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Grex > Parenting > #93: Pre-Birthday Party for the Wolter-Mates baby | |
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mta
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Pre-Birthday Party for the Wolter-Mates baby
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Sep 3 19:31 UTC 1998 |
>OK, it's September now and Valerie and Jan are expecting their little one
in
>Decmeber. It time to start planning the shower. I think we should plan to
>have it in a restaurant if possible to accomodate as many Grexers as want
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>honour the Mates-Wolter family...besides, I'f offer my place but Valerie is
>allergic to my cat and this is no time to go taking allergie meds! ;)
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>So, Valerie and Jan, is this OK with you? What day this month or next is
good
>for you? Any favorite place you'd like us to select?
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>What I ahd in mind is a less than typical "shower", since I don't especially
>like those party games, and I suspect that lots of your guys would rather
not
>play either. ;) Just sort of a "pre-birthday party" with Mom and Dad as
>stand-ins for the little one as guests of honour...
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>First off, we need your OK to go ahead, oh guests of honour, and then I'll
>need a date and place -- and then some RSVP's.
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kami
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Sep 4 23:00 UTC 1998 |
Hmmm- I could offer my new house if we do it soon; the cats haven't been
allowed in yet.
Misti, thanks for thinking of it. great idea!
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valerie
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Sep 8 12:12 UTC 1998 |
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valerie
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Sep 8 13:55 UTC 1998 |
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mta
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response 4 of 22:
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Sep 8 16:15 UTC 1998 |
Only one -- but Valerie and Jan, I really think a lot of us Grexers
would love to celebrate your growing family with you...we won't as a
group if you really think four parties is too many for your available
time and energy, but if you're being modest please don't. Just
appreciate the fact that so many of us love the two (three) of you, OK?
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mta
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Sep 21 23:57 UTC 1998 |
>OK, we now have Valerie and Jan's official blessing to throw their baby a
>pre-birthday party. ;)
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>Between their move and my mother-in-law's current precarious health, I think
>we'd best give up on the idea of a picnic in the park, though. We will need
>to put this off long enough for the weather to be chancey.
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>I'm going to look into some possibilities for a location other than a park...
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>Please note that this is a pre-birthday party not a shower. ;)
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kami
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Sep 22 01:47 UTC 1998 |
I'd love to host it. I now have wood floors, so I can turf out the cats and
vacuum, and it should be "safe". The yard is nice, too, if the weather holds.
I'll be gone the weekend of Oct. 10, but other times should be ok.
Misti, hope your mother-in-law is ok. What's up?
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mta
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Sep 22 22:16 UTC 1998 |
I don't really know how to evaluate what's happening.
It makes me very unhappy that we're contacting attorneys funeral directors
and nursing homes, though.
Nancy is eating (slowly and with difficulty) soft foods like jello and apple
sauce. She seems to have lost some of the movement of her head that I was
so excitied about yesterday and her response time is slowing down. (Maybe
she was just tired?)
But her mind is quite sharp -- it's only the interface that seesm to be a
problem. She's still joking (anyone know where I can rent an anti-gravity
machine? It would make movement that much easier with only one arm and one
leg...) and thinking of thousands of chores and errands for Larry and I to
do.
Me? I'm more tired and more discouraged and disheartened than I ever rememebr
being in my life.
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i
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response 8 of 22:
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Sep 22 23:00 UTC 1998 |
The 8/22/98 issue of Science News describes a cell transplant treatment
for stroke that's shown great promise in rats and is starting trials in
humans. It uses cells from Layton BioScience, but considering the
potential market, there's probably dozens more research groups & bio-
tech companies chasing the same prize.
You've got a lot of learning ahead of you. Make sure you learn some
hopeful things along with all the dull & depressing stuff.
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mta
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response 9 of 22:
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Sep 23 05:01 UTC 1998 |
Meet me in a few weeks in Synthesis and we talk lessons. ;)
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kami
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response 10 of 22:
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Sep 23 17:20 UTC 1998 |
Misti- hugs available upon request...
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valerie
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Sep 23 21:32 UTC 1998 |
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mta
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response 12 of 22:
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Sep 23 22:39 UTC 1998 |
Valerie, John Morris entered an item for me in Agora. (If you were grepping
on my name in a new item, that's why you missed it...)
Nancy, my mother-in-law, had a massive, very serious, life changig stroke on
her 70th birthday -- last Sunday.
More in the appropriate item back in Agora... ;)
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valerie
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Sep 27 14:06 UTC 1998 |
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valerie
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Sep 27 14:07 UTC 1998 |
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mta
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Sep 30 03:03 UTC 1998 |
Thanks, valerie.
You seem to be busy on the 10th and the 18th of October. How does November
1st sound...? That obviates a picnic, but gives you a few days off after your
bust period -- but should be early enough not to have you off birthing
somewhere during the birthday party...
What say, everyone else?
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valerie
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Sep 30 15:41 UTC 1998 |
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mta
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response 17 of 22:
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Oct 1 23:24 UTC 1998 |
Sounds like November 1 is a go!
Now to find a location with neither smoke nor cats....
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garima
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response 18 of 22:
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Oct 23 04:54 UTC 1998 |
Hey, maybe I'll go to ANOTHER baby shower :).
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valerie
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Oct 24 02:21 UTC 1998 |
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mta
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Oct 24 18:13 UTC 1998 |
As far as I'
m concerend it's still on, Valerie -- we haven't found a place yet, so I'm
leaning toward Mr. Mugs or Gypsy Moon. Which do you prefer?
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valerie
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Oct 26 16:13 UTC 1998 |
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mta
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response 22 of 22:
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Oct 26 16:33 UTC 1998 |
OK, great, I'll make the announcement in Agora today...
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