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25 new of 424 responses total.
aruba
response 155 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 14 02:51 UTC 2004

I think if you invest a lot of time in something you write, you should save
a copy yourself and not expect that Grex will always be publishing it for
you.
richard
response 156 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 14 03:02 UTC 2004

I disagree Aruba, Grex keeps its old conferences online.  Up until now, any
user should have had the reasonable expectation that their posts would stay
posted for so long as Grex maintains its current conferencing system and
policies against deleting old conferences.  This isn't about users being
able to have their own copies of items and posts, its about users
taking the time and effort to post thinking their comments would remain
publicly posted, and then having other users delete their posts to protect
their own personal interests.  Its a matter of fairness and not letting
one user impose their needs or rights over the needs and rights of others.
aruba
response 157 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 14 03:07 UTC 2004

Do you expect that Grex will exist forever?  Do you expect there never to
be a disk crash?  Do you think you have a right to always expect that
there will be people willing to do the increasingly crappy job of
administering Grex, when all they are paid in is vitiol?

If it's important to you, if it's such a magnificent work of art, you
should keep a copy.
richard
response 158 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 14 03:16 UTC 2004

no aruba of course not, but expectations regarding staff and grex's hardware
are one thing.  Expectations of what individual users will do is quite
another.  Users posting to Grex have every right to expect that staff will
enforce grex's principles of being an open bbs and won't allow other users
to delete their posts over their own personal issues.  
bhoward
response 159 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 14 10:20 UTC 2004

It was a staff member that did the deleting, not a user.
aruba
response 160 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 14 12:53 UTC 2004

But the point is, Richard, you keep saying that your valuable work has been
ripped away from you.  If it was so valuable, why didn't you keep a copy?
remmers
response 161 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 14 13:08 UTC 2004

No, Grex doesn't have an obligation to publish people's writings forever.
Conferences are restarted; old conferences might need to be taken offline
to free up disk space.

But those things should be done with reasonable notice, so that people have
an opportunity to save what they want to keep.  That was not the case with
the items under discussion.
naftee
response 162 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 14 14:31 UTC 2004

re 157 As was stated before, this isn't a case of a conference being retired.
There was no hardware-related issue that caused the items to be deleted.
aruba
response 163 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 14 15:04 UTC 2004

Disk crashes don't happen with advanced notice.
carson
response 164 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 14 15:32 UTC 2004

(disk crashes [usually] aren't retrievable, either, yet every effort is 
made to restore when that happens, right?)
aruba
response 165 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 14 15:40 UTC 2004

Whenever you put anything on Grex, you are trusting the staff not to delete
it.  That's the simple truth.  Grex exists only because of this trust.

I make no excuses for what Valerie did.  I'm pretty angry at her for it. 
Not because I think the text in the items she deleted was essential to
Grex, but because she damaged the relationship of trust between the users
and the staff.  I think the loss of her, and of all her past responses, is
a much bigger blow to Grex than the loss of 6 items.

But you can pass all the resolutions in the world - make a rule against
deleting anything, restore the items that were deleted - whatever.  It's not
going to change the fact that you *have* to trust the staff if you put
anything you think is valuable on Grex.

I'm starting to think that maybe I made a mistake, all these years, trying
to be consciencious about Grex's finances.  I think maybe I gave people
the incorrect impression that they should expect Grex to be run like a
professional organization.  And thus they feel righteous indignation when
it turns out not to be so.

We all feel betrayed - that's what this is all about for those of us who
give a damn.  (There are others here who are just playing games - I don't
care what it's about for them.)  We learned that one of our staffers was
human, and had a limit to how much abuse she could take before she cracked
and did something bad.  I guess that's a hard lesson to learn - kind of
like a little kid finding out his parents aren't gods after all. 

Keep in mind that the only reasons to do work for Grex are a) out of a
sense of duty and obligation, b) because one feels appreciated and
useful, and c) because one believes in the charitable mission of Grex. 

When Grex seems to be mostly a forum for people yelling at each other,
it's hard to believe in the charitable mission.  So if one doesn't feel
appreciated, that leaves only a sense of duty, which will only get you so
far.  Because we all have duties to lots of different things.

