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sun
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How Much is Too much?
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Jan 15 21:31 UTC 1995 |
Well, we seem ed to be getting off track, so here we go...
This item is about how far do the bounds of friendship go? When is
enough too much? How do you deal with this?
Come on, guys?!!? What do you think?!?!
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gerund
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response 1 of 117:
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Jan 15 22:13 UTC 1995 |
Enough is enough when it's enough for you.
People have limits, and if we cross limits.. well... we've crossed them.
For me...
Friendship never dies...
I can say a lot, even believe a lot to the contrary
but when it comes down to it I can never 'end' a friendship
at least not in my mind. Not if I ever called someone friend.
Sometimes lines are crossed, and when they are crossed things can
never be the same... even between friends.
How do you deal?
I guess you forgive and hope you are forgiven and
realize things will never be the same ever between you and hope that
both of you can somehow still hold on to what made you
friends in the first place even if now you are distant.
that's what i think
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avi
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response 2 of 117:
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Jan 15 22:17 UTC 1995 |
You have no right to live until you've found a reason to die for.
A very wise man once said that. Name him and you're cool. =)
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gerund
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response 3 of 117:
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Jan 15 22:25 UTC 1995 |
Avi Pai?
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avi
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response 4 of 117:
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Jan 15 22:30 UTC 1995 |
No. I'll give you a hint - this man has a day in memory of him, and
it just happens to be tommorow. I learned that quote like 3 years ago
and just had to say it again and I didn't even think that tommorrow
was his day. (one lst time the hint is: Martin Luther King day is named
after this man ;>)
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face
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response 5 of 117:
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Jan 15 23:10 UTC 1995 |
Theodore Roosevelt?
Any ways, I think that I would go beyond the limits of my comfortability for
a friend, even though I shouldn't. I feel as though I have an obligation, and
it usually gets me in trouble.
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gerund
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response 6 of 117:
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Jan 16 01:23 UTC 1995 |
If that's true and you have an obligation doesn't your friend have
an obligation too?
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face
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response 7 of 117:
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Jan 16 04:07 UTC 1995 |
Yeah, probably, but I seem to have a habit of overlooking that.
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treelawn
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response 8 of 117:
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Jan 16 06:34 UTC 1995 |
I've only had one close relationship with anyone, and right now it's
going to hell. Communication is a joke, well at least between us it is.
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jemart
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response 9 of 117:
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Jan 16 07:44 UTC 1995 |
a friend is someone you would give a kidney to,if they needed it.
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eeyore
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response 10 of 117:
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Jan 16 15:28 UTC 1995 |
there are differnet levels of friendship...
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gerund
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response 11 of 117:
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Jan 16 16:48 UTC 1995 |
wanna elaborate?
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scg
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response 12 of 117:
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Jan 16 22:26 UTC 1995 |
Since I only have two kidneys, and therefore could only donate one,
jemart's statement would limit me to only one friend with kidney failure.
Should that be a best friend, or something?
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jemart
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response 13 of 117:
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Jan 16 23:09 UTC 1995 |
I would hope so. BUt if they ever pissed you off you could threaten to takr it
back.(with a spork) <Jack hopes he has at least one true friend>
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eeyore
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response 14 of 117:
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Jan 17 15:21 UTC 1995 |
there is the level of 'i will do anything to make sure nothing happens to
you or your family". there is the i like doing things with you, and would
be upset if you suddenly died, but life would eventually go on. there is
the i like talking to you in class, and we do homework together, but if
you died, i'd notice, and go on with life.
did that make any sense?
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gerund
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response 15 of 117:
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Jan 17 22:40 UTC 1995 |
Somewhat...
food for thought at the very least. :)
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avi
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response 16 of 117:
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Jan 21 23:57 UTC 1995 |
I wrote this.
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flem
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response 17 of 117:
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Jan 27 06:19 UTC 1995 |
I think that there are some things that I would not do for a true friend
, but dying isn't one of them. I've thought about this very carefully,
and I think that if one of my true friends needed, really needed it, I would
and could die for them. But there are still things I wouldn't do.
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face
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response 18 of 117:
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Jan 29 18:11 UTC 1995 |
Well, dont spare us any juicy details...what wouldnt you do?
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flem
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response 19 of 117:
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Feb 4 01:58 UTC 1995 |
Guess.
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sun
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response 20 of 117:
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Feb 5 23:12 UTC 1995 |
guess?
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face
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response 21 of 117:
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Feb 6 17:01 UTC 1995 |
Guess?
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anne
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response 22 of 117:
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Feb 6 17:14 UTC 1995 |
Blue! <there, that's my guess.>
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sun
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response 23 of 117:
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Feb 6 17:50 UTC 1995 |
Fine...you take my fave, I will take yours...
GREEN
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flem
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response 24 of 117:
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Feb 6 20:50 UTC 1995 |
Nope. Both are wrong.
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