mta
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A taste of Forshadowing as they grow.
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May 11 05:35 UTC 1993 |
This weekend gave me a little taste of forshadowing, I think. My eldest
had two events for which he needed to buy gifts...his teacher turned 40,
and one of his classmates was/had <?> bat-Mitzvah<ed> <?>. Now, in the
schoold he attendeds this was a matter of somewhat more import than it
would have been in public school since the teacher and students start
working together in Grade 1 and stay together until Grade 8. This people
are almost family to him.
So, he went out and bought roses with babies breath and a box of chocolates
for the teacher, and a lovely gold fill and "genuine cubic zirconia" rose
pendant necklace for his school mate. As he headed off on saturday in
his heather grey suit, I couldn't help but think of the sort of suitor
he will be, and of the day he'll make his true love his lifemate.
It was poignant, both sweet in that I saw a caring, generous young man
with a real sense of style starting to develop head out that door, and
sad because the little fellow who needed me so just a few years ago is
now so close to leaving me to make his way in the world.
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debra
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response 1 of 3:
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Jan 13 12:50 UTC 1995 |
what a wonderful story. Your son sounds like the kind of young man I'd like my
little guy(1 1/2 yrs) to become. I think it reflects a lot of credit on the
way you're raising him (and educating him) that he has become such a
thoughtful person. By the way, does he attend a Waldorf school? I'm
interested in hearing more about alternative modes of education, and maybe
you'd like to start an item about this sometime.
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simcha
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response 3 of 3:
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Jan 18 13:54 UTC 1995 |
You should be proud of yourself as well as of your son for instilling
caring values. Reminds me of what a friend told me when my son was
born: She said always treasure the wildflowers and weeds he
brings you as a toddler, and he'll learn to bring flowers to
mom, girlfrind, wife...Of course, that goes much deeper than merely
flowers, as your son's behavior shows.
It's all what you reinforce.
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