So keep in mind, when you're making rules and demands that basically say,
"we can't trust the staff", that you *have* to trust the staff.  The only
alternative is to never put anything valuable on Grex.  And if all anyone
ever put on Grex was crap, what would be the point in keeping it going?
other
response 166 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 14 16:35 UTC 2004

Damn!  They ARE turning Grex into M-Net!
jp2
response 167 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 14 16:51 UTC 2004

This response has been erased.

keesan
response 168 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 14 17:39 UTC 2004

My primary purpose in posting to jep's items was to help jep. If he thinks
it will help him to delete my postings, that is fine with me.  Are there
people who posted there for some reason other than to help jep?
If not, why would they object to having the entire items deleted?
Valerie's items are a different case and I think the non-Valerie parts of it
could be restored without hurting anyone.  But if they make her feel bad, I
also think people should be willing to delete them.
But not required to do so.
cyklone
response 169 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 14 17:53 UTC 2004

My posts in jep's item were not just for his benefit but for others in similar
situations. I object vehemently to their removal. However, I would probably
be willing to edit any portions that contain quotes ascribed to him, if in
fact I did so.
slynne
response 170 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 14 18:11 UTC 2004

I dont think they'll be of much benefit to anyone after jep's posts and 
the posts of those people who are willing to have them removed have 
been purged from it. 

I would really hope that you would reconsider your position about 
voluntarily removing your posts. Sure, your position that things you 
wrote shouldnt be removed without permission is totally correct. I 
completely agree with you on that. However, there are real people 
involved here. And even though their reactions might seem extreme, I 
still think that there is no harm in respecting their wishes here. 

Perhaps you would consider deleting your posts from jep's divorce item 
and then re-posting them into an item of their own that doesnt 
reference jep's particular case. That way it really can be a benefit 
for others in a similar situation. I dont remember specifically what 
you wrote, cyklone, but I seem to remember that you did have some good 
things to say. 
naftee
response 171 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 14 23:55 UTC 2004

re 165
>take before she cracked
Patently false.  She was not crazy or psychotic with anger when she deleted
those items.  In fact, her husband was more angry about it than she was.  Read
the items and do some research, for a change.

re 166 There are plenty of users who ouse both systems, dipshit.
gull
response 172 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 15 02:07 UTC 2004

I can't even remember if I ever posted anything to jep's items.

I think if none of this had happened and jep had asked me to scribble my 
responses because he thought they were damaging, I probably would have.  
So if they items are restored and he asks me to do so, I'll consent to 
have my responses removed.
jp2
response 173 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 15 03:29 UTC 2004

This response has been erased.

naftee
response 174 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 15 03:39 UTC 2004

#171 "ouse" should read "use".
slynne
response 175 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 15 16:11 UTC 2004

resp:173 Yes, it promotes self censorship which is ok as far as I am 
concerned. I think the real reason you dont like that solution is that 
it solves the problem in a fair way. 
jp2
response 176 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 15 16:44 UTC 2004

This response has been erased.

slynne
response 177 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 15 17:13 UTC 2004

The proposal in #0 specifically says that individuals should be given 
control over their own posts. 
from resp:0 -
"...these items be restored from back up tapes and individual posters 
be presented with the opportunity to decide for themselves if they wish 
to scribble their posts."

I am merely asking cyklone to scribble his own posts in the jep divorce 
item. Not only that though, I am also asking him to save his posts and 
enter them as a seperate item because I agree with him that what he 
wrote very well may be helpful to someone else. 
naftee
response 178 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 16 02:43 UTC 2004

Wait, if you can't get a staff member to write a simple script, how the hell
do you expect a user of GreX to go through all that work?
remmers
response 179 of 424: Mark Unseen   Jan 19 15:40 UTC 2004

<donning my voteadm hat...>

Since this proposal was made 10 days ago, it's appropriate to review
the timelines and procedures regarding voting on it.

There's a two-week discussion period prior to any vote.  After that,
the proposer may post a final wording and ask that it be voted on,
or may elect not to bring it to a vote.  The vote takes place over
a period of 10 days.  The proposal passes if a majority of those
members who vote cast a ballot in favor.

The earliest that voting could begin on this proposal is January 23.
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