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jf
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The virtual sex issue.
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Nov 22 13:57 UTC 1994 |
The Virtual/Real dilema.
I'm faced with this problem. My girlfriend and I are very close and
very open minded. But, I met this girl on a MUD and have a nice virtual
relationship. We like like the relationship a lot. I told my
girlfriend about it and she got mad at m (oops sorry, got mad at me.) I
sstoped talking to my girlfriend about
my virtual friend. Latelyy my V-friend and I got very intimate and made love.
Not one, but like 10 times up to now. Should I tell my girlfriend or keep it to
myself? (I even considered flying towards my V-friend state to arrange a
meeting.)----What would you do?
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brighn
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response 1 of 15:
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Nov 22 17:09 UTC 1994 |
If she's upset with the relationship, don't tell her.
And it might be extremely nice to break up the net relationship...
or to reconsider the real world one.
What would I do? Hard to tell. I have CyberSex and my wife doesn't care.
<brighn hates these question where he'd never been in that situation>
But if I were in that spot, I would reconsider the real world relationship,
and at least have a discussion about boundaries.
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daxs
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response 2 of 15:
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Nov 22 20:01 UTC 1994 |
I would tie her up and take it from there.
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peacefrg
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response 3 of 15:
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Nov 22 23:16 UTC 1994 |
Cybersex is the same as physical sex. The emotional bond isn't as large because
of the casualness, but it's the same principle. I wouldn't appreciate it if my
girlfriend were having cybersex.
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brighn
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response 4 of 15:
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Nov 23 03:36 UTC 1994 |
<brighn is doing the world a favor and tying daxs up and taking it from there>
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peacefrg
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response 5 of 15:
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Nov 23 14:20 UTC 1994 |
Like I said...
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jf
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response 6 of 15:
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Nov 23 14:41 UTC 1994 |
(-Laughing Bear) I think in my very persoothing to do with real sex.
Furthermore , if my girlfriend were having sex I will
be very pissed off, in the virtual environment, I would not. Why?
Because it is not real, is like watching a 3-d movie in your head!.
How many times have you fantazised about making love to someone else?
I think there's nothing wrong with it. The main problem now is how to
make my girlfriend understand that it is only in the mind?
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peacefrg
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response 7 of 15:
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Nov 23 19:10 UTC 1994 |
Yeah, Good point. But it can get out of hand sometimes.
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jf
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response 8 of 15:
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Dec 2 14:11 UTC 1994 |
(to: LOaughing Bear) You'rte right.There is where the game ends
and you start to get responsible for what happens next. I guess
it depends on the limits of one imagination/relity.
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peacefrg
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response 9 of 15:
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Dec 2 18:35 UTC 1994 |
But, when you have people on here who think nothng can come of it
who decides when it's past that point of no return?
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popcorn
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response 10 of 15:
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Dec 2 18:39 UTC 1994 |
This response has been erased.
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jf
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response 11 of 15:
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Dec 13 12:54 UTC 1994 |
(-Popcorn) Your response is one to admire.I agree with you all the way.
I don't plan to meet the people I know in the MUDS or in MOOS.
Basicly it is a way to know poeple and share their fantasy. What happens
in the virtual space stays there.What would you do if your boyfriend
were having V-sex with an elf? Weird isn't it? ;)
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godot
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response 12 of 15:
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Jan 27 07:03 UTC 1995 |
Weird weird weird... None thee less... I still think that cybersex... is
still virtual, (on the low end) I'd start worrying when it can escalate to
higher standards say VR headgear (and/or sex gear I don't know...) I think VS
is just and excuse to
masturbate... (albeit mentally) with someone else... hasn't anyone eveer
thought that the person they're having VSex with might happen to be of a
different sexual persuasion... (think about it) (Godot Rambles on....)
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randall
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response 13 of 15:
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Jan 28 05:02 UTC 1995 |
The future of technology. ANyone get the feeling that we may be pro-
gressing, technologically, into areas we have no right to be in.
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roget
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response 14 of 15:
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Apr 15 10:10 UTC 1995 |
Cybersex is sex. People have never been perfect and I feel it is up to the
individual how far they go and everyone must form their own opinion. it is
easier to fall in love, and pro.
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ewhisam
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response 15 of 15:
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Dec 28 03:28 UTC 1995 |
I would never make love over the internet
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