 161 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 02:50 UTC 2003

(Re:  #154/155/etc.
Start with the Code of Canon Law of the Roman Catholic Church, Book 4, 
Part 1, Title 7, Chapter 3, Can. 1084.

If you prefer, i can use 'Christian (sic)' instead of '"Christian"'.
Would you view either 'People's Democratic Republic (sic)' or
'"People's Democratic Republic"' as valid (if editorial) usages in
the context of a Stalinist dictatorship?)
tod
response 162 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 04:53 UTC 2003

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rcurl
response 163 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 06:13 UTC 2003

The extension of health and other benefits to domestic partners would make
most sense if such partnerships were also legally recognized in Michigan.
It makes sense for married couples because of the legal rights and
responsibilities between such couples. This would also be the case with
same-sex married couples. Therefore an objective should be the adoption
of a Michigan law equivalent to Vermont's and California's, creating
unisex marriages. 
mcnally
response 164 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 07:41 UTC 2003

  re #161:  are you talking about the same Canon 1084 that specifically
  states:  "Without prejudice to the provisions of can. 1098, sterility
  neither forbids nor invalidates a marriage"?  [We began this rather
  pointless digression when Walter posed the question 'Don't several
  "Christian" religious groups forbid heterosexual marriage in cases
  where the couple wouldn't be able to have children' and I expect from
  his decision to introduce Roman Catholic Canon Law to support his
  point he believes the Catholic Church to be one of the "Christian"
  groups he has in mind.]

  As to your latter point, whatever it may be, whether you write it as
  ' "Christian" ' (with scare quotes) or 'Christian (sic)' I still don't
  understand what you're trying to imply, unless it's that Roman Catholicism
  isn't legitimately Chrstian by your own personal definition.  If that's 
  where you're going with this I'm willing to concede ahead of time that
  I'm not at all interested in debating you over your own private usage rules.
gull
response 165 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 13:41 UTC 2003

Re #147: Bru, any comment on whether they'd be guilty of a crime if they
lied on their customs forms by indicating they were single?  This
strikes me as a bit of a catch-22 situation.

Re #149: Me too.  But on the other hand, they did overturn Texas's
anti-sodomy law.  (Which surprised me.)

Re #162: Does their policy favor homosexual partnerships over other
partnerships?  It seems to me they're just elevating partnership
relationships to the same status as marriages, which is of course what
the lawsuit is about.  The fair thing to do, of course, would be to
simply not provide health benefits to anyone except the employee.  This
would save even more money in the budget you're so concerned about.
slynne
response 166 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 14:03 UTC 2003

It seems to me that an employer should be able to compensate their 
employees anyway they wish. Gull is right of course that the only 
really fair thing is to simply not provide health insurance benefits to 
anyone except the employee. Otherwise married people end up with total 
compensation packages that are greater than those for single people. In 
other words, they end up being paid more. 

remmers
response 167 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 15:04 UTC 2003

"...an employer should be able to compensate their employees anyway
they wish."  For example, by giving less compensation to non-Caucasians
for the same work?
tod
response 168 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 15:31 UTC 2003

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slynne
response 169 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 17:00 UTC 2003

re#167 - good point. Employers should compensate all employees who do 
the same work equally. Which does make me think that maybe it is just 
better for employers to stop offering health insurance to spouses/live 
in partners etc. Either that or they can say that the employee is 
covered as well as any one other person that employee chooses to have 
on their insurance. 

Tod says in resp:168 - "Giving benefits to one particular group of
"partners" without providing to all "partnerships" is favoritism. "

So if they offer benefits to spouses (which is just one particular 
group of "partners") then it wouldnt be fair to not extend the benefit 
to any other partnerships such as same sex domestic partners. 
tod
response 170 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 17:30 UTC 2003

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slynne
response 171 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 18:00 UTC 2003

Offering benefits to spouses effectively means that married people get 
paid more money than single people or people living in domestic 
partnerships. 
tod
response 172 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 18:01 UTC 2003

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anderyn
response 173 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 18:11 UTC 2003

I had to pay for my extra coverage (for Bruce and kids) for the whole time
I've had health insurance. When I finally took Bruce off it this year, I went
from paying $60 plus/week to only $19/week for my health insurance. Why is
that unfair to my coworkers, since if they were single, they would have been
paying the $19/week all along  (or whatever the current price was over the
last twenty years)? 
mynxcat
response 174 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 18:17 UTC 2003

I think what they mean is when insurance ispaid for by the employer. That's
when it's unfair, when the spouse is covered in the policy also. Single people
do not have this benefit. 
rcurl
response 175 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 18:23 UTC 2003

I think that there is confusion over "providing health care to spouses". 
This can be simply including them in the same group health insurance plan
but still charging for the extra persons (as anderyn illustrates). The
most important part of company health insurance plans is the creation of a
"group" - of mostly healthy (i.e., gainfully employed) workers. This
reduces considerably the actual costs to the insurer (and company).

other
response 176 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 18:27 UTC 2003

Does anyone KNOW whether the benefit is for all domestic partnerships or 
just for homosexual ones?  I strongly suspect that anyone assuming the 
latter is doing so without any evidence, despite the illogical nature of 
the assumption.
tod
response 177 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 18:58 UTC 2003

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mynxcat
response 178 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 19:01 UTC 2003

Which then gives rise to the question- when do domestic partners of homosexual
couples get to the point where they're considered a spouse? And if this
distinction isn't there, this is unfair to single heterosexual people in
live-ni relationships.
tod
response 179 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 19:09 UTC 2003

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mynxcat
response 180 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 19:14 UTC 2003

Or they should allow homosexual marriages, so there's a strong distinction
between a gay spouse and a gay live-in lover.
slynne
response 181 of 191: Mark Unseen   Sep 23 19:56 UTC 2003

Of course if we had a national health care system where everyone was 
covered, none of this would be an issue. 
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