kafiend
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Net vs. "reality"
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May 15 22:12 UTC 2000 |
how long is it before we actaully bridge the gap between our physical "selves"
and our "on-line personias"?
i like to think that my alias is/has always been an extention of the "real
me", however, with the benifits of a certian perversed sense of security and
anonimity that i find i miss at times when i'm not basking in the warm
soothing glow of my terminal.
i've always treated text based coversations with as much validity and
caring/emotion/blah blah blah as i do with conversations that occur in "real
life". Most of my good friends that i have met in the last eight years have
either started or matured from anonymous blocks of text.
So? it's real, but is actually "so real" to the majority of internet users?
Most people are shocked to hearthat i met my girlfriend on a bbs. (no, we
didn't "cyber date" but we did form opinions of each other based only on
unbiased blocks of text before actually "meeting") to me this is perfectly
logical, i'm on the internet upwards of five hours a day and i hate bars,
where else would i meet a "mate"?
i'm not sure what i'm really getting at here (and if you've read this far and
are muttering under your breath about my babble, i apologise)
i'd just like to put forth the question: how "real" is it to you?
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arakune
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response 3 of 9:
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Jun 13 23:02 UTC 2000 |
How "real" is an internet persona? I'd say no more or less real than
any other persona we exhibit. Certainly, there is the bot problem. We
can be reasonably sure that anyone we interact with F2F is an actual
living breathing sentient being (well, perhaps not always sentient =P).
Online, its embarrassingly easy to be duped by a secretary or other
bot.
But I digress.
I think what you're asking is whether our internet persona is an
accurate copy of our F2F persona. It can be, but isn't necessarily. But
what of it? Evenin the flesh, many people are high self-monitors. We
modify our behavior to suit our environment and our audience, often
without thinking about it. The freedom to do it online is even greater,
because suddenly you aren't restricted by a static physical identity.
With just a few clicks on the keyboard, you can change your gender,
age, nationality, and every other label which is hard to shrug in the
flesh. Is that representation "real"? As real as anything is the 'net.
Which is to say, that its a sort of self-contained reality. Its real
*on* the 'net, and if that's the limit of your interactions, then
that's the end of it. Your offline identity is a separate entity; the
two don't overlap. Afterall, online we're all just bits of data, not
physical bodies. There *is* no gender, age, or nationality. And any
visual representation we ascribe to our own bit of data is accessory.
Features we can choose, but are by no means inherent or self-defining.
Yes, some people chose an icon which corresponds to their offline
identity, but I wouldn't consider that to be any more "real" or
legitimate than one which is wholly and deliberately constructed.
As far as *personality* goes, and the way we portray online vs off....
again, I consider the two to be distinct and equally valid. And again,
for many people there is a strong overlap between. Even so, numerous
studies have indicated that people are more familiar, prone to greater
levels of self-disclosure, and to react in less inhibited ways during
computer-mediated communication, as compared to F2F. Not everyone, not
always, but generally speaking..... So in that sense, chances are the
person you're talking to online is more reserved in the flesh. There's
always the possiblity that the person you are talking to online is
completely different from how they would be in the flesh. That the
online persona is a construct (which I would argue is still just
as "real"). Its easy to do, and for some people an entertaining
excercise. But then, its just as possible that the person you picked up
at the club last night was "faking" it as well. So this sort of
deception (if you regard it as such. I prefer to think of it as an
example of the fluidity of identity =P) is more about human
interactions than it is about the internet in particular.
Eek! I rambled. The short answer, for me, would be: yes its real. But
while the temptation is great, I generally don't map that online
persona onto the flesh and blood person without a certain amount of
caution. Yes, it usually translates well (with only a few growing pains
along the way). But I've had enough experience to realize that it
doesn't always.
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ed
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response 5 of 9:
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Jul 6 22:50 UTC 2001 |
here's my two cent's worth...
alternate and enhanced realities have been around since the year dot. The
earliest recorded example was the Aborigine dreamtime legent which was treated
as almost a seperate layer of reality that crossed normal boundaries etc...
familiar?
you people are taking all this too seriously. Remember- most communication
between human beings exists on a sub-textual level, through things like body
language and emotional cues (far more subtle ones then emoticons, i might
add).
the level of communication that passes back and forth between two people who
are typing into a screen interface is several orders of magnitude less than
that experienced between two people face to face. This is the simple and
inevitable result of a contest between a system that has existed less than
fifty years and a system that has evolved ove aeons.
frankly, net communications cannot hope to compete in efficiency or content
than tradition methods... yet.
remember- we are still taking are first stumbling steps into your new world,
and frankly we haven't yet learned how to wipe our arses one handed yet.
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