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nharmon
response 12 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 16 00:52 UTC 2006

Yeah, I don't think a majority of people have a problem with the
abstract idea of equality. However, in reality everyone disagrees with
the implementation. For example, would supporting affirmative action for
females be feminist, or anti-feminist?
edina
response 13 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 16 01:08 UTC 2006

Re 9  Yes, I'd be lonely and I'd miss Dave terribly.  Having done the whole
long-distance thing, I know what it feels like.

That being said, if he had to go, I'd support it and find other ways to fill
my time.  
furs
response 14 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 16 03:25 UTC 2006

slynne, except for 6 & 7, you should marry bignasty
naftee
response 15 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 16 04:19 UTC 2006

you should marry me, furs
khamsun
response 16 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 16 05:21 UTC 2006

btw, about "feminism", Chile gets a new president, who's a girl:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/4615802.stm

".......
President Michelle Bachelet also has a sound and experienced party
machine behind her, a strong mandate from the Chilean electorate to
govern and a fresh approach to a job that has traditionally been for men
only.
........."

a catholic-spaniard country, ie. supposed to be machist.

besides, it seems 1/2 of south America is slowly heading towards a
yuropean alike social-democracy political scheme.

Yanks still have in office the
bronco-ranchero-mission-accomplished-its-hard-work guy?
rcurl
response 17 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 16 06:41 UTC 2006

Quite a few US States have female governors, and quite a few US States are
larger than many other countries. 
mcnally
response 18 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 16 06:48 UTC 2006

 re #56:  if you want to talk about feminism and European-style government,
 why not enter an item on your thoughts about the Norwegian government's
 proposal to require Norwegian companies to radically change the makeup of
 their boards of directors to increase female membership?

slynne
response 19 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 16 15:03 UTC 2006

resp:14 But he is already married!!
jadecat
response 20 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 16 15:25 UTC 2006

re resp:11 Check out resp 112 in that item...


It looks like I did indeed post in that old item:

#12 of 219 by Anne Perry (anne) on Wed Mar 22 17:53:07 1995:

(this is now linked with oathbound, it's item #30)

What do I look for?  Hmm, someone I can care about, someone who can make
me laugh.  Who likes to spend time with me, and talk to me.  Someone who
gives back rubs... :)  Intelligence is a definite plus...



Hmm, with regard to the hubby- check, check, check, check, check and
check. ;) Though given our work schedules there really isn't enough time
to spend together. Though we do talk every night on the phone.


sholmes
response 21 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 16 16:32 UTC 2006

Someone who I can tolerate for atleast 20 years, after that time we might as
well fight a bit.
khamsun
response 22 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 17 05:06 UTC 2006

re #18:

<<if you want to talk about feminism and European-style government, why
not enter an item on your thoughts about the Norwegian government's
proposal to require Norwegian companies to radically change the makeup
of their boards of directors to increase female membership?>>where
foreigners are

(I am too lazy to enter items...)
Yes, the norse and others will reach parity in the business, macho
controlled microcosm.If only Dubya was able to read a map and find
Norway on it, he would launch an Operation-Norway-Freedom
Mission-To-be-Accomplished to save the norse from such a socialist
evil...

then rcurl (Re: #17)will shut my mouth down with a:
quite a few US companies have a female CEO, and quite a few US companies
are bigger than your silly small stinking foreign company out over there


:-D

bhelliom
response 23 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 17 07:55 UTC 2006

I don't think there's a perfect one out there, but rather a number of
men who would be compatible.  I have yet to meet them, mind you...
kingjon
response 24 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 17 11:59 UTC 2006

Re #23:

Perhaps, but I believe that if I marry anyone at all I will marry only one
person -- my "ideals" are what I hope she will be like.

keesan
response 25 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 17 23:11 UTC 2006

Do you think you are close to someone else's ideal?  To your own ideal?
kingjon
response 26 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 17 23:16 UTC 2006

To someone else's ideal -- probably not, but possibly.

To my own ideal -- distinctly not. (Not even of what I think I ought to be.)

tod
response 27 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 18 00:15 UTC 2006

re #23
Lemme know when you'll be in Seattle!  ;)
furs
response 28 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 18 00:48 UTC 2006

re #15 - lets move to utah and get married. :)
richard
response 29 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 18 01:47 UTC 2006

Statistically most marriages either fail, or devolve from romantic 
relationships to friendship relationships, where the marriage is kept 
together for convenience purposes. It is not uncommon for a husband and 
wife lose their "spark" and become "just friends" over time, but stay 
married for the benefit of their children or other family, or just out 
of convenience.

This idea that "romance" is supposed to last forever in a relationship 
is more often than not myth.    
rcurl
response 30 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 18 02:18 UTC 2006

Those would be the extreme possibilities in long marriages. There are many
shades between, as people can be very fond of and comfortable with each other
in various degrees, between the extremes you mention. 
furs
response 31 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 18 11:28 UTC 2006

re 29.  That's cause people are lazy and don't do anything about it.  
Gotta water the flowers.
jadecat
response 32 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 18 14:50 UTC 2006

Yup, only fairy tales end with 'And they lived happily ever after.'
marcvh
response 33 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 18 15:50 UTC 2006

Out of curiousity, what's the objective measurement for a married couple
becoming "just friends"?  Not buying flowers?  Separate bedrooms? 
Separate vacations?  Dating other people?
edina
response 34 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 18 16:05 UTC 2006

re 29  Are you married?
tod
response 35 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 18 18:01 UTC 2006

re #28
Psychadelic Griz!  LOL!  ;)
naftee
response 36 of 104: Mark Unseen   Jan 18 20:08 UTC 2006

lolol
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