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slutkity
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Proceed gayly foreword or BI the way
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Oct 31 09:29 UTC 1995 |
I just got on this conferance today and Iwas wondering why it seems so
straight (no offence intended) so I decided to write the following
what would you look for in a Gay Lesbian Bisexual lover (GLBi) ?
What do you find romantic to do with your glbi (if you have one {or more})
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bjorn
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response 1 of 95:
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Oct 31 16:24 UTC 1995 |
As I am not entirely sure of my sexuality, I would currently classify
myself as BI (as to leave both sides open). All I would look for in
a lover in either relation is someone who likes me just the way I am.
That's an awful lot to ask, but it is the only thing that would do.
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brighn
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response 2 of 95:
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Oct 31 16:32 UTC 1995 |
You might check out the g/l/b flirt item, too, Tom... I created it for
the same reason, b/c this conf was getting eerily heterocentrist despite
the number of bi females and handful of bi guys wandering around.
Regardless of gender, I look for pretty much the same things in a lover:
friendship, compatibility, willingness to put up with my quirks, quirks
that I'm willing to put up with... I had a regular male partner for a
while, but that's faded for now, b/c of schedule conflicts. The only
sadness involved in that relationship was the amount that we felt we had
to hide our affection for each other despite our Pagan (and hence
allegedly tolerant) surroundings... something I've nee ver done with my
female lovers, at least not since high school (and there was a complicated
reason for it then).
Last night, I had a need for cuddles, and went to another board b/c the
people here were all too tied up with the reason for needing cuddles.
I ran into a bi guy friend of mine that I've had c-sex with, but which
I'd never considered much of a source for emotional support, something I'd
regretted. Of course, he started hitting on my right away, just as I'd
expected. I hugged him and told him that I just wanted to be held by
someone. I honestly thought he'd keep hitting on me, but instead he did
just what I asked him to... he help me close and stroked my hair and let
me know I was loved. It was so sweet. :)
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adania
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response 3 of 95:
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Nov 2 05:00 UTC 1995 |
I think that i would look for the same thing ineither sex. Someone who
understands.
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selena
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response 4 of 95:
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Nov 3 04:09 UTC 1995 |
Poor brighn-love! I'm glad to see that you got the love you
needed..
I look for the beauty in people, and fall in love with it
every time.. I'm a *hopeless* romantic.. The beauty on the outside
is wonderful, but what I really need is to see it inside too.. then I can
love them enough to want to express it sexually..
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phenix
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response 5 of 95:
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Nov 3 04:43 UTC 1995 |
re #3
undserstand what>
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uscblade
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response 6 of 95:
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Nov 3 06:56 UTC 1995 |
I totally agree selena.. I'm a sucker for a beautiful person
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bsktcase
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response 7 of 95:
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Nov 4 05:44 UTC 1995 |
I agree with you, tom. I thought grex was supposed to be somewhat OUTside
of the norm? (I'm female and bi, "bi the way".) Physically, I look for a
prettey face, and not someone who's overly thin. Actually, I usually prefer
somewhat plump females. Emotionally, I look for prettey much what most people
look for: someone I have things in common with, someone who understands me
(and is willing to put up with it), someone who cares.
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adania
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response 8 of 95:
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Nov 6 03:43 UTC 1995 |
Greg, It is so hard for me to explain the way ai feel about things to anyone
If there was asomeone out there who really understood, it would make my day
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phenix
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response 9 of 95:
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Nov 6 04:58 UTC 1995 |
ahhh
ok...just the wish of a soul mate
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adania
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response 10 of 95:
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Nov 7 00:58 UTC 1995 |
Isn't that what we all wish for?
*sigh*
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phenix
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response 11 of 95:
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Nov 7 02:27 UTC 1995 |
<shrug>
i would not know what everone wishes for
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seraph
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response 12 of 95:
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Nov 9 03:14 UTC 1995 |
Anyone who understood would understand.
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adania
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response 13 of 95:
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Nov 9 03:37 UTC 1995 |
<hug danla>
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phenix
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response 14 of 95:
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Nov 9 03:47 UTC 1995 |
i bow to your supiriourly confuseing logic
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bjorn
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response 15 of 95:
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Nov 9 04:05 UTC 1995 |
Logic? There is no such thing.
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otter
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response 16 of 95:
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Nov 10 09:14 UTC 1995 |
<otter gives brighn a long warm hug, just because she needs one herself>
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brighn
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response 17 of 95:
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Nov 10 17:40 UTC 1995 |
<brighn wraps his arms around kae's shoulders and allows her to melt
as much as she needs to into his chest>
Rough day, or just feeling lonely?
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selena
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response 18 of 95:
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Nov 11 03:38 UTC 1995 |
There's NOTHING wrong with thin people!!
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phenix
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response 19 of 95:
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Nov 11 03:49 UTC 1995 |
but waifs are evil.
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bjorn
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response 20 of 95:
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Nov 11 06:33 UTC 1995 |
Waifs are evil? You are generalizing. A waif might simply be an orphan, and
certainly not all orphans are evil.
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brighn
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response 21 of 95:
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Nov 11 10:28 UTC 1995 |
The only thing that is evil is evil, greg, now quite generalizing
based on looks...
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phenix
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response 22 of 95:
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Nov 11 22:06 UTC 1995 |
i meant the type of weif as in the style...the unhealthely thin models
that i can see thier bones just rotting away...they have no body fat and
almost no muscle, and are basically animated skeletons with skin.
perhaps i should change evil to dangerous, since being under wight can prove
just as fatal as beign overwight
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brighn
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response 23 of 95:
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Nov 11 23:30 UTC 1995 |
YEs, true, Greg, that's something that's been on my mind quite a bit
the last few days...
But, yes, there's nothing wrong with thin, there's something wrong
with *deliberately* thin...
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selena
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response 24 of 95:
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Nov 12 05:45 UTC 1995 |
Right.. it's not like I *try* to be 110 lbs, and 5'7"..
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