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valerie
Circumcising babies? Mark Unseen   Jun 10 17:27 UTC 1997

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mary
response 1 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 10 20:54 UTC 1997

Good question!  We have a newborn in our family so this topic
has recently come up for discussion, but mostly by the women.
Men don't seem to have much to say about it.  How curious.
bruin
response 2 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 10 20:56 UTC 1997

No circumcision at birth, but the child could choose to be circumcised when
he is considered old enough to make that decision.
i
response 3 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 11 02:21 UTC 1997

Yes.  But done by an experienced doctor who doesn't think newborns are
magically immune to pain.

My understanding is that the medical community dropped circumcision from 
their "recommended" list for a couple decades, then saw enough health 
problems in the males who'd gotten the "improved non-treatment regimen" 
to make them switch back to recommending it.  

Kind of like getting your appendix out if you have abdominal surgury. 
otter
response 4 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 14 03:08 UTC 1997

What types of health problems were seen?
i
response 5 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 14 03:38 UTC 1997

You name it.  Mechanical irritation problems.  Increased rates of infection,
both venereal and non-venereal diseases.  Higher rates of penile cancer.
otter
response 6 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 15 13:39 UTC 1997

Ouch! Good arguements for the procedure.
headdoc
response 7 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 15 17:02 UTC 1997

I discussed this topic at some length last night with a bunch of older jewish
people, and the responses to Valerie's question were very interesting.  The
women responded that they would circumcise and all agreed that much of the
reason was because of emotional ties to tradition.  The men, most agreed that
if they could be convinced there was no medical benefit, and that the child
wouldn't be the object of derision in the shower room later on (by being
different), they would consider not circumcising a son.  

When I say all the women, I mean except me.  I am still waiting for all the
medical substaniation to come in.  Glad I dont have to make this decision any
more.  But my daughter's and their husbands may, and it will be interesting
to see what they choose.
mta
response 8 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 18 05:25 UTC 1997

I wouldn't have my sons circumcized.  It seems a cruel thing to do to a a very
tiny person who's just figuring out what life outside the womb means.

Any difficulties associated with non-circumcision are likely to be grooming
related.  If we don't teach our kids to keep themselves clean, then of course
they'll have problems.  As to STDs, hey, circumcised men get those too.
mary
response 9 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 18 13:38 UTC 1997

I see men who are coming in for minor general surgery requiring a general
or spinal anesthetic electing to have circumcisions done at the same time. 
I usually don't ask why but the few times I have I've gotten a response
that they think a circumcised penis looks better (I agree) and that being
circumcised will increase their tactile sensation during intercourse. 


An infant is calm and relaxed within minutes of this procedure
having been done.  For an adult the recovery is much longer.
I have yet to hear any man who is circumcised say he wished 
he wasn't, including my son.  
valerie
response 10 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 20 04:47 UTC 1997

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mary
response 11 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 21 03:25 UTC 1997

I would think that if men thought circumcision was not a Good Thing that,
they would indeed share their opinions and look to changing 
the practice.  I mean, we are talking about an issue here (the penis) that
is quite important to most men.  Also, there a whole lot of boys
being circumcised and their fathers are requesting and consenting
to the procedure.
aaron
response 12 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 23 00:03 UTC 1997

The popularity of circumcision has dropped considerably over the last
two decades. The most popular reasons for circumcision are ethnic/
religious, and "so he looks like dad." (Given that most American males
are circumcised, the emphasis on "looks like dad" has a significant
impact on the present rate of circumcisions.)

Problems related to non-circumcision are primarily hygiene-related, and
geriatric. Absent an unusual circumstance (e.g., phimosis), there is no
medical need for or benefit to circumcision.

This is not a subject that comes up in normal conversation. I know two
people who were strangely vocal on the subject of their non-circumcision,
who would never dream of having themselves or their children circumcised.
I have never met any man who said, "I was glad I was circumcised," or,
"I wish I had been circumcised." There probably are some -- but as I said,
it isn't normally a subject of conversation.

I don't think circumcision can be defended at all on cosmetic grounds --
an explanation frequently exposited for female circumcision. And it is
true that in nations that practice female circumcision, there are large
numbers of males who would never dream of marrying a non-circumcised
woman.

re #9:  I would not consider "she was calm and relaxed within minutes of
        the procedure to in any way justify or defend the practice of
        female circumcision. Calmness likely results from exhaustion and
        a massive endorphine rush, after several minutes of excruciating
        pain.
mary
response 13 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 23 00:38 UTC 1997

Female circumcision is a far different procedure from male
circumcision.  Female circumcision eliminates the tissue
which allows a female to have an orgasm.  Male circumcision
supposedly enhances a male's sensitivity making sex more
enjoyable. 

I don't think hundreds of thousands of fathers elect 
to have their sons curcumcised just so they will have
matching penises.  I think they have better reasons
based on what they feel is best for the child.
aaron
response 14 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 23 02:59 UTC 1997

If it is genital surgery for cosmetic reasons, Mary -- particularly
to satisfy the aesthetic preference of the partner -- there are an
awful lot of similarities. Do you have a source on that "making sex
more enjoyable" bit? I have heard quite the opposite. (It isn't
possible to do a side-by-side comparison,  after all.)

