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popcorn
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How does that ideal Special Someone behave?
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Mar 20 04:08 UTC 1995 |
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general
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response 1 of 219:
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Mar 20 14:03 UTC 1995 |
I like a girl whose not afraid to get dirty. The kind who, for example, if
they have to disect something in Biology, they slice it open and cram their
hands in. Female cops appeal to me, but they're way older than myself. If they
want to stay with me, they have to learn to respect the friends i have already
made because, like it or not, they got there first. Women who don't give you
their input on anything and then complain that we never do anything that THEY
want to do really turn me off. And last but not least, they can't be clingy,
someone who has to be with me every second. If they are, then it's not gonna
work.
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zook
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response 2 of 219:
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Mar 20 17:08 UTC 1995 |
Intelligence, kindness, honesty, and the willingness to display all three.
I really despise smart women who go out of their way to act stupid, just
because that's "what they're supposed to do" (whatever that means).
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janc
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response 3 of 219:
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Mar 22 00:06 UTC 1995 |
Precise grammar, ability to crow like a rooster, tendancy to hide under
furniture, good golf stroke, arcane knowledge, garlic breath, crack shot
with a bazooka, apologetic kleptomania, puts fingers in ears and says
"I can't hear you woo-woo-woo-woo," knows when to walk away, calls parents
by first names, gets lost in shopping malls, knows who invented the
bulldozer, and never ever rats on cats.
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anig
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response 4 of 219:
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Mar 22 00:16 UTC 1995 |
I love a guy who is honest, smart, caring, spontaneous, and full of
life. The last two are very important because they make the guy
fun to be with!:)
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scratch
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response 5 of 219:
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Mar 22 03:14 UTC 1995 |
I love a guy who loves me for myself, doesn't give me any shit, and a
guy who can have sex forever.
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anig
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response 6 of 219:
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Mar 22 06:31 UTC 1995 |
Welcome to Grex Patches! (another fellow McKendrean!)
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nephi
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response 7 of 219:
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Mar 22 07:16 UTC 1995 |
Hi scratch! Welcome to Grex!
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helmke
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response 8 of 219:
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Mar 22 11:59 UTC 1995 |
Intelligent, and not afraid to show it...Won't give or take any crap to/from
me. Also somebody who is good at some things - nothing specific, but who
has some specialties.
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eeyore
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response 9 of 219:
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Mar 22 12:43 UTC 1995 |
somebody willing to put up with my really nasty temper, and gives as good
as they get, so that i don't steam-roller 'em. needs good sense of humor.
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birdlady
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response 10 of 219:
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Mar 22 14:14 UTC 1995 |
Someone with a sense of humor (can make me laugh), intelligent, impulsive,
creative, talkative, open-minded, likes to dance, and has the initials C.F.M.
;) Love ya darlin'!
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otterwmn
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response 11 of 219:
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Mar 22 22:50 UTC 1995 |
I am blessed with a wonderful husband. Important to me: wit, ability to debate/
challenge my brain, willingness to listen, patience, playfulness, consideration
for the feelings of others, ability to trust. Big bonus: did not try to find
the quickest route into my pants when we met. We are friends and partners.
Good luck to the rest of you.
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anne
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response 12 of 219:
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Mar 22 22:53 UTC 1995 |
(this is now linked with oathbound, it's item #30)
What do I look for? Hmm, someone I can care about, someone who can make
me laugh. Who likes to spend time with me, and talk to me. Someone who
gives back rubs... :) Intelligence is a definite plus...
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raytlee
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response 13 of 219:
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Mar 23 07:36 UTC 1995 |
My track record suggests Scorpios. I haven't decided if that is ideal or
trouble yet.
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popcorn
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response 14 of 219:
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Mar 23 15:07 UTC 1995 |
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rcurl
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response 15 of 219:
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Mar 23 16:13 UTC 1995 |
Would you describe your cleanliness scale of 1 to 10 for us?
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dang
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response 16 of 219:
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Mar 23 20:59 UTC 1995 |
Well, I look for inteligence, primarily. She has to be able to challenge
my mind,to be willing to debate with me on anything at the drop of a hat.
She has to have a good sense of humor, but more importantly, she has to
understand mine. She has to be adaptable, because I am kindof
unpredictable. She has to take what I can give, and not give in. She has
to be independant, and not let me take over. I want a partner, not a servent.
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eeyore
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response 17 of 219:
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Mar 24 03:39 UTC 1995 |
i will NOT say it...i will NOT say it...:)
i have yet to understand why beauty seems to be such a big part of what
people look for in mates. (this is not to say that anybody here has mentioned
it, but just society in general). as far as i'm concerned, looks aren't
worth a damn. gimmee strong willed, good humor, and somebody willing just
to let me be myself, somebody who is willing NOT to necessarily fit in with
the crowd...willing to make decesions for themselves, willing to let me make
decisions for myself.
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general
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response 18 of 219:
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Mar 24 03:48 UTC 1995 |
I have to say that I've never met a girl that didn't have something beautiful
on the outside. If it's not here eye's it's her hair or (things I won't get
into, otherwise I might OFFEND somebody.) Since I've been fourteen, I've
never seen an ugly girl..there is no such thing.
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eeyore
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response 19 of 219:
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Mar 24 03:59 UTC 1995 |
i like that way of thinking! unfortunately, tho, society doesn't agree with
that idea...the perfact person has to have the right measurements, the right
hair, eyes, clothes, and skip the personality!
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nephi
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response 20 of 219:
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Mar 24 05:19 UTC 1995 |
Boy, eeyore. In #17 you described TS to a tee. Maybe you two should
get together.
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carl
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response 21 of 219:
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Mar 24 10:32 UTC 1995 |
I'd be attracted to someone intelligent with good "people
skills." My easiest guide is to listen for how often a person
uses the word "should" in any context. Beyond that, I'd like to
meet a gal that likes to spend time outdoors and going to dances,
festivals, movies, etc. I also very much enjoy personal
conversation about feelings, awareness and growth.
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popcorn
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response 22 of 219:
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Mar 24 16:27 UTC 1995 |
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other
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response 23 of 219:
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Mar 24 17:45 UTC 1995 |
My ideal companion is educated (self- or otherwise), intelligent, capable,
competent, and supremely civilized. And they know moderately well when not
to be. They are not confounded by inescapable routine. They are human,
humane, able to be sensitive sensual and simplistic as the occasion requires,
and appreciate recognition, but do not wither without it.
The more I write in this response, the less happy I am with what it conveys.
Consider the list of requirements to be complete as of the first sentence.
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dang
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response 24 of 219:
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Mar 24 18:05 UTC 1995 |
Well, this is supposed to be an ideal, isn't it?
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