response 60 of 108:

Jan 19 19:47 UTC 2004

Re #56, last paragraph:  "I'd say once she deleted her own, she
established a precedent by which she had to delete mine when I
asked her to."

I don't buy that reasoning.  When Valerie stated a non-existent
"long-standing Grex policy that users are allowed to delete their
own items," in Item 68, I came in very quickly with a correction,
well before the divorce items were deleted.  At some point in the
ensuing discussion, Valerie indicated that she may have been
mis-remembering policy.  Making a mistake once does not obligate
a person to repeat it.

(Unfortunately, Valerie's contributions to the discussion are no
longer part of the public record, so I can't quote specifically
what she said.)