You are familiar with the anatomy, I presume. And surely you are
familiar with the fact that the layer of skin cells on the glans of
an uncircumcised penis is very thin, as compared to that on the
glans of a circumcised penis. This, Mary, results in a definite,
documented *loss* of sensitivity. Would you expect otherwise?

It is interesting to hear your speculation on why men would want (or
allow) their sons to be circumcised. However, most men are ignorant
as to the whys and wherefores. This is *not* a topic of normal
discussion. And, frankly, "looking like dad" is the most common
explanation I have heard.
mary
response 15 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 23 13:05 UTC 1997

My source is weak for the "making sex more enjoyable".  It
is solely based on adult patient's statements on why they 
are electing to have the procedure done.  I would guess
they had run their reasons through a urologist, but
maybe not.

I should probably take a printout of this discussion into
work and have a few of the urologists correct any
misinformation.
mary
response 16 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 23 13:07 UTC 1997

Too, is female cirumcision done for "cosmetic" reasons?
i
response 17 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 24 00:26 UTC 1997

Aaron, I *REALLY* don't think mary was talking about FEMALE "circumcision"
in #9.  Maybe you should check the what the subject of this item is.  Calling
the appeal of female "circumcision" "cosmetic" is about like calling the
appeal of a slave who's feet have been chopped off "cosmetic" - though there
are probably plenty of slave owners out there who'll testify to the reduced
run-away rate of footless slaves, that they wouldn't buy one with feet, etc. 

My understanding is that female "circumcision" is only popular where womens'
social status is (or has until very recently been) that of two-legged talking
cow.  Elsewhere, it's about as popular as penisectomies (which would be the
male equivalent of it).  Try ear piercing if you want a medically dubious
cosmetic procedure to compare to circumcision.
mary
response 18 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 26 01:04 UTC 1997

I spoke with two urology residents today about circumcision
and some of the questions raised in this item.  What they said:

Hygiene is a big factor for many in the decision to either
have themselves circumcised or to have their infant sons
circumcised.  Some men have a hard time keeping their
uncircumcised penis clean, quite frankly, and this can lead
to chronic low-grade infections and a higher risk of penile
cancers.

The reason parents most often give for electing their son be circumcised
is "family tradition".  (That does indeed sound a whole lot like father
wanting his son's penis to look like his.  Aaron is right.)  The second
most stated reason is ease of hygiene. Religious practice plays a part but
not a big one. 

Babies do feel pain when circumcised but they are now routinely given an
local anesthetic block which helps a great deal.  (They also agreed with
me in my observations that infants start crying the moment they are
restrained and soon after the procedure are in a restful sleep, easily
aroused, and nurse without any apparent agitation.  So it's hard to guess
at home much actual surgical pain they are experiencing.) 

Some adults come in electing to have circumcisions to enhance their sexual
pleasure (sensation).  They are told there is no guarantee this will be
the outcome.  Many men do like sex better, after circumcision, but not all
find the procedure makes a difference.  (I think that's about as close as
you can get to a side-by-side comparison, don't you think?) 

There are some men out there who have become fixated on their missing
foreskins.  They mourn for their loss.  It is a major issue in their
lives.  It is unusual and probably points to profound psychological
problems.  Parents being counseled on circumcision are routinely told that
not all adults are in agreement with the choice their parents made so long
ago. 

The current trend in the U.S. follows what has been happening in Europe
over the past 20 years - fewer and fewer male babies undergoing the
procedure (for whatever reason).  Current statistics show 70% of U.S.
males are circumcised.  In contrast, 70% of European men are
uncircumcised. 

The procedure is covered by insurance.  Doctors are not tending to take a
position on what is best as they consider it a family decision with some
pretty substantial family dynamics and sexual identity issues at the
center. Too, the hygiene issue can be a significant problem for some.
headdoc
response 19 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 26 13:37 UTC 1997

Thank you for giving us that information, Mary.  So, I gather that
circumcision is neither medically indicated or contraindicated?  Other then
hygiene issues, there appears to be little evidence that doing the procedure
or not doing it has any short or long range medical consequences?
valerie
response 20 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 26 14:20 UTC 1997

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i
response 21 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 29 00:34 UTC 1997

Thanks for the info, mary.  I think the hygene issue is enough reason to 
have it done, but it's interesting to see that it improves sex for some men.
I definitely agree that the poor guys mourning for their foreskins have a
mental, not physical, problem.
mary
response 22 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 29 13:44 UTC 1997

You should probably be skeptical about circumcision improving sex.  I was
told there really isn't a clear reason why someone with a healthy penis
would experience "better sex" after circumcision.  One doctor even agreed
with aaron that it would make sense that an always-exposed glans would be
somewhat desensitized.  Yet, some men (who can make a comparison) do
state being circumcised heightened their level of sensation during coitus. 

anderyn
response 23 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 29 16:41 UTC 1997

As I recall, we didn't really discuss whether or not to circumsize my
son, it was just assumed that it would be done (by both the doctors
and ourselves, and this was only 13 years ago). It didn't seem to
bother him -- they took him away while he was asleep, about half
an hour later, he came back, still asleep -- they said he didn't cry,
but fell asleep nearly immediately afterwards.
aaron
response 24 of 53: Mark Unseen   Jun 29 18:50 UTC 1997

You expected them to say, "It was hell for him -- sheer agony?" Not that
what they said isn't possible, but would they have told you otherwise?
Check out some pictures of babies' reactions to circumcision, sometime.
There are probably books in the library.
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